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Ok so first off...no punn intended...secondly why is it so hard to find a straight masculine acting guy that is also a homo that isn't "married" or unintersted in slim dudes...

i know i am trying to not be interested in men because i hate them and can't seem to find someone that is on the same page as me....meaning i can't find someone that i am intersted in that is also interested in me....

I keep falling for straight guys and it totally sux, but the only reason i fall for straight guys is because i love men for being men, but he ones i want should be acting straight....meaning they are double hard to find...do they even exist

and whats the key to finding a guy anyways...blah i am so annoyed at looking for something and pretending not to look for something

help please....

need straight acting single OC guys...haha
 
I don't think I can help you find a guy, but I just want you to know that I feel almost the exact same way you do.

:)
 
Well, I'm in a similar boat, but I know that when I go away to school next year I'll be joining the GLBT club on campus.

I'd look for a club/gathering or even a community service project you would enjoy. It can't hurt and you can always quit if you don't like it.
 
I'm in the exact same boat and trust me, there are a LOT of people on this boat. Why do you there are all these "In love with my straight best friend" threads?
 
socalistud3 said:
...... to not be interested in men because i hate them
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...... the only reason i fall for straight guys is because i love men for being men,
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Huh? Social, I'm confused, do you like men or do you hate them? Do you love men or not love them?

Perhaps your confusion is having an impact on the guys you're interested/not interested in?

Because I'm confused about where you're coming from I don't want to judge or give you a "you should..." type answer. If I'm reading this correctly you're at a stage where many of us have been, wanting to be with a man but also not wanting to because of what it represents.

I hope you can clarify where you're at and we can all have a chat and help you out. (*8*)
 
I wish all this straight acting bullshit would just die already!

Just find a man who you can connect with, be happy with him and make it work. Many times, the type you want doesn't want you. Open your eyes, mind and heart, maybe you won't be in this predicament!
 
socalistud3 said:
Ok so first off...no punn intended...secondly why is it so hard to find a straight masculine acting guy that is also a homo that isn't "married" or unintersted in slim dudes...

i know i am trying to not be interested in men because i hate them and can't seem to find someone that is on the same page as me....meaning i can't find someone that i am intersted in that is also interested in me....

I keep falling for straight guys and it totally sux, but the only reason i fall for straight guys is because i love men for being men, but he ones i want should be acting straight....meaning they are double hard to find...do they even exist

and whats the key to finding a guy anyways...blah i am so annoyed at looking for something and pretending not to look for something

help please....

need straight acting single OC guys...haha
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Let me guess. You're not out yet, right?
 
I think the reason they are so hard to find is because they are mostly shy and laid back. And most likely afraid to throw themselves out there. Not saying they would change or anything in private but it could just be a shy and remote thing. I'm like that.

Oh and another thing, you keep falling for "Straight Guys" is because your interested in "Straight-Acting Gays" wires getting crossed. Probably got a few loose wires in your radar.

Don't try looking so hard and you may find someone who you might actually be interested in and like. And that person may not be what you expected or wanted.
 
" I have a lot of anger, a lot of bitterness and I want a man. A man who fits my long, unrealistic laundry list of criteria he has to meet for me to be interested in him. I refuse to compromise on any of the items on this list but the guy I want should be able to look past these criteria because I don't meet them all myself. "

"He has to be gay and masculine but not seem gay at all. If he's gay, he's not masculine enough for me so I'll just go chasing after guys who don't want me since they're the only ones who are man enough for me."

"I want a jock boyfriend although I myself am not a jock. Why doesn't anyone want a guy like me? I mean.. even *I* don't want a guy like me, but I'm exempt from all those rules. Everyone but me is a jerk for not wanting a guy like me."



dude... Just put yourself out there.. meet guys of all kinds.. don't judge, don't pretend to be anything you're not and try to accept people as they are. You'll have a lot more luck.
 
ok, this whole str8 acting thing annoys me. there is NOTHING "str8 acting" about sticking your dick in another guys ass! jus say masculine gay men, simple.

referring to masculine gay men as str8 acting is no more open minded than the people out there who call us fags and don't believe we should have equal rights.
 
Shadowclad86 said:
I think the reason they are so hard to find is because they are mostly shy and laid back. And most likely afraid to throw themselves out there. Not saying they would change or anything in private but it could just be a shy and remote thing. I'm like that.

Oh and another thing, you keep falling for "Straight Guys" is because your interested in "Straight-Acting Gays" wires getting crossed. Probably got a few loose wires in your radar.

Don't try looking so hard and you may find someone who you might actually be interested in and like. And that person may not be what you expected or wanted.
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you seem to be the only guy who isn't in the same boat as me but gets me and is not ridiculing me
 
marleyisalegend said:
there ARE masculine gay guys out there, my first love wouldn't even set your gaydar off unless you str8 up asked him if he was gay. he likes cars, he's an engineer, he doesn't listen to madonna and dresses like a "straight" guy. they're out there, you just gotta stop wasting your time lusting after str8 guys, that time could be spent with masculine gay guys. again, they're out there
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how do i find them then?
 
I'm not ridiculing you... just hitting you over the head with the way I see it.

I've been there.

I moved past it.

thank the horned God of the woodland realm.
 
Soilwork said:
I'm not ridiculing you... just hitting you over the head with the way I see it.

I've been there.

I moved past it.

thank the horned God of the woodland realm.
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whatever horned god you want to make out with is up to you ;)

sorry but i couldn't resist
i dont have anything useful to ad though so i'll just leave now
 
socalistud3 said:
how do i find them then?
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go hang out where they hang out and do the things they like to do.

Join a gay baseball team, go join a gay motorcycle club, a gay rugby team...

you'll meet the guys who dont' go to the bars, who like the things you like and with whom you'll share interests other than drinking and sucking a little dick.
 
wow!!! I am at the exact same positon!
i feel like I posted this! lol
Yeah idk what to do myself!
 
They are out there. Like others have mentioned, I feel the same way, but then again I am only out to two people and my friends think I am as straight as can be even though I joke about gay things.
 
954dude said:
I wish all this straight acting bullshit would just die already!

Just find a man who you can connect with, be happy with him and make it work. Many times, the type you want doesn't want you. Open your eyes, mind and heart, maybe you won't be in this predicament!
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Well I like guys being guys!
U know just so masculine and manly! thats what I love I personaly don't like queeny guys I'm not trying to offend no one but thats just what i like ya know..............
 
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