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Worst Break-Up

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We've all got those break-ups that are just unbelievably bad and, sometimes, tacky. Carrie Bradshaw got a post-it note and, today, I got a break up voicemail. Yes, you read that correctly, I was dumped in a voicemail. I was actually going to dump the guy myself, but I was going to do it in person at least. C'est la vie.

What are your worst break-up story?
 
Well, mine is a bit weird, not necessarily a break-up, but more like a parting of ways.

It was senior year, I was head over heels in love with my best friend and that was getting me nowhere.. So, I looked around, and found a guy. Terry, I'll never forget him...

The first night we talked for 16 hours straight, it was wonderful. He was very masculine but liked Kelly Clarkson, I thought the match was made in heaven :)

He left me the sweetest message ever on graduation, saying he was happy for me and very proud, and said he was very happy we were talking..

About 1 1/2 months into it, we meet face to face, it was nice, and then that weekend he called it off..... on yahoo messenger...

So his reason was he needed to focus on his career and didn't have time for a relationship, which I don't know, could have been true, but I didn't get that feeling the whole time we were talking...

A couple months later he moved to PCB with his new boyfriend.... still hurts a bit :( oh well....

I still look on his myspace from time to time, to see if he's miserable :P... he was my first true love that never happened...
 
I never really had a bad break-up, per se.

But the most depressing one was when she asked me why I loved her. I couldn't think of one reason.
 
Well, at least a voice mail is better than an e-mail.

I've usually been the one to suggest the break-ups in my life, so I have no tragic stories to tell.
 
Dated a guy and was "in love" with him. I knew he was the one. Everything was perfect.

During a conversation after wonderful love-making, we started talking about sex with women. I had done it, he hadn't. I told him it was something he should have tried so that he would know that he wasn't missing anything.

He took my advice (without telling me). On my birthday, he called me to tell me that he couldn't see me anymore because he was going to marry a girl cause he had gotten her pregnant.

He also said that with all the diseases flying around (back in the late 80's) he felt safer being with a woman.

So mine was on my birthday, on the phone, and the worst part---I lost a man to a woman named "ETTA MAE"!!!! ](*,) :grrr:](*,) :grrr:
 
I was seeing a guy a couple of years back. We worked for the same company and finally started hanging out. We were together for bout 2 years. Then came the dreaded Text Message. He broke up with me through a damn text message, He had found his so-called soul mate. The best part was a couple of months later his new soul-mate had dumped him. What goes around comes around to bite ya in the ass.........................
 
Not much of one, but the only one I have.

"Ned" and I were roommates in college sophmore year. But I was still clueless, and Ned was in heavy denial. (I didn't know this at the time.) He dated a couple girls for a short time, but nothing serious. I just assumed since he was a geek like me, he wasn't going to be into anything hot and heavy.


At the beginning of the senior year, Ned had me sleep over in his room so we could talk. And he came out. But only to me. Unbeknownst to him, I was coming to the conclusion that I was gay, too. I didn't tell him at the time, though - I still wasn't sure. Ned told me not to tell anybody, but a few months later, he gave me the go-ahead, and asked me if I would, in essence, out him. (Saving him from having to tell anyone, I guess.)

A month or so later, I again was invited to sleep over at his place. And I finally made my move. A very clumsy, awkward attempt at hitting on him. It failed. He said he was really flattered, and he did like the idea, but his head was so messed up at that moment that he didn't need anything else screwing it up. I said I understood, and told him to take his time.

What followed was a bizarre pattern of one of us poorly, clumsily, and sometimes shamelessly flirting with or hitting on the other...and, most often, the other one deftly sidestepping it. Either I wanted it and he didn't, or he did and I felt it might not be a good idea. The amazing thing is that it finally did happen. And it wasn't all that great. I don't know what I was expecting, exactly, but after all that time, you'd think it'da been...well, at least somewhat memorable. Nope.

We sorta drifted apart soon afterwards. He got busier, and he got even worse at returning phone calls and answering e-mails than he used to. He fell into this pattern of non-communication for six months, followed by a "how come we never talk?" e-mail, a month or so of good friendship, and then another six months of silence. I finally said, "Fuck this" and cut him free for good.

Sorry. No heartache here. :)

Lex
 
My worst break-up would have to be the guy who actually encouraged me to date other people for several years because he did not want me tied town to him and his unique family situation (he was primary caretaker of a sick family member and had limited time to go out). Despite that, I or he never dated anyone else. One day, I met someone else I decided to date and I figured now he'll be happy I'm dating someone else, per his urgings. Well, when I tell him this - sure enough he blows up upset and asks how I could do this to him. :confused: Our relationship was over.

We did develop a platonic friendship a year later during which time he tells me the night I told him about the other guy he was hurt because that same night he was going to ask me for a committment. To this day I still feel that was a coverup. I have since long parted with his friendship as well because he's turned into a more psychotic person than he was before.

Hey, I was young ... I've matured so much since then!
 
It was a long distance relationship, she invited me down with a good friend of mine, she dumped me 100 miles from home, then waited untill I got home to tell me she was dating my friend who I took down there.

I was being quite understanding, built our relationship on friendship, so I wanted it to stay the same. Told her that I needed time, couldn't talk to her, she told me to get over myself, and that not everything was about me, I told her she was a crule bitch and that she should stay out my life... 2 years later were kinda only just starting to talk again.
 
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