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WTH? O_o Not gay anymore?

ejbonk

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Kanashimi Twilight said:
Hi guys, I feel really confused right now... let me tell you my story. Since I can remember, I was never attracted to girls. I noticed it when I was a little kid, and I decided not to tell anyone about it. I hated it, I really wanted to be straight, I tried to like girls, but it was simply impossible >_< I grew up hiding my sexual orientation, so I've never been in any kind of relationship. I'm a 20 years old virgin, and that really doesn’t bother me at all.

I had a really hard time accepting the fact that I was not into chicks... I tried to have a gf, I watched straight porn... but it was useless. I always felt really attracted to guys... I wanted to be part of a gay relationship. I even felt very attracted to my best friend >_<

Anyway... suddenly, some days before I turned 20, I started to feel attracted by girls O_o And my attraction for guys dropped significatively. I was really confused... I didn't know if I was gay or straight >_< Did I live 20 years being confused? Right now, I feel attracted to both genders, but not nearly as much as I used to feel attracted by men.

Right now I like how girls look, I feel attracted to breasts, and suddenly I don't find impossible to have a gf. I tried to watch straight porn again, and while I like the female body more than before, I still found it kinda gross @_@ WTH? And I don't feel attracted to guys as I used to be.

Sometimes I feel more attracted to girls, just to feel more attracted to guys after some hours. This happens several times in a day, it's REALLY confusing ~_~ I don't care if I like girls, guys or both... but I want this rotation to stop! I don't even know what kind of relationship would make me happy.

This kinda sucks... :confused:

Thanks for your time, guys, I hope you can help me -_- Is this normal? Am I just confused?...
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Ok,let's break this down one step at a time shall,We. You have all ways felt attracted to men until recently.Ok
Now,you are finding Women attractive.OK
I would have to say your gay with Bi-sexual Discoveries.

In other words,and mind you this is just a theory.
I think somewhere deep down in your body a hormone has been released that wants you to Breed.In other words make a little you DNA wise that is.
that could be the source of your confussion.

Then again there are gay guys;) that do like playing with girls boobs and sharing their clothes and gossiping over their men together,but I do not get that vibe from you that your a flamer or a Queen.

In this new age of the world wide web chat. It is hard to say ,if this is a common thing. However,I would have to guess older married,gay and bi-guys could answer it better. Men in their 60's and 70's.

For the Short term,:DI would have to say Quit Agonizing ](*,)over,what type of relationship will make you happy.It's not the sex of a person that makes the relationship,it's the person they are inside.(*8*)
Your 20 for god's sake,go out live life,experience it,date men,date women, oh for God's sake go have some fun. sow some:sex: wild oats.

:DLife is a banquet,and most poor suckers are starving to death.(I think your one of them.) So LIVE!LIVE!LIVE!:gogirl: Eat,Drink,Dance and Be Merry. And ,if someone calls me Auntie Mamie again so help me:grrr:That old broad knew what she was talking about and yes the book,the play and the movies are based on a real person that lived once a upon a time in these United States.

OK,Daddy Bisexual's Rant is over,by the way,I have the flu and currently heavily medicated,so I hope I was not to far out there.
 
"And ,if someone calls me Auntie Mamie again so help me"

don't worry, it's good advice. And I'd take that as a compliment!
You coax the blues right out of the horn...
 
Does it really matter? Just go with the flow. I guess the best thing for you to do is to be open to anything. Love is love, lust is lust, w/e.
 
Not everybody is the same, and not everybody stays the same. Who you were five years ago is not who you are now, and who you are now will not be the same in another five years. Therefore, be you, try to understand yourself, and don't worry about any words used to describe yourself. You are you, and whether you fit the technical description of "gay", "bi", or "straight", you are ultimately defined by yourself.
 
ejbonk said:
Ok,let's break this down one step at a time shall,We. You have all ways felt attracted to men until recently.Ok
Now,you are finding Women attractive.OK
I would have to say your gay with Bi-sexual Discoveries.

In other words,and mind you this is just a theory.
I think somewhere deep down in your body a hormone has been released that wants you to Breed.In other words make a little you DNA wise that is.
that could be the source of your confussion.

Then again there are gay guys;) that do like playing with girls boobs and sharing their clothes and gossiping over their men together,but I do not get that vibe from you that your a flamer or a Queen.

In this new age of the world wide web chat. It is hard to say ,if this is a common thing. However,I would have to guess older married,gay and bi-guys could answer it better. Men in their 60's and 70's.

For the Short term,:DI would have to say Quit Agonizing ](*,)over,what type of relationship will make you happy.It's not the sex of a person that makes the relationship,it's the person they are inside.(*8*)
Your 20 for god's sake,go out live life,experience it,date men,date women, oh for God's sake go have some fun. sow some:sex: wild oats.

:DLife is a banquet,and most poor suckers are starving to death.(I think your one of them.) So LIVE!LIVE!LIVE!:gogirl: Eat,Drink,Dance and Be Merry. And ,if someone calls me Auntie Mamie again so help me:grrr:That old broad knew what she was talking about and yes the book,the play and the movies are based on a real person that lived once a upon a time in these United States.

OK,Daddy Bisexual's Rant is over,by the way,I have the flu and currently heavily medicated,so I hope I was not to far out there.
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Hmm. Still Good Advise...|
 
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