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Hey all, I've been reading these forums for a long time. Although this is my first time posting.

I think I have finally worked up the courage to come out of the closet. Planning to move out of my parent's house before I do. Yeah, at 28 I feel its about damn time.

Well I've used a few gay social sites and had a few hook ups that went no where. The one guy I could see actually being good friends with, happens to be looking to rent out a room. I think we would get along really well living together. Yes, we have had sex.

I'll get to my question. I'm a bit younger and in better shape then him. Would it be wrong or offensive for me to get him worked up and try to negotiate lower rent than he is asking? :twisted:
 
Uh ... several conflicting thoughts here ...

What's more important? HIM, You, or the Money aspect??

(Careful with what You might be seeking!)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
You put the 'twisted evil' icon there.

Yes, it would be pretty disgusting.

Good luck with all the other things you're planning to do.
 
So, what you're asking is, "Should I lead this guy on just to save a few bucks, after which I'm going to move all my personal belongings into his home and hope that he doesn't catch on that I used him?".

The answer is a very easy, "No" and "Go find a place of your own. It's time."
 
KaraBulut said:
So, what you're asking is, "Should I lead this guy on just to save a few bucks, after which I'm going to move all my personal belongings into his home and hope that he doesn't catch on that I used him?".
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Lol, nothing sinister like that. It would be more blatantly obvious and with a sense teasing sense of humor. Yeah the money really isn't a big deal.

It it was, there are other places around me offering bigger bedrooms with private bathrooms for the same or less rent. Which is probably the main reason I was thinking about negotiating lower. Although you cannot really compare rent prices on Prideroommates, some people seem to be asking ridiculous low rent just for gay company.

But yeah, you guys are probably right. I shouldn't mess with him. I have a pretty dry/sarcastic sense of humor that not everyone catches on to.
 
The question you don't answer is, do you plan to continue having sex with him? What are his plans?

If you agree in advance that you're just friends, then proceed as you would with any roommate. If you want to negotiate the rent, go right ahead.

If you're going to be lovers as well, I would suggest not moving in together quite so soon...

If the two of you have conflicting opinions on whether the sex will continue, do not move in under any circumstances.
 
Cull27 said:
But yeah, you guys are probably right. I shouldn't mess with him. I have a pretty dry/sarcastic sense of humor that not everyone catches on to.
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Bottom line:

Boyfriend + roommate = good

Fuckbuddy + roommate = trouble

Pissed off ex + roommate = your worst nightmare
 
I ran into the pissed off ex + roommate deal recently. Ummm one of us had to go. I evicted HIM 2 weeks ago. It is a huge mess. I was just lucky that the other people in the apartment had loyalties to me //SLASH// I am more responsible, so it ended up being him that went. But it's a mess and it could very well have been me without a place to live had I not planned it right. So just be careful and set yourself up right if you do this....
 
I really wouldn't suggest moving in with someone you know and have had sex with, unless you're in a committed relationship, or if you've agreed that you're not ever gonna be hooking up again. It will explode in your face at some point, probably sooner rather than later.
 
KaraBulut said:
Bottom line:

Fuckbuddy + roommate = trouble
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Really think so? That was pretty much what I figured the situation being. If it advanced from there, great.

I'm really not a romantic. I'm easy going and don't over think things. No matter how things turn out, I could accept it and still live with him. Ten plus years in the closet with little to no social life has given me a super ability to emotionally detach myself from any situation. Though I guess I shouldn't assume the same from him.

If shit did hit the fan, I'm financially covered to set out on my own at a moment's notice. I just really don't want to go from living in a crowded house full of family to living in an empty place by myself. I cannot see moving in with a stranger being any preferable to living alone.

But yeah, I guess we should definitely define things beforehand if I go forward. Nothing is ever as simple as I think it is.
 
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