21 yo boy needs some help...

[Jeimuzu]

'Those guys' have usually taken viagra to make the scene hotter for the cameras.

 

[chrisdobro]

yeah, I wouldn't judge real sex by the movie industry. Some things I've seen in porn make my cringe, knowing what they'd feel like in reality. There are some things that are done for 'show' and may not be pleasant in a real situation.

Either way, I'm personally soft when I get plowed. In fact I enjoy it more when I'm soft, as for me being hard takes away from the sensation in the rear.

Some folks get very hard when they get plowed. I can't imagine why or how as I haven't experienced it, but I guess they get extremely turned on by it and it's how their body responds.

I say let you be you. Before I've seen any gay porn or movies I was very fine with my sexuality and the way I was. Later I found out that there are guys who get hard in a lot more situations than I do. That put me at a disequillibrium for a bit, but then I've realized that being me is fine. I suppose when you are not shown what can be 'out there', you are find with being yourself. I say, be yourself anyway and don't compare. You are you, a unique person with your own way of sexuality.

 

[rareboy]

i watch porn all the time and those guys always seem to be hard when they get it. Im not sure if its just me because the guy I sleep with just meets with me when his GF is out of town, and wont let me do more than lick his ass.

Check again. Most of the time they're not.

BTW, the guy would have to be a god or the last guy on earth before I'd be licking his ass for him only when his gf is away and he's looking for something to bang.

 

[G-Lexington]

Thoughts? Two.

1. Who cares how hard (or not) you are as long as you enjoy it?

2. You most likely will have more luck having sex with a guy who actually gives a damn about your pleasure, and isn't just looking for a convenient hole when his regular hole is unavailable.

Lex

 

[genthree]

cocks can be contrary dam things, don't worry about it, that only makes it worse. Next time you go into the locker room pinch some dirty abused jocks for me please !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[KaraBulut]

guy we moved from bj's to anal, I took it like a champ but I didnt get a hard-on. I just got off the bed right now (anal again, i cant get enough of it) but still no hard-on. what am i doing wrong?

What you didn't say is whether you enjoyed taking it up the ass. If you enjoyed it (mentally, physically) then that's all that matters. If your sexual partner was paying attention to your face, your eyes and your moans of pleasure, he probably didn't notice or care whether you were hard at the moment.

i watch porn all the time and those guys always seem to be hard when they get it.

That's because the assistant director on the set is passing out Cialis on the set like it's Skittles. And the editor is splicing in takes where the guy has a hard-on and cutting the takes where the guy isn't hard.

Don't compare yourself or anyone else to what you see in a porn movie- it's supposed to be inspirational but it's not real.

 

[geep2b]

find a guy who will give you a real blow job. yoy will get plenty hard.

 

[Luka]

when i get anal i shrink right up, lol it doesnt bother me any.

 

[luminum]

I shrink too when I do anal, but I still enjoy it, and that's all that matters. And if I want to, I can always start stroking it and it'll be hard, so...::shrug::

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>Don't compare real sex to what you see in porn movies...

Yeah. I've noticed that my orgasms aren't in slow motion and from many different camera angles...

Lex

 

[luminum]

Nor do you orgasm once, then orgasm the exact same way immediately form different angles.