would you be insulted?

[douseiai]

So last night me and my bf were planning on doin some stuff... and well we did... no sex we were both pretty tired... anywho after just kinda cuddling for a bit we did some more and well... pants gone as we cuddle imagine what else was goin on... anyways... he starts workin on me and well... i lasted approx 2 1/2 hours... or arms were tired after i was done we cuddled for a bit more and fell asleep after a couple minutes.... basically my question is... if this type of thing happened you wanked your man and he came then he seemed to tired to help you out would you be angry or anything the next day?


(in my defense i did msg him saying that i felt bad about it which is true and wanted to give him a special night when he had a chance)

 

[luminum]

I guess I sort of would, but I would also understand. Sometimes it's just more fun to give your partner the really fun time (not that you aren't having your own, right?). And since you said you'd make it up to him and probably will, I'd say things are cool, you lucky dog.

 

[The_Reaper]

Not if you both fell asleep beside each other....

Who cares if I didn't get off, as long as he's happy...and I'm happy to have him there, then who cares...

And besides, he can get me first thing in the morning.

 

[justsimon]

I wouldn't worry about it. If it happened every time, I might start to wonder, but every once in a while is no problem.

BTW, I'm happy to hear you have a boy to spend so much time on you.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

Nope, not at all.

At times, your partner does something for you and at times, you do something for your partner.

No one needs bookkeepers there..., if both guys care for each other.

SC

 

[belamy]

How can you feel too tired for sex, what age are you?
Boring stable couples...

 

[star-warrior]

^ exciting singles

I guess you can always have your revenge the next night, so long as you weren't tired. Or, if you're putting it down to tiredness, you may wanna see the doctor. It could be some other underlying problem...

 

[BrandonSBCA]

If I made a person fall asleep during sex that meant I wasn't a turn on for him. Not that I would be mad because then I'd fully understand why. Glad you found someone Kevin.

 

[cocktales]

My Partner and I have a standing rule: Both of us need NOT get off at the same time...

Often, one or the other of us will want to please our partner and that means doing things to him to make him feel wanted and loved and of course to get some loving from him!!! lol

So, maybe next time, my man will make me feel equally as good as I made him feel!!!

Don't feel bad about one or the other of you NOT getting off when the other did!

Just make sure the other one is taken care of next time when you're feeling frisky!! lol

The whole point is LOVE!

 

[panda29]

My partner and I do it like that at times and we both enjoy it !!!

 

[Lefty]

so somebody wore somebody else completely out...insult...no...not unless its one way, the same way every time. more like a compliment to ones' abilities.

 

[VICTORIADON]

I "get off" on making another guy "get off", don't you? Maybe he does too!

 

[FabFairy]

No of course not

 

[douseiai]

How can you feel too tired for sex, what age are you?
Boring stable couples...

we are both 20 its just a matter of the night before we only slept for 3 hours and had been up since about 8 in the morning and we were real sleepy... not tired physically i'm sure we could have done some more if given like 3 minutes i know i woulda been up for him....

 

[RationalLunacy]

I'd have been pissed if he fell asleep during the wanking.

 

[thermodynamics]

If it went on this way for a while, I might get pissed. But perhaps it's a way of engaging in some one-upsmanship--trying to outdo each other at making the other cum. Just an idea.