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3 Things you hate about your life

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So I made this thread to just share my problems with you guys^^

1. I'm a virgin

Being a virgin sucks I want to get fucked hard and now

2. I'm closeted

Being closeted is hell but when I come out i get all the homophobic people on me since I am still in highschool and I guess it's not working for the no 1

3. Never see hot guys

I don't know why but every boy I see isn't attractive to me since i like muscular people
 
1. Um...

Oh there are things I wish I could change. I wish I was taller, wish I wasn't an alcoholic and wish I didn't have such severe ADHD. I wish I wasn't losing the sight in my right eye and wish I had more time to spend with my husband and my dogs.

But hate? No... All just part of who I am.

( and you just have to white knuckle it through high school. When I was in high school there was no Internet for the general public and no JUB so I had no connection to the gay world at all. I was totally alone. So you're doing pretty well just having a place to reach out to. And don't rush the virgin thing. Do that when the time is right. )
 
1. I don't have a career yet.
2. My sister is dead.
3. My dog is dead.

I don't have a third.- Fixed.**
 
1.) Being Virgin
I want to get fucked. now. haha. Im only 18 so im not that despite but I would love to lose it in the next year.

2.) Annoying/Homophobic People
I love in a small, homophobic type area and its really sad how people can be. I don't really get bothered by it since I am moving out soon.

3.) Being a Wrestling Fan.
I love wrestling and I always get shit for it. I love that industry and its quite interesting to learn about it. I hate it when MMA fans shit on wrestling. (I like MMA as well, I like all sports that involve grappling haha.)
 
Robbert said:
So I made this thread to just share my problems with you guys^^

1. I'm a virgin

Being a virgin sucks I want to get fucked hard and now

2. I'm closeted

Being closeted is hell but when I come out i get all the homophobic people on me since I am still in highschool and I guess it's not working for the no 1

3. Never see hot guys

I don't know why but every boy I see isn't attractive to me since i like muscular people
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All of these things you can change man. I'm sure if you posted a thread a lot of people will try to help you become more comfortable in accepting who you are. The process is quite simple, just ask. If you hate these things in your life, it's probably the best place to start to make change, if you want to be happier. I wouldn't advice having sex unless if it is something that you are okay with. I still think that moment should be special for someone, but hell I'm an old school romantic. My first time wasn't romantic at all though. No regrets, I was horny, and so I did what i did.

There are dating sites online- Just be careful to filter out people.
Mobile dating/hookup applications. Read above.
Clubs, that you can still go to and meet people, and have a fun night out.

Just my 2cents. Best of luck though. Things won't get better unless you start making it. You don't need to make your sexuality public gossip. I keep mine private, but if someone asks im not shamed into denying it. (took me two years to get where I am)
 
I've never had sex with a partner.

I'm lonely, and generally unhappy because of that.

I'm insecure about my smaller penis.
 
I can't say I HATE these things, but they do bum me out at times....

1. Getting older, mostly because the dating pool has become a puddle.

2. Loosing my hair, because I just don't feel as old as it makes me look.

3. Need Reading glasses, I used to have 20/15 vision... I miss THAT! Now I'm slowly getting far-sighted. This really sucks because I work with tiny things for a living.

All normal things, but I don't have to LIKE them.

At least I'm in excellent health otherwise and my life is pretty good.
 
racer2438 said:
I hate that I have

1. Psoriosis

2. COPD

3. The way people look at me becuz of the 2 above...
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I have #1 too and it sucks. I have it on my fingernails too and I often make a fist to hide my nails.

My #2 is my family. Most people dislike their family but pretty much everyone besides my mother I am apathetic towards.

#3 is being an INTJ. It's a blessing and a curse. A blessing for being a "mastermind" but a curse for the fact that very few people actually like us. You know you're a tad "messed up" when someone calls you an 'asshole', and you consider it a compliment.
 
Well I dont actually hate these things (I think its too strong a word), but I really dislike the following:

1. The homophobic culture I was born and raised in. It took a lot of mental exercise to figure out myself here. It is really difficult to not judge my family as idiots/haters, but I have to realize they are just "victims" of their culture and upbringing.

2. The lower half of my face (below the nose). Yes I realized this is a weird one, but I think I could be much more attractive if that part of my face was more proportioned.

3. My introversion, both a blessing and a curse.
 
My 2¢? We should all be taught as children to come up with twice the number of things we like everytime we list our hates, otherwise we can create quite the cesspool.
 
This is a very depressing thread. Nothing against the OP, its just that I feel like everyone should stop focusing on what they dont have in life, and start focusing on what they do have.
 
1. The way i look and my weight
2. I don't have a career (Feels like im going no where with college)
3. And lack of good friends i would love to have some good real friends.
 
1. all the guys who want to be my friend but i dont want to get close to
2. depression
3. living
 
1. My psoraiasis. On both my elbows and both legs from knee to ankle.

2. I don't get approached by dudes, only geek/goth chicks. (No offense to them, just not my thing).

3. Have to trim my beard often or I start looking like a mohel.
 
Rolyo85 said:
There is nothing I hate about my life at this point :)
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Agreed here - perhaps this thread would get more responses from "3 things I don't like (and would like to change) about your life

I'm going to assume that is the title ......

1 - Would like to practice the "count to ten" before responding to something if it is not positive - too often I respond too quickly and wish I would have waited - so often things that seem important/problematic really are not - so I would like to exhibit more patience

2 - I would like to work less - play more - too INTO career/working/being a success - at the expense of just enjoying life

3 - I have NO desire to interact with women (save for relatives) on a social level - not very balanced - need to figure that out

hope this doesn't constitute a hijack

happy holidays to all
 
1 - Being boyfriendless (I've never had one).
2 - My deadly low self-image.
3 - Feeling depressed often. Not sure if I'm just being over emotional or if I'm clinically depressed, just go through phases of feeling bad.
 
1. never being good enough for me
2. being closeted :/
3. never having been in a relationship
 
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