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27 year age difference a problem?

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Remember age is just a number. If the chemistry is right and you turn each other on and are compapable, what have you got to lose ? Also, a relationship is more than sex.
 
If you were 22 I'd say we have a problem on our hands but at 32 I would hope your head is on straight and you're comfortable with who you are and wise enough to make good decisions
 
There are examples where age difference hasn't been a problem, e.g. Isherwood and Bachardy.

But, my guess is that most people would find it difficult not only because of the different levels of experience and maturity, but also because the dynamic is a harder one to get to work, which is why you don't see it as often as you might.

For example, if the older guy is in a mentor role, the younger one tends to outgrow being a protege and the relationship has to realign (not easy) if it is to continue.

That's not to say don't go for it. Same age relationship go through their own transitions and often just don't work. But read up on the issues. Age isn't just a number. No matter how young they may feel, people's heads are in different places at different times in their lives.
 
spensed, thank you

your insight is awesome. I'm in a 'gappy' relationship myself and it's great to see an outlook from way above the field.
 
My partner and I share an age difference of 10 years, and we find no troubles, in our relationship. He keeps me young and on my toes
 
I think it depends on the people involved. For some an age gap is a big deal and others it's not. Since the two of you seem to hit it off so well, go for it.
 
It's a bit of a gap but could work since you're 32 already. If you were 20 and he was 50 it'd be a different story. Try it out and see how it goes?
 
chrisdobro said:
spensed, thank you

your insight is awesome. I'm in a 'gappy' relationship myself and it's great to see an outlook from way above the field.
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I don't know about awesome, but thanks and good luck.
 
N1ghtKn1ght said:
I can't help but notice there is a 10 feet gap between my zipper and my pants every time we have sweet sensual talks.
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A little bit off topic, but what is this saying supposed to mean?

Maybe I'm just trying to visualize too much and getting confused.
 
drhladnjak said:
A little bit off topic, but what is this saying supposed to mean?

Maybe I'm just trying to visualize too much and getting confused.
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I think hes talking about the bulge in his underpants every time they have a chat, am I right? Otherwise Im really lost on this one too
 
Ya, I figured it must be something like that but I'm still confused about how the zipper ends up 10 feet away from the pants :confused:
 
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