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Why do guys my age fall for guys his age???

perigrine

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Okay, it's late, so I will keep it short. I have a MySpace page, cute 20y/o hits me up for a quick hookup. I call him back, leave a message. Don't hear from him for about a month, since then we have played phone tag and sent messages back and forth until now. I assume the girlfriend/boyfriend/roomate/pastor is out of town for the holidays and my boi wants some strange.

I know this is a bad idea, but why am I going to drive 2 hours on the off chance this is legit?

Sad & Desperate :help:

Peri
 
forget it get photo print keep drive 2 hours for what play with your self then no hassle
 
My friend is in the same position as you, and he got played so many times that he no longer trusts guys at 20 years old, because they say they are, but some are just underage wanting to get some.

Also if you want the question on your title thread answered, a lot of guys your age want guys because that's usually what the gay community offers, mostly younger good looking guys. Want younger guys to make them feel young. That's been my idea, but I have many different beliefs on this, so don't attack me for only saying one thought about the question.
 
there are twenty somethings local...why travel...its not like the only 20 somethings into older guys live 2 hours away. Plus I dont think you can expect anyone under 25 and maybe 30 to stick to any sort of decision whatsoever anyway
 
gotdimples77 said:
Plus I dont think you can expect anyone under 25 and maybe 30 to stick to any sort of decision whatsoever anyway
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Hmpf!

Are you trying to say us young pups are scatterbrained?

j/k ;)

Peri, I agree with Dimples, go out and move about and find someone locally. There's someone for everyone.
 
Check his ID, Check his ID, Check his ID!!!

And why do guys your age fall for guys his age? Well, you must be idealizing him because you haven't even met him yet.

I like Brandon's theory. Here is mine. You're falling in love with a younger version of yourself, one that had emotional and physical needs that never got met. So you empathize with this guy and build a picture of him in your head that subconciously is you. And now you want to give that boy the same love and attention that you never had. Throw in your libido and the recipe is done.
 
Re: Why do guys my age fall for guys his age??? The Finale

Hi Guys!

Since you all have been so kind and provided some valuable insight into my frail mental state, I thought I should share with you what transpired. I left a wedding reception early (not mine!), traveled 1 1/2 hours to see him. I called him 3-4 times along the way and when I arrived at a local motel. I then got a room for the night, and fell asleep thinking I had been totally had when he called around 4 in the fucking morning (he often calls after midnight). He apologized for not returning my calls sooner, something about his cell reception, and offered to come right over. Well, at this point my dick takes over thinking for me, and it tells him where I am staying. He shows up about 20 minutes later, pretty drunk and smelling of cigarettes (I didn't know he smoked).

We fumble about for about 30-40 minutes, I blow him, he cums. Then he offers to "get a cool vibrator out of his car". I forgot to mention that he is very cute, and had a lovely dick, so I said sure. He offered to bring back some rum he had as well (lord knows where he had it). I being the gracious host, said "sure", and handed him the ice bucket and ask him to bring back some ice. About 15 minutes goes by, I am hard and in my underwear and he is nowhere to be found. 30 minutes later I jerked off to a porno disc I had with me and fell asleep. The next morning I found my ice bucket on a table in the lobby. I hope he got home okay, but at this point I am done. This turned out pretty much the way I expected; at least he didn't shake me down for money or totally flake on me. I am writing this here with the hope that all of you will serve as witnesses. "I will never get involved with 20-year old boys again". 22 year old boys, well that's a different matter. ;)
 
One trick you can use to be sure he is of age is having him buy smokes or beer at a place where they scan ID or something, like indirectly be like.. He can you get me this inside while you pump gas.. its sometimes works... otherwise ask his mom.. j/k
 
come on, i can be that smart in not wanting to drive so many miles to meet some hot guy that i met over myspace. the whole phone situation distinctively reminds me of my past with these stupid ass guys who want to play games with my mind. it's not healthy for some guy to give you their number and that person didn't want to talk to you to begin with. if it's been a month, i would seriously dump that number in the trash and wouldn't pick up on the first ring. i'm sensing some booty call in this kind of situation. but that's just me though.
 
I figured thats what would of happened to you. Not to be totally shallow here, but thats the main reason a lot of older guys get hurt by these so called cute young guys, they eventually take advantage of them, some of them will milk the shit out of you for money, and they will continue to do it by sweet talking you, or apologizing each chance they get.

I've had plenty of OLDER men talk me tell me that they are having this cute 18 year old, or good looking 21 year old guy. Then eventually they 1. Make an excuse up through a message the next day. 2. Never call them. 3. Call them and say they are coming and have you sitting there like a fool waiting for them to come over.

It's a sad world but thats basically how young guys treat older men. Yes there are guys that are telling the truth, that something came up and they had to go, but then there are some that just up and leave. If they were never interested in you then the least they could of done was make it known instead of making stupid excuses and apologize when it would end up happening again.
 
It's a sad world but thats basically how young guys treat older men.
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All the guys, young and old, good and bad, cute and ugly will treat you badly, if you only let them. Not always. And not absolutely every guy out there is like that, but many dudes will go for it.

Recognize the reality of your situation: there is a huge number of 'older dudes', who are after 'hot, young guys in their early 20's'. That's a well-known fact of life.

Obviously, a few young dudes see this as 'an opening'. They have got the looks. You have got the money. They are desirable and 'not in need'. You are not that 'desirable' any more and would really love to get your rocks off with a younger dude. So, you'll do, whatever it takes... They might be young. They even might be very manipulative and dishonest. But they ain't necessarily dumb.

Do not underestimate their wits and do not overestimate the value of your experience.

The moment they see that you are willing to drive for 2 hours to hook up with a guy you have never seen before and you really do not know much about, except for the fact that he was not returning your calls in the past and that he was disrespectful of you and your time, you are an easy prey. You are signalling hopelessness on all the frequencies.

Do not go there.

Hope is not a plan. Determine, why would a hunky 20-some cute dude frankly go for you? What is it that you have and are willing to share with him? What is it that brings you to the front of the race, if you will.

Communicate your advantage and you'll be surprised at the results.

Yup. It is a no-brainer that youth and very good looks attract a great many people. But actually, no matter how many guys are after you, very few are really offering anything more than just the 'plain, ole sex and nothing else'.

Show a substantial advantage, and you rule.

Just the way the cookie crumbles these days...

SC
 
When in a questionable hook-up, I find it best to see what the other will do first.

I've no problem finishing someone after I'm done.

But sadly, the story you tell is not uncommon.
 
I am glad you didn't end up on Dateline lol.
They will trick you to come to a place if the person you want to meet up with is under age. :)
 
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