Would you have thought about bisex if there was no free internet porn?

[conrad]

Friend, persons of the same sex have been having sex long before the advent of the Internet.

Frankly, the so-called bi-sex depicted in porn leaves many of us cold because it is so far removed from actual sex between loving partners of the same sex.

My entry into the world of sex was with a teen of the same sex and age as myself. Yet both of us always thought of ourselves as regular guys just doing what comes naturally.

I grqnt you that the quality of porn may have deteriorated; it once cost now it is virtually free. Who needs it?

 

[Scottyboi]

I only found out I was attracted to guys because of internet porn (I didn't even know gay people existed or what it was before age 15 xD)

But I also didn't have any interest in women at the time

So either way it would be weird to see what would have happened

 

[GiacomoPisani]

well there is the idea going on among bisexuals that sexuality is fluid.i don't think this can happen to gays, to us sexuality is fixed,and as i say said in other forum it wouldn't be fair for us to put ourselves through the ordeal of having sex with women.some bisexuals even get mad when we gays tells them the very truth,without political correctness.but we the gays do respects all different shades of human sexuality.
so to us ,the gays,i think that the internet have pretty much solidified our homosexuality.i don't think that technology can truly have any major effect on gays and homosexuality.for instance,my partner's gay cousin,he is in the closet,he has had long-term relationship with girls,yet he is not attracted to them nor he finds them sexy,he is in fact pretty much disgusted with them.
in the case of bisexuals,well i can speak on behalf of my boyfriend ,and my best friend who is a womanizer and is also bisexual.my boyfriend tells me that he leans more toward girls(but i don't think so,he is a liar buy nature). He is actually 50/50. My best friend, who is from Cuba, says he is attracted to both equally.they both say that they learned to be into females and that they think that a relationship with a another men comes more naturally.According to them they DID choose to be into females.my cuban friend even tell me and my other gay friends that he thinks that he got into women because of society pressure and not wanting to be a fag.in fact,he and my partner,seems to be very much concerned about want society thinks of them,in terms of manhood and being a macho.they are also Hispanic.I think they feel like that because women are a mean to prove themselves that they are real men
the whole point i think is to know the reasons for the desire and the burning lust that bisexuals feel toward women body,and on the other hand,the repulsion that gays feel for those same organs.
i do think that it probably has to do with aesthetics,as you said, you don't get aroused with some pussies or cocks that look ugly.Well to me and my gay friends,we have never seen a beautiful pussy,so they don't look "yummy" to us.i think sexuality is a difficult think to understand.

 

[jizzinmypants]

When I was around 13 or so I was looking at one of my parents artistic sex book. The last 10 pages of the book had guy on guy action. Before that I had never been attracted to guys but seeing those images made me want to experience that, therefore turning me bi.

I think that if I hadn't discovered that book, I probably would have discovered gay sex on the internet.

 

[shizkiz]

some people aroused by anything sexual not being able to determine their sexuality

 

[shizkiz]

others relate to the porn stars pleasure they receive in straight or gay porn

 

[shizkiz]

some straight men like gay porn because of its raunchiness that straight porn doesn't have

 

[bangthisbi]

I thought about bisex before there was an internet. I do appreciate some good bi porn on the internet, but it didn't make me who I am today.

 

[cklover]

I was bisexual and knew it before there was an internet.

 

[Yves Grey]

cherrytwister, I knew that I was gay from a very young age--I just didn't know what "gay" was. It wasn't until junior high school's Respect Day that I learned the meaning.

Getting to the core of the question, I had become acquainted with a modest amount of heterosexual porn as my family moved into the modern age of the internet around that time. It rarely did much of anything for me, although I did find some of the males attractive from time to time. As I get older, I have come to appreciate the female form. I love just about everything about women and their bodies, same as with men, but particularly their ability to grow another human!! The only problem I have is popping a stiffy for a girl, and when I do it's not nearly the satisfying quality I can present a man. =\

As an aside, I think there is little that is as beautiful as the glow of a pregnant woman. I think that's why I love to feed my lovers--it's stuffed and sated after a meal that they are closest to that glow!

 

[Willie Boy]

So what you are asking is: Could a guy be bi and not know it just because he doesn't have the internet? Could he walk around his whole life seeing others guys, but never feel an urge for any form of sexual interaction JUST BECAUSE THE INTERNET NEVER TOLD HIM HE WAS BI?

Could a gay guy go through his life never knowing he is gay, never feeling the urge for gay sex... just because he never saw gay porn on the internet?

I guess everyone was straight before the internet came along.

 

[easyroad]

I get what you mean, cherrytwister, the internet is amazing when it comes to help you understand your sexuality. The ease of access of sexual content (especially now with all the "X-tube" variations) gives you a ton of options and your sexuality is shaped by what you choose to watch.

I remember being on a webcam site, looking at girls because I thought I was straight at the time. But then, I saw the Men option and was like, "what's the harm of trying that"... didn't look back since! lol