Why is it now i'm starting to fap once a day, my penis is more sensitive but in an 'excited' way?

[HornyBrit]

Before I used to fap around two to three times a week. But now that I have nothing to do, I've started doing it more regularly and I've found that even though i'm uncircumcised that my penis is much more sensitive and almost after 5 minutes of fapping, I want to ejaculate already. Before I could go 30-40 minutes and not get to that stage yet and have much more control.

This is annoying because if I were to have sex with a guy then I wouldn't last long at all

Is this normal? Or am I becoming more horny?

 

[guyfromNY]

fap???????????????????????????/

 

[HornyBrit]

fap???????????????????????????/

Sorry about that...

When I say fap, it means masturbate.

 

[Howlly]

Lol fap, I didn't realise people still use that term. Didn't that originate in 4chan or something? Idk.

Anyway, I don't know, I "fap" a couple of times a day, and I don't notice a change in the amount of time it takes. But people do say the more you masturbate the higher your sex drive in the long run. I have excellent control over myself when it comes to cumming, which I have learned over the years, my advice would be to learn to control it whilst still masturbating as much as you want to.

 

[Georgiadude]

What your experiencing is common. I've seen other threads on here about the same thing. Your not lasting as long may be due to the fact that you know exactly what gets you off. The right speed, the right spot on your penis to rub, the right friction, etc. Your doing it more often because it feels good and you like that sensation. There's nothing wrong with doing it as often as you feel like it. As long as your not harming yourself (chafing or things like that) or avoiding contact with others to enjoy time alone, your fine. Edging can help you last longer. jo until your very close to cumming and then slow way down or even stop. It will help you gain some control and learn how to last longer.

Hope that helps.

Oh, Welcome to JUB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Steven.

 

[HornyBrit]

I have excellent control over myself when it comes to cumming, which I have learned over the years, my advice would be to learn to control it whilst still masturbating as much as you want to.

how did you learn to have great control?

What your experiencing is common. I've seen other threads on here about the same thing. Your not lasting as long may be due to the fact that you know exactly what gets you off. The right speed, the right spot on your penis to rub, the right friction, etc. Your doing it more often because it feels good and you like that sensation. There's nothing wrong with doing it as often as you feel like it. As long as your not harming yourself (chafing or things like that) or avoiding contact with others to enjoy time alone, your fine. Edging can help you last longer. jo until your very close to cumming and then slow way down or even stop. It will help you gain some control and learn how to last longer.

You're right. I am getting to know how to work my penis better during masturbation. The right spot, the speed, etc and it's not harmful at all. Before it used to get sore when I did it once a day but there's no discomfort any more and not doing it dangerously.

And I sometimes edge but I find that if I do it too much in one session then I'll accidentally ejaculate and it becomes ruined for me.

But it's annoying because I think that's what might happen when I actually have sex. I want better control and not to cum within minutes of being with the guy

Thank you for your welcome

 

[Georgiadude]

Your Welcome

May I ask how old you are? How long are you able to jo without climaxing? Sometimes I accidentally cum while edging. It happens. It's great practice right? lol. It's very common for younger guys to have premature ejaculation. As you age you will learn control and will be able to hold it off. Having said that I still have times when I lose it faster than I wanted to. it just depends on the other guy, how turned on I am, how long it's been since I jo or had sex. There's an endless number of factors.

Steven

 

[HornyBrit]

Your Welcome

May I ask how old you are? How long are you able to jo without climaxing? Sometimes I accidentally cum while edging. It happens. It's great practice right? lol. It's very common for younger guys to have premature ejaculation. As you age you will learn control and will be able to hold it off. Having said that I still have times when I lose it faster than I wanted to. it just depends on the other guy, how turned on I am, how long it's been since I jo or had sex. There's an endless number of factors.

Steven

I'm 19 years old and i'm a virgin. Before I used to masturabte for over an hour, probably around 1 hour and 30 mins.

And it's more frustrating than anything

 

[Georgiadude]

I'm 19 years old and i'm a virgin. Before I used to masturabte for over an hour, probably around 1 hour and 30 mins.

And it's more frustrating than anything

I was pretty sure you were going to be in your late teens or early twenties. First. Don't worry about being a virgin or let anyone pressure you into having sex. When your ready you'll know. There's absolutely nothing wrong with your control. You said you can last for an hour or more. I read somewhere the other day the average time actual intercourse lasts is around seven minutes. That's not counting foreplay etc. Of course you will probably pull the trigger faster when your with someone and theres nothing wrong with that. With experience you will learn how to last longer. For now your worrying about nothing. DON'T compare yourself to porn either. They start and stop a lot and edit the vid to make it look like the guys can go forever. It's simply not reality.

Steven