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asu1117 said:
Those who think that the dirty mistress deserves no blame have a guilty conscience.


Good job, you're officially a home wrecker. :=D:





And really? Being shallow is your only qualm here?
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i agree but he isn't tryna hear that today
 
If the guy wanted to be with his wife, he'd be with her.

Should he stay with her if men are what he truly desires?

Is that fair to her? Doesn't she deserve a man who wants her?
 
It is best for all involved that this guy faced his true sexuality before any kids showed up. So, I agree with Spunk-junky.

This guy was good enough to fuck around with when you thought you could not have him. Now, that you can have him, you are not sure you want him. What gives?

You need to give the relationship a chance. Let him move in. Someone can always move out if it doesn't work out.
 
Lol ... I knew negative criticism was inevitable, but they're not indelible! I was simply sharing a current situation with the masses and thus is the result. As with any criticism (constructive or not), I'll take what I need and leave the rest.

I am not making any excuses, as these are just statement of fact:

1) He was openly bi and involved with another guy when she put the "HEY BABY" on him,
2) She got pregnant, so he did the "proper thing" and married her,
3) A year into their marriage, they tried a couple of 3-ways (both: FMF & MFM) to "add spice" to their waning love life,
4) She was the first one to actively seek and find another [lone male] lover; it was because of her taking up with him again upon their move back up here that he pursued me, and
5) It takes two to tango, and/or we're both consenting adults.

Lol ... All those that sit in judgment and condemnation of others so readily never fail to tickle my funny bone! That is why they say, "Education's nemesis is not ignorance but fear. Fear gives ignorance its power ... " It is infinitely easier to point the finger and attention at someone else than take a personality inventory and determine how to better myself.

Do I fear that I will burn forevermore in the eternal damnation of hell? LOL ... HELL NO!!! Do I feel that I am better than those that condemn me? Lol ... Hell NO!!! Life is life, and all we can do is strive to make it better around us in our lifetime. I'll admit it: my shit stinks sometimes, but that's why I have a can of Febreeze in every rest room.

My very first uni psych prof was fond of emphasizing, "We see the world not they way it is, but the way we are" (via The Talmud). Psychology, sociology, anthropology, and even paleontology are moot without objectivity!
 
syoBsUtsuJ said:
Lol ... I knew negative criticism was inevitable, but they're not indelible! I was simply sharing a current situation with the masses and thus is the result. As with any criticism (constructive or not), I'll take what I need and leave the rest.

I am not making any excuses, as these are just statement of fact:

1) He was openly bi and involved with another guy when she put the "HEY BABY" on him,
2) She got pregnant, so he did the "proper thing" and married her,
3) A year into their marriage, they tried a couple of 3-ways (both: FMF & MFM) to "add spice" to their waning love life,
4) She was the first one to actively seek and find another [lone male] lover; it was because of her taking up with him again upon their move back up here that he pursued me, and
5) It takes two to tango, and/or we're both consenting adults.

Lol ... All those that sit in judgment and condemnation of others so readily never fail to tickle my funny bone! That is why they say, "Education's nemesis is not ignorance but fear. Fear gives ignorance its power ... " It is infinitely easier to point the finger and attention at someone else than take a personality inventory and determine how to better myself.

Do I fear that I will burn forevermore in the eternal damnation of hell? LOL ... HELL NO!!! Do I feel that I am better than those that condemn me? Lol ... Hell NO!!! Life is life, and all we can do is strive to make it better around us in our lifetime. I'll admit it: my shit stinks sometimes, but that's why I have a can of Febreeze in every rest room.

My very first uni psych prof was fond of emphasizing, "We see the world not they way it is, but the way we are" (via The Talmud). Psychology, sociology, anthropology, and even paleontology are moot without objectivity!
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No one is trying to hear that today, nor give a damn about your uni pysch professor had to say......no offense
 
syoBsUtsuJ said:
Well, it's happened ... he wants to leave his wife and move in with me. I enjoyed our situation as it was, and here I was worried that I'd be the one "falling in love."

I can't accept blame for the demise of their marriage, as his was fully aware and condoning per her dropping him off at our motel meetings and my house. Now my quandary is: do I really want him as a full-time REAL boyfriend?

He spent the night here last night and brought up the subject of moving in with me permanently, and I was speechless. Don't get me wrong, he is HOT and all, but he's not the brightest bulb on the Christmas tree. Intelligence has always been a major issue with me, especially when it comes to relationships.

Ack! I don't want to come across as being so shallow! Maybe I should just become serious with him, as the pickin's up here are mighty slim.
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You are one of the worst sociopathic narcissists that I've seen in a while. People are just toys for your amusement. Its all about attention and manipulation, without a shred of caring or feeling of personal responsibility. Even here in this forum, this entire thread is a nasty web of your creation to feed your needs.

You are a douchebag.

You also need to get into therapy.

Karma buddy. One day its going to bite you on the ass.

Oh, I recognize that even negative attention feeds you, but I just had to post this reply. Sometimes people just need to be called out.
 
Well, post-coital talk turned to his daughter last Friday night / Saturday morning, and after major encouragement, he went to talk with his wife. I'm assuming that they're back together, as he hasn't been back since, even though most of his clothes are here!

Am I happy that he's back together with his wife? ... idk ... but I am happy that he's reunited with his daughter. I know for a fact that she is his world! In the long run, I suppose I am indeed happy for him, if just for that. Some guys are just undeiably bisexual and need their itch scratched occasionally ... and I told him that I won't be his funzies on the side for that.
 
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