WTF am I doing???

[Jayden]

Leave the guy. Why are you sticking around if your so unhappy?

 

[rareboy]

I have no idea why you're there.

They're called cajones. You should have two.

Tell him. don't tell us.

If he doesn't get it, Say buh-bye.

 

[Gussss]

I would have been gone way before it got to the point that you're at.

 

[leomendez93]

That is called relationship. Is he worth some work and light up the relationship? Do not throw the guy out because you are still horny and his testosterone is going down? Go to counseling with him if you think it is worth sticking together...communication buddy...best remedy. As we all age, sex change..we want the animalistic sex all our lives...it is not so... love grows and becomes more important then the animal thing. Sex with love when you really appreciate the other is awesome as well. Stop jacking off or that will take place your energy to even talk to the guy... face it... You are being called to be a man and face the relationship and life development. So, be a man.

 

[ronboy]

Paul Simon said it best.....

50 Ways To Leave Your Lover

The problem is all inside your head
He said to me
The answer is easy if you
Take it logically
I’d like to help you in your struggle
To be free
There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover
He said it’s really not my habit
To intrude
Furthermore, I hope my meaning
Won’t be lost or misconstrued
But I’ll repeat myself
At the risk of being crude
There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover
CHORUS:
You just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don’t need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don’t need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free
He said it grieves me so
To see you in such pain
I wish there was something I could do
To make you smile again
I said I appreciate that
And would you please explain
About the fifty ways
He said why don’t we both
Just sleep on it tonight
And I believe in the morning
You’ll begin to see the light
And then he kissed me
And I realized he probably was right
There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover

 

[Alpha1851]

Since you're the self proclaimed "house bitch," I'm assuming your partner is the "bread winner," correct? If so, could the stress of his career be overwhelming him right now? You haven't mentioned whether his thoughtlessness is consistent or if this is new behavior. Also, since he doesn't maintain the home, he may not realize how tough it is. I'd clue him in.

 

[KaraBulut]

I'm going to move your thread over to Coming Out and Relationships so that it doesn't get lost in Hot Topics.

 

[On The Edge]

have u spoken to him about how u feel?..