why are older guys always checking me out

[mexicano]

whats wrong with shopping at walmart or target, and there is nothing wrong with looking like a white boy, i am just saying i dont look like one, i have dark hair and tanned skin

 

[mike0501]

Are you a Congressional Page?

 

[BrandonSBCA]

whats wrong with shopping at walmart or target, and there is nothing wrong with looking like a white boy, i am just saying i dont look like one, i have dark hair and tanned skin

So do I. I look Mexican, but it seems people are afraid of me (cholos gangsters), I'd pay 5 bucks to an older man to check me out. Hell I went to Palm Springs supposively the area with tons of older men, not a single older man checked me out.

Also if it grosses you out just ignore it. God I'd so love to be in your position to have an older man hit on me or check me out, hell he could be 40 years old and in shape.

 

[davy]

^ ditto

ditto
ditto

 

[mexicano]

So do I. I look Mexican, but it seems people are afraid of me (cholos gangsters), I'd pay 5 bucks to an older man to check me out. Hell I went to Palm Springs supposively the area with tons of older men, not a single older man checked me out.

Also if it grosses you out just ignore it. God I'd so love to be in your position to have an older man hit on me or check me out, hell he could be 40 years old and in shape.

Really i have always liked cholos, thats what i am attracted to

 

[mexicano]

a cholo is a thug or gangsta

 

[BrandonSBCA]

a cholo is a thug or gangsta

I don't look like a cholo, but since a lot of people dress like them here in California you start having people get nervous, paranoid, and scared of all Mexicans because they think they are a threat. I dress nicely, casual, hell I even get the same attitude when I'm around people at the mall, at school they look at me as if I'm going to rob them.

Anyways back to the topic of older guys. Nothing wrong with that, one day you'll reach their age, you might even start wanting younger guys just like they do. They want younger guys to make them feel young again. They mean no harm, like I said in the last post I made, if it bothers you just ignore them.

I've heard many stories about young guys sucking off older men in the bathrooms at Wal Mart, it might be sick to some people on this message board but to others its a real turn on.

 

[james1200]

amen to cholos for me too...nuthin's better than a thug boy...

but back to the original question...if you don't want people staring at ya at walmart, stop wearing this...

 

[mexicano]

I have the same "problem"......most of the guys that are extremely interested in me are way beyond my age threshold. It's one of the reasons I took off the face pics on this website because there were one or two older men that made some comments that really freaked me out. That and in a seperate post someone said they were printing people's photos and JO to them...which is just way too stalkerish for my taste.


Even in chatrooms its the older guys that try and talk to you and its because they're lonely and like younger men (I'm talking 50+ btw).

The best advice is just to ignore them and don't respond, response can invite more unwanted advances.

When men are that aggressive and reak of desperation they come off as vampires trying to suck the youth out of attractive younger men, like that episode of Angel.

I knew i wasnt the only one with this problem

 

[BrandonSBCA]

I knew i wasnt the only one with this problem

Well at least you don't feel alone. Too bad I'm totally the opposite.

 

[Joshua_me]

Goodness !

Well, I think we all need to take a little time out for a deep breath
And perhaps some personal reflection.....

*Breathe Deeply* everyone !

There.

Isn't that better ?

Clean up on aisle four,

Dr. Josh

 

[Lostlover]

I knew i wasnt the only one with this problem

You could be attractive to them. That's a complement.

Not really a "problem".

 

[jm78209]

i thought i was the only one! i guess the older men in san antonio are just dirty