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Why is sexuality so complicated

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Between guys and girls I'm more attracted to women than men. If say I watch porn, a woman can keep me aroused whereas gay porn I more often than not have to keep myself aroused.

However where it gets tough is a friend of mine who is gay, we sometimes chat if you know what I'm saying and I get off amazingly with him. We have exchanged pics and he's really big and if I look at his picture not only do I get hard, but I stay hard.

He's the only guy that can keep me hard and get me off.

I've tried to see if other guys can turn me on, but I lose interest in them. I've gone through the whole am I gay, bi, straight? Since I am still turned on by women I'm not gay. Bi I suppose, but in a sense I'm bi for only one guy.

Can anyone relate
 
Why don't you try giving and receiving oral (in real life) with this guy you've only interacted with, virtually?

Maybe then, you'll be able to gauge to what degree of a bisexual you are.

You'll never know how nice the water is, lest you take the plunge, head first!
 
I'm guessing you have an emotional & physical attraction with your male gay friend. Physical alone does not do it for you when it comes to men.

Start meeting and making new attractive male gay friends to see if they can get you hard.
 
Honestly my attraction to him is more pyshical. I don't have feelings for him. I love him as a friend. Known him about a decade now.

But I'm not really emotionally involved in regards to a relationship.
 
I've thought about it. But worried. Can we say for certain he won't want more?

Lets say I don't. Does it hurt the friendship?

Hell lets say I want more what if he doesn't?

Again does it hurt the friendship? We've been friends a long time so more at risk
 
I say go for it. But talk openly with each other before you do. Tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him you wont know how you will feel afterwards. The biggest thing is you reassure him that this wont effect your friendship on your side. And see to it that you keep up on that promise. See what his thoughts are by asking him. Im sure he wants to try something with you very badly.
Now someone said you have an emotional attraction to him, this doesnt mean your in love with him you just have a strong bond with him you dont have with other guys, absolutely nothing is wrong with that.
I have a strong bond with my best friend and we fooled around. Not anymore though, sucks. I was madly in love with him though but way before we ever did anything.
We are still best friends, live together but no sex. For some reason he is completely shut down by the idea. I think he tries to hard to be straight as if other people can see whats going on.
Good luck to you. You will love it!
 
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