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Would a str8 male (single) ignore a flirt from a young attractive female?

ebluue

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Hi guys, i have a question for you all and it'll be greatly appreciated if you could help me out.

A female friend of mine has recently flirted with some guy she met at the gym. She became friends with him on facebook too. Both of them are quite shy in real life and so she flirts with him mostly over facebook, at least that was what she told me.

They barely knew each other and mostly they just say hi or something when bump into each other in the gym. Anyway, my friend asked him out for a coffee date on face book and he didn't reply to her invitation.

My friend is a 21 year old female, blond and is very pretty, and has a great body. And the 'str8 guy' is in his mid- late 20s and is single (we think). His 'relationship status' & 'interested in gender' isn't display on the info page, don't people always display what gender they're interested in on facebook?

My friend checked out his facebook photos and didn't see him posing much with any particular female, like if he posed a lot with one particular female than we'll know that is his girl friend.
She told me there were some photo of him hugging girls and all, but those girls already has a bf or are married to someone else (she checked the profiles of all the girls that's posing with him on the photos. There weren't any photos of him posing with guys either.

So what do you guys think? is that guy gay or str8? My friend dragged me along to the gym one time to meet him and he didn't seem to response to my flirts either:confused:
 
ebluue said:
Hi guys, i have a question for you all and it'll be greatly appreciated if you could help me out.

A female friend of mine has recently flirted with some guy she met at the gym. She became friends with him on facebook too. Both of them are quite shy in real life and so she flirts with him mostly over facebook, at least that was what she told me.

They barely knew each other and mostly they just say hi or something when bump into each other in the gym. Anyway, my friend asked him out for a coffee date on face book and he didn't reply to her invitation.

My friend is a 21 year old female, blond and is very pretty, and has a great body. And the 'str8 guy' is in his mid- late 20s and is single (we think). His 'relationship status' & 'interested in gender' isn't display on the info page, don't people always display what gender they're interested in on facebook?

My friend checked out his facebook photos and didn't see him posing much with any particular female, like if he posed a lot with one particular female than we'll know that is his girl friend.
She told me there were some photo of him hugging girls and all, but those girls already has a bf or are married to someone else (she checked the profiles of all the girls that's posing with him on the photos. There weren't any photos of him posing with guys either.

So what do you guys think? is that guy gay or str8? My friend dragged me along to the gym one time to meet him and he didn't seem to response to my flirts either:confused:
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Maybe he's just shy... Or possibly just out of a relationship and its too soon, for him, to start another. Or maybe he just isn't attracted to your "friend". There are just so many other possibilities that have nothing to do with him being gay to be able to give a concise answer.

And no, not every person on Facebook is looking for sexual interaction. There are many people in this world who believe their sexual attractions are the business of themselves and whomever they may be attracted to. They therefore do not advertise their relationships or sexual preferences.

Just because you flirt with someone does not mean they are required to respond. Just chalk it up to hem being not interested in either of you in a sexual fashion and move on. #-o:rolleyes:
 
Hey G-Lexington, thanks for answering my post.

So you think he is gay? really? he didn't respond to my flirt the last time. I'm the twink/slightly mascular type!

Hmm,, how sure are you on this? because i'm going to tell my friend your answer.!!
 
G-Lexington said:
Gay. No question.

Lex
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:rotflmao: Typical Lex.

And he's probably RIGHT. No telling, though.... "Usually" on Facebook blank means gay. Mine is blank, obviously. But at the same time, my sexual preference is simply nobody's business.

So who knows.
 
Some girls left their 'sexual preference' blank as well, are they lesbian then?
 
Girls leaving it blank = "don't hit on me".

Guys leaving it blank = "I like dick but won't admit it".

He didn't respond to your flirting. That might mean he was clueless and missed it. It might mean he's in a relationship. It might mean he's not interested in you like that. But it sure doesn't mean he's straight.

Lex
 
I agree with G. Blank for a guy normally means gay.

In regards to the flirting, he probably isn't interested in you. I know i pretend to be oblivious when I seriously don't want anything to do with the guy. Recognizing it always just leads to more compliments and more unwanted flirtations. I'm way too passive aggressive to tell them bug-off
 
Very interesting G-Lexington,
I called my friend just then and asked her for more info, anyway, she checked his profile again just to make sure,

My friends told me that before she was accepted as his friends on facebook, she couldn't view anything on his profile, there were only his age and a few random pics without his face being accessible.

He even hide his wall comments and photos from people and friend's friends. only his Friends can check his stuff.

So yeah, after she got accepted as his friends, she is allowed to check out his photos and all but it's not very helpful. The 'interested in' and 'relationship statues' isn't being displayed on the info page, only his age, birthday, location and some other things like sport groups and such.

My friends even read all the comments on his walls, and there weren't any girls or guys flirty or posting suggestive comments on it, like you know, calling him babe, honey etc...

i told my friend of all your answers and she was a bit stunned, because he seem very str8! So do you think he might be a very private person? and doesn't like sharing his stuff to people?
 
Yes, I think he's a very private person. Who doesn't like sharing his stuff to people.

Because he's gay.

Lex
 
Yup.

He's gay.

U can just tell these things.
 
IMO, if a guy leaves "Interested In" blank, he's usually gay/bi.

Also, he might not be interested in your friend. You say she's attractive, but a gay guy's view of an attractive woman isn't always the same as a straight guys just like straight women and gay guys don't always find the same men attractive.
 
There are many reasons why a guy might not be interested. None of them matter.

The point is, that if he were interested, then your friend would know and wouldn't have to ask you or anyone else.

So clearly he isn't. For whatever reason.
 
Oh gee, have you ever thought that some people go to the gym only to work-out and not to flirt with people?

He didn't respond to her flirting AND yours, so regardless of his sexuality, he's probably there not to hook-up or start a romance.

And regarding facebook: this comes up a lot in these forums, and from my experience, I know a lot of guys who do not display their relationship status and "interested in" section--and these guys that I know are straight and aren't uncomfortable with anything. One guy I know is in a relationship with his GF for 3 years now his profile doesn't say anything about being taken or being into women or men.

The point is, you cannot dissect one's Facebook profile and expect to get an accurate story.
 
^Well if he's had a gf for 3 years and he still hasn't proposed, he's probably gay, too.
 
a blank 'interested in' on FB definitely means gay. There is no way in hell that even a moderately good-looking, no, an ugly-looking heterosexual male would leave that blank on FB. I FINALLY removed 'interested in women' a few months ago... took me waaaayyy too long
 
Hey guys, thanks for the replies.

Like i said above, me and my friend believes the guy is single because she checked out his facebook and didn't see him posing much with any particular female. Like there were only a few girls he posed with and they're all in a relationship with some other guys.

I told my friend of the things you guys told me, like if the 'interested in' is left blank = gay. She checked out his male friends as well and noticed there were quite a few guys left out the 'interested in' & 'relationship statues' part also.
She said those guys look very str8 and not gay at all, and he didn't pose in photo with any of them.
 
Hmm. Is he new to fb? sometimes people just don't fill everything out... But that's just weird imo for a straight guy to do that.
 
I know a lot of guys who leave interested in blank that are straight, for real, no joke. But you are all right that there's a good chance that guys who leave it blank are gay/bi also. And don't forget, just because a guy puts interested in women does not mean they actually are. I've seen 5 or 6 closet cases do that.

As for this guy, he could still be straight, just because the girl is conventionally very attractive blond model type doesn't mean it's his type. Maybe he likes bigger girls, older women, women of color, you never know.
 
Look, you guys can play Holmes and Watson all you want. If you want to find out, ASK HIM.

Lex
 
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