Why is this happen to me?

[screwnutty]

Hey there Myfriendx08.

Been there. Done that and I own the T-shirt. The only "boyfriend" I ever had in the end left me for a girl too. Saying that he wasn't gay or bi...just confused. Well he was confused a long, long time I guess. Since we meet in Grade 10 and ended up living together in college. A total of 14 years (give or take)

Now he's never came back to me. He won't talk to me and when he sees me in public he runs the other way or leaves the store/mall that were in. He's still with the same girl and there planning on getting married. Him and me still talk to the same group of friends. (half of them believe me and the other half believe him)

Now what can you do. First off. Don't take revenge...it's not worth it. Second, get out and find stuff to do in order to get your mind off of him. third, don't take him back if he does come back.

Life is too short to worry about one stupid jackass. The guy of your dreams or at least the one that will float your boat is out there waiting for you to find him. I can't say how long it's going to take. Cause it's been almost 5 years for me and I've got nothing...nobody's interested in me.

But embrace your singlehood. Enjoy it. Don't think on the negative parts, focus on making new friends and hanging out with old friends. Time will come someday.



Good luck buddy and feel free to pm me or msn me if you ever need to chat about things okay....I don't have all the answers but I've been told that I'm a great listener!

 

[G-Lexington]

Living well is the best revenge. He's dumped you TWICE. He's not worth thinking about anymore. Get up, find yourself a good guy, and live a great life. And if he calls back, hang up.

Lex

 

[texan_slant]

Pick yourself up by the bootstraps and enjoy being single. When the time is right, love will happen again.

They say that before you can even share your life with someone else, you gotta learn to be single and on your own two feet. That way - you learn about yourself and rely on yourself for your internal happiness whenever you need to.

 

[alley]

Take this as a learning experience and never go backwards---when a relationship is over let it die...I've made my own mistakes that cost far too much time from my own life.

 

[Just_Believe18]

Nothing you can do except move on. Take comfort in the fact that a man like that will never be happy with life. The grass will always be greener on the other side to him. He will move from relationship to relationship and never find satisfaction. He will die old, lonely, and miserable. You will move on and find new love, success, and inner peace. There is no greater satisfaction.

 

[rareboy]

Just move on.

The heart wants what it wants. You weren't it. Just hope they'll both be happy or wish them only misery, but leave them alone now.

 

[KaraBulut]

what should i do?

Start with getting some help to figure out why you have this feeling of loneliness.

Do it before you take him back again and repeat this cycle again and again.