Why only one boy? I want em ALL

[billybob109]

So i have been thinking about this recently and in response to a previous thread someone told me to settle down and get a bf. This made me upset i feel that no one should tell someone to settle down. Why would anyone want to do that? I mean i like to have fun with my friends and to be able to hit on any guy that i see and be able to make out with him or even have sex with them. Why does one need to be in a relationship.. insecurities or being afraid of loneliness? I think it is absolutely ridicilious for a 23 year old to be tied down by a man. I want to have fun and be able to hit on all the guys i want! This is just a rant and im an individual am i the only one out there?

 

[Eagle653]

I want to have fun and be able to hit on all the guys i want!

Then do it. You don't need anyone's permission here (or anywhere) to lead the life you'd like. At 23, I was sowing my wild oats too; I think it's quite natural.

For others, at 23, 18, 20, 39, whatever, they want a special boyfriend--a partner. They're tired of the rat race, the games, and playing the field. They've been there/done that, or aren't interested in all that in the first place. For some reason, it's hard for those wanting to settle down to feel remotely attracted to playing the field, and vice-versa. I have no idea of the previous thread to which you refer, but I suspect it was just a clash of two people with different priorities atm.

Go have fun and don't worry about what anonymous posters on a message board think.

 

[rareboy]

No. go out and fuck all the guys you want to. It is a breath of fresh air among all the Jonas brothers purity pledges being posted here these days.

Certainly, though you'd have to admit your track record with guys is pretty pathetic based on your previous threads.

And when you obsess over getting in a straight co-workers pants in order to satisfy your curiosity and actually think that it would be interesting enough to others to merit a posting that it would seem more productive for you to focus on finding one guy, at least for awhile.

But hey. Knock yourself out.

 

[billybob109]

No. go out and fuck all the guys you want to. It is a breath of fresh air among all the Jonas brothers purity pledges being posted here these days.

Certainly, though you'd have to admit your track record with guys is pretty pathetic based on your previous threads.

And when you obsess over getting in a straight co-workers pants in order to satisfy your curiosity and actually think that it would be interesting enough to others to merit a posting that it would seem more productive for you to focus on finding one guy, at least for awhile.

But hey. Knock yourself out.

I dont post all of my encounters with boys if anytihng i lost count this summer, and rareboy you are telling me you have never wanted to sleep with a boy (im not labeling straight gay or bi becuase this boy said i could blow him if he did not find someone in 2 months) you just got to keep working at it till they give it up. Im not sure if you ever dated a girl before but its the same way if you want to sleep with them you just got to put the game one.

 

[hotb0d]

people like to be in a relationship or settle down because they want to feel like they are growing or going somewhere in life.

 

[rareboy]

I have to admit, I never pursued sexual partners like prey.

But some people are predatory and this is how they score. I assume this makes them feel good; that it validates their ego and justifies their existence. You may be one of those.

Sic transit gloria mundi.

 

[G-Lexington]

Hey, if you don't feel like you're ready for sex, and would rather wait until you feel really comfortable with somebody before you head to the bedroom, that's totally cool.

If you want to have sex with every guy from one coast to the other, that's totally cool, too. Different strokes and all that.

My only point of contention is that you seem to have a lot of issues when it comes to sex. Your posts here have ranged from "how do I suck off this 10-inch straight guy" to "the guy I face-fucked last week is face-fucking someone besides me now - wtf?" Look, if the sex is no big deal, it's no big deal. Don't get hung up on the 10-inch straight guy or the guy you face-fucked last week. There are other guys out there who are interested in having sex with you RIGHT NOW - focus on them, and stop turning what's supposed to be "casual" sex into a soap opera, OK?

Lex

 

[billybob109]

Maybe im just a drama whore? Either way im young n hung so whatever

 

[G-Lexington]

Hey, if you enjoy the drama, have fun with it, I guess. Just try not to drag anybody else in who isn't interested.

Lex

 

[Just_Believe18]

Maybe im just a drama whore? Either way im young n hung so whatever

I think I'll copy and paste this every time you're seeking attention for the mess in your life. This pretty much sums up every thread you've ever made on here. There's no need for us to attempt to help on this forum.

 

[Seasoned]

Ditto from the others. Do what you want to do and don't do what you don't want to. That's pretty much the rule for life.

 

[BigBoss]

I just turned 25 and I would not recommend you to settle till you get 28. I found my man when I was 20, wasted three years of my golden age, and another 2 years with regrets and drama.

The age par of 28 is for people who want to explore all the sexual possibilities, after 28 the window of opportunity becomes smaller and hookup chances gets low.

 

[hotatlboi]

after 28 the window of opportunity becomes smaller and hookup chances gets low.

That's funny cause I know people much older than 28 that hookup a lot.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>The age par of 28 is for people who want to explore all the sexual possibilities, after 28 the window of opportunity becomes smaller and hookup chances gets low.

Well, that sort of implies that getting into a serious relationship is just something you do when you've exhausted all your opportunities.

"No one wants to hook up with me anymore."
"Me neither."
"May as well get into an LTR."
"Yeah, may as well."

I'm not saying that never happens, but I can guarantee that most LTRs I know are in them because they fell in love with somebody, not because they ceased being hot enough to have any other option.

Lex

 

[TaigaStar]

You're young, go out and enjoy your life for what it is.

 

[spencer]

be safe and follow the golden rule.

 

[billybob109]

THank you at least someone agrees. I see these boys 18-22 that have been in 5 year relationshits and i cant believe them. I would like to enjoy my 20's and my life and as of now i am in my sexual prime. I do not get these people.

I just turned 25 and I would not recommend you to settle till you get 28. I found my man when I was 20, wasted three years of my golden age, and another 2 years with regrets and drama.

The age par of 28 is for people who want to explore all the sexual possibilities, after 28 the window of opportunity becomes smaller and hookup chances gets low.

 

[rareboy]

Well Billybob, your feelings about this are very valid, because they are your feelings and everyone respects your viewpoint on the subject as far as it pertains to your own experience.

Likewise, the guys who have relationships also have very valid reasons about them and we all have the utmost respect for the validity of their feelings too.

So, you see, while there's a difference in perspective, everyones' opinion and viewpoint is absolutely equal.

And it wouldn't be nice to try to convince either side of the argument.

So I guess that just about wraps up this thread.

Enjoy yourself and as always....

Play safe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cheers.

 

[briefboy86]

Maybe im just a drama whore? Either way im young n hung so whatever

I hope your Drama will keep you warm at night.. my motto check your drama at the door!

Even tho im in a relationship my bf and I are enjoying our 20's im 23 and hes 21 we go out to the bars go to parties and what not but were not sluts that will sleep with anybody we enjoy our company and make eachother laugh, thats why people want to be in a LTR because it makes THEM happy and if that isnt your deal thats fine enjoy what you do but dont knock the relationships for other people who enjoy company of somebody they can confide in and that is there to susport them in what ever they do.