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10 Stages Before Sex

kyless85

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My bf says there are ten stages before sex, well sex being the tenth, the first is kissing. But which are the other ones? he says he doesn't know for sure, but he once heard about it. Does anyone know?
 
Wow! In the old days it was 3 bases before the home run.

Same here! I can give you the terms in Baseball but I don't know the 10 steps!

1st base: Kissing, holding hands

2nd base: fondling, dry humping, making out

3rd base: Oral sex

Home Plate: The actual act in straight sex

Stealing 3rd (etc.) you start off at 2nd base and you just go straight to third without thinking about anything!

Home Run: Usually one night stands, Basically rounding the bases in one night.

Inside the park home run: usually involves doing everything in a hurry....IE parents are gone out for only 20 mins so you get to it.


At least that's what my straight friends tell me.......who knows.
 
Meh. For me it starts with a kiss. Everything else after is just, well, fun!
 
Adidasluvr:

No means yes, and yes means now! :p
 
1. Kissing

2. "Stop it!" slap

3. Kissing

4. "Stop it!" slap

5. Kissing

6. Giggling

7. Moaning

8. "Stop it!" slap

9. "Dont stop"

10. SEX!
Where does, "What if someone sees us?" fit into it?
 
Don't know about the 10 stages before sex, but I found this rivetting piece of information on one of those 'new age/spiritual awareness'-type websites. It's expressed in hetero terms but feel free to gayify it ;) .....

The 12 Stages to Angelic Intercourse

Stage 1: Ordinary - Any Part A Into Any Hole B: At this level, both the man and the woman are only seeking to gratify their mutual lust and discharge their accumulated desires for sex - anyone will do.

Stage 2: Ordinary - A Particular Part A Into A Particular Hole B: At this level, the man and the woman prefer to be with one another. They start to become partners and do not want "just anyone". The energy begins to arc back and forth in a line between the man's penis and the woman's vagina.

Stage 3: Ordinary - Simple Pathway of Desire for Partner A and B: At this level, the desire starting in the man's brain travels through his heart before reaching his penis while the woman creates a path of desire from her heart to her vagina. The energy travels in a flat, thin "U" shape between them during sex.

Stage 4: Ordinary - Complex Pathway of Desire for Partner A and B: At this level, desire starting in the man's brain goes through his Heart, Solar Plexus, and Sacrum before going to his Root/Penis. The woman creates a path of desire going through her Heart, Solar Plexus, and Sacrum before going to her Root/ Vagina. The energy travels in a short, thick "U" shape between them during sex.

Stage 5: Ordinary - Advanced Pathway of Desire for Partner A and B: At this level, the desire starts in the man's Crown, going into his brain, travelling through all his Chakras, and out through his penis. His energy is received into the woman's vagina, joining her energy, travelling through all her Chakras, and out through her head. The energy travels in a tall "U" shape between them during sex.

Stage 6: Ordinary - Circular Pathway of Desire for Partner A and B: At this level, the desire starts in the man's Crown, going into his brain, travels through all his Chakras, and out through his penis. His energy is received into the woman's vagina, joining her energy, travels through all her Chakras, and out through her head. The energy becomes his then hers as it flows between them. The energy flows from her head back into his forming a thin, circular "O" path between them.

Stage 7: Angelic - Connected Pathway of Desire for Partner A and B: At this level, the circular pathway between the man and woman becomes a fusing and a merging of their energy. The energy flowing between them is his and hers and both. The energy forms a thick, circular "O" shaped path between them which runs in a continuous circle through their Chakras during their lovemaking.

Stage 8: Angelic - Connected Pathway of "Personality" Chakras for Partner A and B: At this level, the circular pathway between man and woman is so strong that it pushes out into their Personality Chakras. The Personality Chakras are the lower three: Root, Sacrum, and Solar Plexus. During sex, they become linked together in that order - the Root first, the Sacrum next, and the Solar Plexus last. The energy flows in a thick, circular "O" shaped path and also in straight lines directly between the Personality Chakras of both individuals. Energetically the bottom half of the "O" has three lines running through it.

Stage 9: Angelic - Connected Pathway of "Spiritual" Chakras for Partner A and B: At this level, the circular pathway between man and woman is so strong it pushes beyond the Personality Chakras out into the Spirituality Chakras. The Spirituality Chakras are the next three: Heart, Throat, and Third Eye. During sex, they become linked together in that order - the Heart first, the Throat next, and the Third Eye last - after the Personalities have connected. The energy flows in a thick, circular "O" shaped path and also in straight lines directly between the Personality and the Spirituality Chakras of both individuals. Energetically the "O" has six lines running through it with space at the top.

Stage 10: Angelic - Completely Linked Chakras for Partner A and B: At this level, the circular pathway between man and woman is so strong it pushes beyond the Spirituality Chakras into the Crown Chakra. The energy flows in a thick, circular "O" shaped path and in straight lines directly between the Chakras individuals. Energetically the "O" has seven very thick lines running through it.

Stage 11: Angelic - Completely Connected Chakras for Partner A and B: At this level, the Chakras of both individuals are completely fused together. There is no his and her energy: there is only us. The energy flows harmoniously in all directions. Energetically the "O" is completely filled in with energy.

Stage 12: Angelic - Completely Connected Energy for Partner A and B: At this level, the Chakras of both individuals are so strongly fused together that is pushes out into the Inner Energy Bodies of both individuals - literally, the two become one - the ultimate fulfillment of the bond of love. The energy flows everywhere instantaneously. Energetically the completely filled "O" keeps on expanding outward until both partners are fully linked at all levels.


Makes me wanna sprout wings, it does!!
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.... we need to go back and edit so that it reads "man and man" rather than "man and woman".;)
lol .... I started to do that but it got too unwieldy ..... hence the "feel free to gayify" comment at the beginning. ..|
 
I would think horny is the first stage and kissing is somewhat later.
 
Maybe i wrote it wrong, i don't live in the US so we don't use the base system. What i mean is that a techer told him there were 9 types of making out, from least to most intense, (the ninth one probably including oral), and the tenth being sex. But we weren't able to find them all. I think they go more or less like this:

1. Normal Kissing
2. More intense kissing, against a wall or something
3. Falling into a bed and butt touching
4. Making out with no shirts
5. Slightly touching each others dick, or stroking it against each other, but with clothes on
6. Pants off
7. ?
8. ?
9. ?
10. Sex

I think it goes like that, but i don't know #s 7, 8, and 9, does anyone have any ideas?
 
My experinence is that most gay men hit triples or home runs before they ever get to first base. As a teen, I engaged in jerk offs and swapped blow jobs way before I kissed a guy. I mean, kissing a dude! That would mean I was a fag[-X

The first time I kissed a guy -- wow! Rockets went off, the earth moved, etc. And kissing remains my favorite intimate act: even when we are doing 'it', the sweetest moments are when we take a time out to suck face. Granted, getting our mouths aligned often requires being something of a contortionist if we're doing it doggie style, but the effort makes it all the sweeter:kiss:

I don't know if going straight for the pleasure fix/orgasm (as opposed to the more human intimacy of holding hands and kissing) is something endemic to male sexuality, or evidence to the fact that, even in this day, homosexual acts remain at best fringe activities, to be conducted on the sly in clandestine spots. I'm hoping that as we come to be more and more accepted, gay teens will be able to date, and take their time making their way around the bases.

The best efforts of the religious right nothwithstanding, I think kids these days are in general much more accepting of the fact that people come in different flavors. I think gay teens have an easier time of it than I did 15 years ago.

On the downside, it doesn't seem that contemporary heterosexual teens are wasting any time hitting long balls, either. These days, many 15 year old girls feel hoplessly immature because they haven't lost their cherries yet:confused: At the risk of being obvious, I attribute this sad observation to advertising, and the strong link it enforces between sexuality and maturity, especially being a 'woman'.

One of the great conundrums of homo sapeiens is that we achieve physical maturity long before we come of age emotionally and intellectually. While I'm certainly no advocate of celibacy -- every time I hear 'abstinance' mentioned as a legitimate form of 'birth control' or 'safe sex' my blood pressure spikes -- I nonetheless believe that society as a whole could use a good lesson in the regressive virtue of patience, especially with regard to physical intimacy..|
 
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