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Why do people enjoy playing with other people´s feelings?

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It seems that feelings are so easy to play with. One day you say wonderful things to someone and the next day you say "I don´t want to see your face anymore"?

It is not nice.
 
elvin1 said:
I know exactly what you mean.....(*8*)

Maybe because they find it fun to hurt other people...:confused:
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esss true! some people are just JERKS in general. i could go on and on about the psychology behind their behavior, but the bottom line is: they are jerks.
hugs all around!
 
Yes i knew a man like that. Real A hole.

The thing is they can only mess with your feelings if you give them the power to do so.

Dont give up the power and then no one gets hurt.

Bu i dont know what satisfaction is to be gained from playing around with peoples emotions, it might be psychological in nature.

But it all comes down to the power.
 
Perhaps they get a sense of enjoyment over the power they have over people? Once they are in people's favour they take pleasure in abusing their trust and throwing it back into their face. It could be other factors.
 
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Personal opinion here and you are free to chastise me if you wish, but I think the tendancy for this to happen, happenes more with homosexual males.

When you read and see all the postings and threads about who and how many people are dating is it any surprise that good open communications are not taking place as going on at the same time is a look for the next ass to fuck and or the next cock to suck.

If the focus of attention are on the fucking sex and the fucking seeing this great looking guy and or seeking this sexy guy at work and on an on it goes it should come as no surprise about all the "fun and games" people are playing.

Toss into that the factor of insensitivity, egocentricity, the well known narcisium and all the ingredients are there for just meeting a guy, getting to bed, and then thinking well maybe I can find someone better on the other side of the yellow brick road.

I mean people it tends to work this way - if I can be sensitive to you and your needs, why the fuck can't you be just as sensitivie towards my needs and feelings. The world does not resolve just around one person although some people seem to think so.

An example if I might - a thread has appeared stating this person has just ended a relationship of many years. And they are looking for some advice on how to handle what is going on and what to do. I am often acussed of being dumb, stupid, out of sync, naive, and other things as the local village idiot, but the last I heard about this individual, earlier this year, he was in a threesome. Is there something I am missing here people?:confused: :confused: :confused: Should this person manage to meet someone - will the inconsistentcy be mentioned and or just over looked? Of course the other side of the coin could be that all I am aware to begin with is not true and it is all a figment of my imagination.

A film comes to mind: "Sunday Bloody Sunday" - Peter Finch and Glenda Jackson

Alex (Glenda Jackson): I've had this business: "Anything is better than nothing." There are times when nothing *has* to be better than anything.

What more need one say?
 
Croynan said:
When you read and see all the postings and threads about who and how many people are dating is it any surprise that good open communications are not taking place as going on at the same time is a look for the next ass to fuck and or the next cock to suck.
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it's true, A LOT of it has to do with communication. people are jerks in general, but there are plenty of times that the lack of stating what you really want (or don't want) is problematic and causes the situation to go awry.

speaking from experience, there is no absolute answer either. despite my verbatim and vocal statements of not wanting a boyfriend to this guy who i went out with 3 times, he kept pushing his agenda hoping to change my mind, and later tried to make it sound like i was being a jerk.

*shrug* :-)
 
newboy12 said:
...The thing is they can only mess with your feelings if you give them the power to do so.

Dont give up the power and then no one gets hurt...
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You're right! When people do that they are on some sort of power trip!
 
usually when a man plays with anothers emotioms its because they are full of themesleves and think they are some grand prize.
 
Welcome to my family! :rolleyes: Well. some of them, anyway.

(I shouldn't diss my whole family.)
 
I don't have a clue, but it sure seems to happen a lot with me. :-\
 
ds_writr said:
Well, I think that when someone enjoys messing with the feelings of others, its because that person is a sociopath.
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Or maybe that person is just so insecure, this is his only way of dealing with it.
 
Croynan said:
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Personal opinion here and you are free to chastise me if you wish, but I think the tendancy for this to happen, happenes more with homosexual males.
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eM, I tend to agree with you on this one.
 
hunky: It's no exaggeration when I say that I've been the victim of this a lot. It's the main reason why I (at first) generally distrust people.

In the long run, most people are only out for themselves anyway.
 
"Why do people enjoy playing with other people´s feelings?"

If they do it on purpose=They are sad people who needs attention.They can't see people happy with their things.(Sins: Jelousy & Greed.Solution: Pray,seek truth & listen to motivational speakers & read motivational books)

If they don't do it on purpose=That's just the way they are.Environment has brought them up like that.(Sins: Naive & Lost.Solution: Need to put some efforts for guidance.)

If they enjoy doing it even though they know its a mean thing to do= Going to hell.
 
Croynan said:
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Personal opinion here and you are free to chastise me if you wish, but I think the tendancy for this to happen, happenes more with homosexual males.

What more need one say?[/B]
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I don't think that the urge for manipulation makes any discrimination on sexual orientation. What you just said there about ego-centric behaviours, "fun and games" can be also be said about straight people, male or female.
 
Isn't that just life though? I can't remember the last time I met a genuine, nice, normal, friendly, all together person. The trick is trying to find the people who are at the same level of insanity that you're at.
 
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