WTF? Pre-cum problems

[Emptiness]

Sorry im currently in my first serious relationship with a guy and im having some serious pre-cum issues. I dont know whats up.. Ive never had it before. Like we could just pash or something and I cream my pants. This aint cool.
Why would i suddenly be having this problem and is there anything that can stop it?

 

[Jeimuzu]

Erm, jack off before he gets there? The second orgasm is usually a bit longer in coming.

Pun not intended.

I imagine it's nerves, though. You'll calm down eventually.

Oddly, nerves have totally different effects. For example, when I was nervous, with the first three guys I was with, I couldn't orgasm from anything they were doing. Luckily, Karl's sorted that for the moment

 

[tallguy297]

hey Emptiness,

Mate I moved your thread to health and well being where some of the guys here are better able to answer your questions and answer your concerns...

For what its worth, I've always beleive that pre cum is related to how turned on you are... admittedly some guys do it in buckets and others dont... but I would guess that you just really really like this guy... and he pushes all your buttons.

Its a sign that you are getting lost in the moment and enjoying being with guy with every fibre in your body... dont worry too much mate... its a great sign, not a bad one!

 

[12fear99]

I had this problem because I would get horny so quickly. My pants would sometimes even wet enough and you could see. My friend loved it so much, he would forward to my pants down quickly and sucking me. It is great but does not last very long. Now I control myself better by masturbating more often. My sex life is much more fulfilling. Good Luck

 

[Telstra]

pre-mature ejeculation is not a problem.

if you ejeculate to early. do it again until you can't ejeculate anymore.

 

[JetSetJake]

Personally I love guys who produce a lot of precum!! The more the better in my opinion - I find it very sexy and such a turn on!

 

[KaraBulut]

As long as what you are having is pre-cum and not premature ejaculation, it is perfectly normal. It just indicates that you are very turned on by your boyfriend.

If it is bothering you, Jeimuzu and Dorkzilla are correct- masturbating more often, particularly the day of your dates will help.

 

[Georgiadude]

Hey E,

I have this same problem. A lot of times just thinking about having sex gets my juices flowing so to speak. I make a ton of the stuff and it really can get annoying. It doesn't matter if I masturbate earlier in the day or not. I have just learned to accept it as there really isn't much I can do about it. Take it as a sign that you are really attracted to you bf and make the best of it. I hope your relationship works out for you.

Steven.