100% top

[Robert12345]

Last weekend I went to a gay club with a cruising area. Normally Im not so into these things but I decided to give it a try since my friend cancelled last minute and I wanted to go out anyway. I imagined that in such a place its more common to go alone. And I was horny too

Anyway the club was fine not packed ( sunday ) but still there was a hot guy around my age, and I made my move after a couple of beers. I followed him downstairs and after a bit of fondling he gestured me down for a blowjob. No problem since I love giving them. I tried to kiss him but after a quick snog he averted his head, that should have been my first clue.

Anyway I went down and after a few mins I got up, we touched each other, rubbing our cocks together, slapping our asses. It was great so far. I then tried to coax him down for returning the bj favor but he didnt want it. He didnt speak English that well (yes I know, we had a great mental bond, lol). So I still didnt get it exactly. I turned him over kissed his neck down and started rimming him. When I got up to grab a condom he said 'no, Im top'. Im versatile and the guy was cute as hell but I asked again to at least suck me off and again he says 'no Im, top'. And he grabs a condom himself. That did it for me and I told him no, I have needs too. And I walked out. I left the club some minutes after, my mood was gone.

Anyway my questions:
Is it normal for a guy only wanting to fuck and nothing else?
Is anyone here like that or had a similar experience?
And why behave in that manner?

 

[bottomjosh]

I have met guys like this. If you just want to be fucked their fine. They get off and leave. But they really aren't much fun. I call them human dildos.

 

[palbert]

Well now you know one person to avoid. Too many guys like that.

 

[darden]

I have met guys like this. If you just want to be fucked their fine. They get off and leave. But they really aren't much fun. I call them human dildos.

yep.

sometimes that may be just what you're in the mood for, but generally speaking, a guy who won't reciprocate is an automatic deal-breaker.

 

[Robert12345]

What would a straight guy do in a gay club? Im not buying that explanation

 

[maxpowr9]

There are always a few wierdos at clubs: gay or straight.

I have met 100%tops and 100%bottoms but if that's a deal breaker for you, then walk away like you did.

 

[darden]

What would a straight guy do in a gay club? Im not buying that explanation

it's not necessarily about being straight... some guys are just super self-centered to the point that even in sex, they have no interest in their partner's enjoyment of it as long as they themselves are getting off.

 

[LuckysRevenge]

Even if I was vers I wouldn't want some random guy in a club fucking me.
For hookups I'd only be interested in getting off.

 

[cuteguyincali]

Im a 100% bi bottom. My interest are to find 100% tops. Ill let a top suck my cock but really does nothing for me. I get harder sucking him off and getting fucked. Is that being selfish? What do you think?

 

[TX-Beau]

NO, that's not unheard of...

 

[Rolyo85]

That's normal and it's usually a sign of issues. Not a fan, but then again, I am also 90% top, so that's just not interesting to me. But I would never have a problem with giving any sort of 'job to the guy I am with, and if they don't want to kiss, I am out the door in an instant.

 

[Seasoned]

With a stranger involved I see this as a hot story and a non issue. His behavior needs no explaination and no further thought. Keep looking.

 

[Naughty_Monkey]

What would a straight guy do in a gay club? Im not buying that explanation

Not straight, closeted and afraid of himself.

 

[bruce379]

What would a straight guy do in a gay club? Im not buying that explanation

There are many guys who are like who you just met. i don't like hooking up with guys who don't kiss or reciprocate. it just ruins the fun. at least you know who to avoid.

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Not straight, closeted and afraid of himself.

yup. my thoughts exactly.

 

[Lube]

In some cultures, only topping means you're "not gay". Yeah, go figure.

But he probably gets lots of takers because there are many bottoms who want nothing more than a top to fuck them.

Not interested in that? Move on and find someone else. Lesson learned.

 

[youngnihilist]

yes 100% top exists. i'm one. not because I have anything against bottoming, just don't wanna do it. doesn't feel good. topping does. it's pretty rare though, the vast majority of guys will bottom... and you'd be surprised how many "straight" bottoms there are out there!