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3-Some Question Involving Best Friends
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I just wanted to start out by saying that this isn't a bitch and moan post or anything. I'm just looking for advice really.

I'd say my best friend and I are pretty close. We hang out all the time, we've done a lot of sexual things with out girlfriends together. But we both decided we really wanna have a 3-some together with some random chick. We're both comfortable around each other, we've seen each other practically naked many times. But my insecurities come out about the part of seeing his cock or him seeing me. I'm not tiny by all means, above average if I must. I don't know about him, just know he's got a pair of huge nuts. What is the take on this perspective? Like does it discourage a dude when his buddy is bigger/thicker than him or what? We both want to do this, but he has no idea any of this is going through my mind haha. We're both young and just wanna experience screwin a chick together.:p
 
It sounds like you are bi and want the girl as the excuse to be in a sexual situation with your bud. That's cool if all three are in agreement. It also sounds like you're afraid of performance anxiety. If that's the case concentrate on the girl with the understanding that what happens is what happens. Not everyone can perform with an audience.
 
Nah, not bi. I have no desire to try anything with my buddy, or any man for that matter. But I understand the performance anxiety. We've done stuff together with our girlfriends like watchin them fuck or them watchin us and there has never been a problem. My buddy is the one that insists on the 3-some most of the time and has talked about it for months.
 
For a threesome to work all parties involved must be really into the idea! It seems you yourself have some reservations about about what your friend might think about your equipment! It is essential that you and your friend are fully open to each other on what you each want out of this escapade and how far you want to go. Then of course you have to find the girl who wants to be involved. I take you dont intend to involve either of your girl friends.
I am Bi and the idea of a threesome has always been one if my fantasies but I dont really think in true life, unless are those involved fully click, it would work! I think BTW that your friend is Bi and probably hopes to get more out of it than you would be prepared to offer!
 
Interesting thought actually. We have a few girls that are interested and they know there are no strings attached, we just want the experience of doing it. I have thought that my buddy might be Bi before, I have no problems with it if he is nonetheless. He has just made comments about it before. And having a 3-some with me has always been a main topic with him. I know we are close enough that it wouldn't really be wierd at all, we change infront of each other, streaked, skinny dipped as a group with our girlfriends, but have never engaged in any kind of activity where we both are ya know, out there. As far as my insecurities go, I have never felt comfortable with my body and that is probably why it gets to me. We don't plan to involve our girlfriends at all because we've already done the 4-some thing, but with no physical cross-contact. My main question really is like, do guys just not really care about their buddy's equipment and just go about their business haha?
 
confused on something......... you say you dont know about him but he has large balls. Yet you said you have done a lot of things with him sexually with girlfriends. So how could you know he had big balls and not see his cock. and you end it with want to screw a chick together yet your asking about a dick not a pussy.

So you kinda lost me there.

But in answer to your ?.

All parties should be into each other and you must divide up your time equally in your 3some so that no one feels left out. And sometimes that is touch much for some people to handle. So i'd say just be totally relaxed and spend equal time and have safe fun.
 
We've just never seen each other's cocks, just nuts, and it has been dark pretty much anytime there has ever been an escapade.
The post isn't about a chick anyhow. I get how a 3-some works, but I'm asking a guy's point of view about seeing a friend, whether is it discouraging, it just doesn't matter, or what.
 
Just be sure you pick the right girl and that she's completely okay with it and is attracted to both of you. One guy tends to end up being more dominant than the other and it can be disappointing for the other dude.
 
You have me confused. No one can tell what is a big deal for you other than you. Obviously, it is a big deal if it is bothering you. Don't do anything you are not comfortable with. If you are straight maybe you ought to find a site with more straight guys for input.
 
[ We're both young and just wanna experience screwin a chick together.:p[/quote]


But why include this if it not what your asking.


We have been in 2 3some's and it was wierd for us after with the friend. But thats was us.

we cant tell how you would react nor them. This works for some and not for other's but it sounds more that you have doubts.
 
I too am confused by a lot of what you said. One thing that sticks out is why a straight guy (I think that's what you said you are) is on a gay/bi site asking for other guys' opinions about his feelings toward another guy.
 
You're misinterpretting what I'm asking. This is a "Straight and bi guy" forum. I don't believe I'm wrong in asking here.
 
Meh, im not trying to troll ya here suckmynuts89, but it sort of sounds like u wanna see your bff nakkid and the chick is the catalyst for that exposure.Granted Im not you, and I have no clue what is really going on inside that head of yours. BTW what does "we have done alot of sexual things without girlfriends togather" mean? If your BI bro your BI, embrace it. No reason to hide who u are here of all places, if anything, making a statement like the ones you made above then running from them will get ya flamed before being yourself will.:-)
 
I think based on what he is saying from the beginning post is that chances are he will be majorly distracted by his friend's junk, but he isn't expecting to be turned on by it. However, I think suckmynuts' buddy is probably equally interested in him as he is in the girl in any 3-some.
 
Ok I'm going to try and rope this thread back to the question. Folks regardless of why you think he's asking just answer the question or don't. Lets stop speculating on why he's here or why he's asking. It's beginning to sound accusatory and may make him uncomfortable.
 
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