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Worst-ever job interviews

I've certainly had my share of frustrations when applying for jobs, but they've mostly been the inanity of requiring a resume to be submitted AND to fill out an extensive questionnaire that asks the exact same things on the resume.

There is also the problem of unprofessionalism in Human Resources personnel, not unlike a lot of realtors I've dealt with. When they are in need, they are all courtesy and charm, but the second they are not, they disappear, do not notify unsuccessful candidates, etc.

I skimmed the article and didn't find all the alleged offenses to be unfair. The applicant applying in her 60's resented being asked how many years she thought she had left to work. That's a completely relevant issue when hiring anyone who is obviously nearing the average retirement age. There isn't necessarily any suggestion of ageism, as one may be the most qualified candidate for the job, but the likelihood of having to rehire in the near future in a work impact for the hiring company. They have every right to attempt to hire and retain long-term employees. There may well be a long learning curve in some jobs too, so taking a year to learn and then leaving a year after that is a bad deal.

Another candidate resented having the interview rescheduled after she got there. Afterwards, she learned that the law firm did it as a test and that she failed. That's legitimate. If a highly professional service-oriented firm wants to screen for pique, patience, or deference, that's entirely within their right and is relevant to high-toned clients who may need and expect more accommodation. The firm may well have experienced problem hiring courteous and charming staff only to find the veil dropping soon after being hired. So, they intentionally stressed the candidate if only slightly. Maybe the senior partners have had problems with cheeky underlings who chafed at waiting or whatever.

A third complaint was being asked to crawl around and moo as a student, for a job where the interviewer thought being fun was important. If the indignity of that ruined it for the candidate, then that job indeed was not for the candidate, but that doesn't mean the hiring company did not have the right to value fun and creative in a job hire, even minimum wage. The article threw the minimum wage bit in as if it werer an added insult, whereas, it's much more likely the job dealt with youth, children, or recreation, so was either summer employment or the like, and is completely normal for students to make minimum wage, as they have no experience.

So, there are plenty of bad interviews, but I've interviewed since 1975 or so, and the only time I had a bad interview was with Raytheon in Albuquerque in about 2013 or so. I was employed and well paid, but was considering changing companies, and applied and was given the interview. When I showed, the Controller had forgotten his appointments and had not come in to work that day (yet?), and I waited until he came into work after his staff contacted him. The interview went well enough, but I think I didn't get the offer because I was a lot better paid in my then current job, and they wanted a highly experienced person for cheap. As they never had to disclose their planned salary, and I had to tell mine, I'll never know.
 
The interview went well enough, but I think I didn't get the offer because I was a lot better paid in my then current job, and they wanted a highly experienced person for cheap. As they never had to disclose their planned salary, and I had to tell mine, I'll never know.
I guess I have never been at the level that you have been but I would never have applied for a job where I had no idea of the salary
 
I would've walked out if anyone made me crawl around or ask personal questions.

I thrive well with conversation style interviews and i am able to show my personality. I hate those interviews that ask you those stupid scripted questions. "Can you tell me about a time when you had to do lots of things at once?" Those can you tell me a time type of interviews.
 
1984 or so. I worked for a software engineering consulting provider company. They were looking to place me at a client's company. My company rep was present with me and the client interviewer at a local restaurant. The client ordered a drink. I know better than to drink during a job interview, and so did my rep. However, soon the client ordered another, and another, and another, and another. In a short while, he was very drunk, rambling on about random stuff I've forgotten now, and asking all sorts of weird questions. I got the job though, so he must have liked me. I never interacted with him again while I was on the job, although I passed him in the hallway a few times. That's the weirdest and worst interview I've had.

I am so glad to be out of the corporate world now!
 
I’ve never had a job interview
 
I guess I have never been at the level that you have been but I would never have applied for a job where I had no idea of the salary
I'm not at any huge level of pay, but my work as a program accountant, a sort of cost accountant, varies greatly dependent upon duties, reporting, experience, and location. AND, American employers have long played games and kept salaries paid secret, so you have no idea if the company is looking for a $60k, $90k, or $120k person. You'd think the description is enough, but it's not. Some pay well, and some don't.

Thankfully, there is pressure now for many employers to at least declare a range. It's simply been their oyster for decades in the U.S. Only the great resignation, or whatever the slacker movement is called, has changed that.
 
I’ve never had a job interview
I had one, I learned I was bad at interviewing and never went in for another. Looking back it was certainly for the best as I don’t believe I would have thrived working for a large or even medium sized companies. My impression is that to advance you have to be a self promoter and that I am not.
 
We have been interviewed by clients in the past although I no longer chase any work that requires this.

And some of those interviews have been utterly horrible where there are bad faith or infighting dynamics on the part of the client.
 
In 1988, Food Services of America, (FSA), was interviewing for a clerk in their accounts payable department. I showed up on time and was seated in the interview room. After a half-hour wait, an angry guy (who didn't introduce himself), yelled at me, threw my resume in the trash and called me a "scam-artist", interested only in money. This guy in the interview room ordered me off their property in front of everyone else around at the time.

Since the 1970's I've had job interviews where I'm alone in a room with a white interviewer - and witnessed unspeakable behavior that I've never told to anyone.
 
I will never interview for job ever again.
 
I had one, I learned I was bad at interviewing and never went in for another. Looking back it was certainly for the best as I don’t believe I would have thrived working for a large or even medium sized companies. My impression is that to advance you have to be a self promoter and that I am not.
That is often the case, but not always. Your skills and productivity have to be known, and that requires some visibility.

Also, there is an inherent element of greater responsibilities more or less requiring either management roles or lead roles. If those duties make an employee uncomfortable, or if they are simply not good at directing teams or pulling together disparate elements, it can be self-filtering.

My job doesn't involve much visibility. The program managers and contract administrators get the spotlight. I'm content with providing critical financial information that helps us propose correctly and control awareness of cost trends.
 
Since the 1970's I've had job interviews where I'm alone in a room with a white interviewer - and witnessed unspeakable behavior that I've never told to anyone.

That's horrible. What are some of the things that happened?
 
We have been interviewed by clients in the past although I no longer chase any work that requires this.

And some of those interviews have been utterly horrible where there are bad faith or infighting dynamics on the part of the client.
Are those really interviews in the sense of an employee applying for a job?

Aren't you a professional and these are bidding scenarios where your firm are being screened for bidding on major projects?
 
i went to one .... It was IT management ... i went to the client .. was taken to their best room etc ... the IT head and the head of HR were there ... all fine ... then the question that I have said no to ever since....Would you like some tea or coffee?
Then I said yes ... the HR manager went and got it and she put it down next to me ... I use my hands a lot when talking ... The coffee went into the head of HR's lap and down her shirt ... I did not get the job.
 
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