20 years old, gave first BJ, worried about dieseases

[dudecool3190]

So here's my story. I'm 20, and i consider myself straight but very curious. I was drunk last wednesday and hanging out with a frat guy from around school. very good looking, very muscular. hes mostly straight but he's been with a few guys he told me. we could both kinda tell there was some sexual tension and he made a move on me. being drunk and curious and figuring that he's an incredible looking guy i might not get this change again i let him start to suck me. I sucked him too. i came in his mouth and he didnt cum in mine. i jerked him to finish. it was really hot.

but im kinda worried because my wisdom teeth are coming in...and i dont know if thats conisdered and open wound in my mouth. a few days after i felt kinda weird. mostly my throat is bothering me. its been about 8 days now. i dont have a fever. but i got a stuffy nose and my throat aches. not like strep throat but kinda of sore. doesnt hurt when i swallow it just aches a little. and my lips are pretty dry. i have no reason to suspect he has a disease...he said he was clean, uses condoms, is a pre med major, looks very healthy etc. and he didnt even cum in my mouth. but im paranoid. i hope you guys understand. is it possibl that when he face fucked me at a pretty good speed that his dick went further down my throat than i could handle and aggravated my throat or sinuses. i seem to have post nasal drip going on too. or maybe i caught a cold from him by sucking him?

 

[BINOWGAYLATER]

can we back up to he's "mostly straight" an d he let you cream in his mouth. alllrighty then.

Oh Dr. Kinsey -- got a minute? yeah, over here.

how much of a baseball bat did he shove down your throat, anyway?

 

[dudecool3190]

mostly straight were his words. obviously hes bisexual. he was probably 7 inches. curved upward, rock hard.

 

[gsdx]

or maybe i caught a cold from him by sucking him?

That, but not from sucking him. I doubt if you caught it from him since it was 8 days ago. Common colds have an incubation period of from 2 to 5 days but symptoms can appear in a matter of hours.

 

[dudecool3190]

so should i be worried at all? like i said no fever. but my throat feels odd and that wisdom teeth wound...

oh and soulseeker, hes like a 9/10. 6'2 190lbs six-pac, bubble butt, black hair, great legs, nice pecs. oh did i mention he models? lol

 

[BINOWGAYLATER]

and listen to Dr. Unclean --(despite his name) he's been around the block. twice.

 

[rickycub87]

Don't worry too much about it, man. I went through this same thing a year or two ago. I played with like 5 different guys in one week the week I had my first. I was also worried about "open wounds" from my wisdom teeth and I actually let 3 out of the 5 cum in my mouth. I got tested 3 and 6 months month later and had no diseases.

Even though it is possible to get stuff from BJ's it's rare to get anything that serious. Just be smart about not not sucking any and everything (always at least try to use good judgement on who you're doing that with) and if you do something like that you can't take it back so don't worry about something you can't change. Just go get tested if you feel there was a risk and it is what it is...

 

[FPNY]

you prolly have a tumor, don't worry about it....

 

[pausanias_usa]

Chlamydia or mono. I was 20 when I got mono. It sucked . . . but not like you did 8').

 

[backpacker]

The best thing to do is go to the doctor. That's a lot better than getting medical advice from a gay forum. In fact if you were on a medical forum, I'm betting that they would tell you to see a doctor. You will feel a lot better once a doctor has checked you out.

 

[Latimer]

Take my advice. Seriously, take my advice. Go to student health (or whatever it's called at your school), explain what happened and have them do whatever tests they deem appropriate. Forget the embarrassment. They've seen and heard it all. It's in all probability nothing, but you'll feel better simply having been seen by a professional.

 

[CudDULL]

Cool story.

Anyway if you did get an std it would take about a few weeks for symptoms, just go get tested at your health clinic on campus just in case.

Chlamydia or mono. I was 20 when I got mono. It sucked . . . but not like you did 8').

How old were you when you got chlamydia?

 

[MoltenRock III]

So here's my story. I'm 20, and i consider myself straight but very curious. I was drunk last wednesday and hanging out with a frat guy from around school. very good looking, very muscular. hes mostly straight but he's been with a few guys he told me. we could both kinda tell there was some sexual tension and he made a move on me. being drunk and curious and figuring that he's an incredible looking guy i might not get this change again i let him start to suck me. I sucked him too. i came in his mouth and he didnt cum in mine. i jerked him to finish. it was really hot.

but im kinda worried because my wisdom teeth are coming in...and i dont know if thats conisdered and open wound in my mouth. a few days after i felt kinda weird. mostly my throat is bothering me. its been about 8 days now. i dont have a fever. but i got a stuffy nose and my throat aches. not like strep throat but kinda of sore. doesnt hurt when i swallow it just aches a little. and my lips are pretty dry. i have no reason to suspect he has a disease...he said he was clean, uses condoms, is a pre med major, looks very healthy etc. and he didnt even cum in my mouth. but im paranoid. i hope you guys understand. is it possibl that when he face fucked me at a pretty good speed that his dick went further down my throat than i could handle and aggravated my throat or sinuses. i seem to have post nasal drip going on too. or maybe i caught a cold from him by sucking him?

Stop being a hypochondriac! Stop focusing your anger/confusion/joy/whatever over your body ever second for the past few days. You sucked a cock! Yay you! Now knock it off, and go out and meet real gay guys that you can build a friendship or relationship on.

 

[mbamike]

There is a very good post in Coming out , Relationships & Bisex Talk on this very issue under the thread "Dating a guy with HIV."

I have great confidence in Karabulut when it comes to all this medical stuff. Here is what he posted. You should read the thread for yourself to get to full story.

Well, we're not in H&W here but there's some clarification needed.

We know that the risk of HIV transmission for the person giving the blowjob is low. But we have a lot of studies that can't really pinpoint the how the person was infected because people engage in lots of different sex acts, so it's hard to know which one transmitted the virus.

But we do have cases (less than 50) that are documented in studies where the only possible mode of transmission was receptive oral sex. And there are animal studies that have confirmed glandular tissue such as the tonsils and open lesions in the mouth/throat as possible means of transmission.

Currently, studies are estimating that anywhere from 1-15% of HIV infections are transmitted orally which is a pretty broad and unspecific range. It is most certainly a low number in the overall picture.

In general, HIV is a difficult virus to contract because- as you said- it doesn't survive very long under adverse conditions. This means that not every exposure of any type will result in an infection. But it is accurate to say that the majority of transmissions are linked to unprotected receptive anal sex but there are some transmissions that may be occuring through receptive oral sex and probably anal sex is about 6-10 times more likely to result in an HIV infection than oral sex but these were not controlled studies and the data is not completely reliable. One expert at a conference I attended estimated the risk of infection to be about 1 in every 2500 receptive oral sex exposures, which is a very low risk.

And of course, as with all these things the risk increases exponentially when there are multiple partners, multiple exposures or high risk activity.


http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/InSite?pag...oc=pr-rr-05-01
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[evanrick]

hes not straight and neither are you. why are people so obsessed with labels as if being straight is superior?

 

[hotatlboi]

hes not straight and neither are you. why are people so obsessed with labels as if being straight is superior?

Because unfortunately many people in our society still believe that gay is inferior.