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Why at 26 do I still have trouble with gay life and knowing what I want out of it

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I seem to always have trouble with making friends and I find myself more and more removed from the desire to go out to gay clubs , at 26 just don't feel like hiting up clubs on there "collegeparty" nights and dealing with bratty little twinks which seems to be predominatly all the clubs in my area are about.I don't do drugs I really don't even want to go out and drink so I seem to once again after years of going with the flow feel myself sticking out like a sore thumb and not enjoying things like most people my age seem to be doing.I sometimes wonder if there is more that gay life has to offer I am just not going to find it in my area where kids are sucked in and grow up believing life begins and ends around night clubs.
 
Why must you have a "gay life"? Just have a life..Just because you are gay doesnt mean all your friends have to be gay or you must hit the bars every night to have fun..I go about 5 times a year and thats plenty..You can meet people inmany different places so just be yourself and quit trying to be something you are not and enjoy life!
 
It's time to find gay friends that aren't into that scene as you aren't. It's easier to go to the clubs with gay friends who aren't into party favors and drama too. Find gay men friends like yourself online and meet up with them.
 
I'm moving this thread to CO&R to get feedback from the regulars there...
 
Well, it sounds like you are outgrowing the Peter Pan syndrome.

No one forced you to only hang around clubs for the last 8 years of your life. There were lots of other opportunities to meet great gay guys with real interests beyond partying.

But it isn't too late.

The usual advice applies.

Join an organization. Volunteer for something. Go back to school...just for fun. Go to the opera or ballet. Take up running or some other sport.

You'll find lots of guys.
 
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