I mean I liked the dude a lot, but I dunno I just felt werid about having sex...I just didn't like it to be honest...I tried to do him, and then he did me and he was so into it I was just very to be hoenst turned off by the whole thing...but perhaps I should press on and try agian.
We did a lot of things though, pretty much everything...for someone so inexperienced I fucked him like a pro, but I just didn't get too much satisfaction from it. Ugh and me being fucked I did NOT enjoy at all...at all.
But I did enjoy him sucking me that was pretty hot haha.
I hear you, man! Sounds very much like my first time "going ALL the way"! I didn't much "get" what the big deal was about "doing butt". In fact ... I was a bit grossed out by my own varying thoughts concerning what I was doing to him. However, he had prior experience, and truly seemed to like what I was doing!
And as for my first time on the receiving end ... not very pleasurable at all! Again, I was dealing with my own "hang ups" about what I had heard, and though I was fairly drunk, couldn't entirely relax. Again, though, he seemed to like it!
Later, days later, and sober, I asked him why he enjoyed getting fucked. He was concerned that I hadn't enjoyed him doing me. We talked about it for quite some time, and he convinced me to let him try me again, "butt" more in a "teacher" type of roll/frame of mind.
The next time he was much more attentive to what I was expecting/experiencing. We talked to each other during the "encounter". He taught me how to relax. He was gentler and slower. And I began to learn just how pleasurable getting fucked could be! He "sent me" to "places" I had never been before! He made me cum spontaneously! THAT was AWESOME!!!
It truly was a learning experience! And, we continued giving each other "lessons" quite a few times after that.
I must add, though, that doing anal, either way, never became the "central thing" for me. However, I did come to understand why many Guys enjoy it so much!
I guess it is an "acquired thing". Something that takes a patient teacher, as well as a willing student. And I am forever grateful for those experiences. Just something I only do, now, on very special, rare, occasions.
There are a lot of Guys that have tried it, and just don't ever get "into" it. And, that's O.K.! Everyone has their own individual preferences. However, I would encourage everyone to try it more than once, especially with a caring partner.
And, BTW, once I learned to relax and enjoy, I also learned the pleasure in "giving", too! I could better understand what he was feeling, and how to push his buttons! It's along the same lines as Guys being better than Girls at cock sucking because we know what it feels like to Us!
I'm wishing you the very best of luck with your endeavors!
And, of course, no matter what ...
Keep smilin'!!


Chaz
