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30 and question my sexuality

cashwyatt said:
Well I am not going to college for engineering I am going for nursing.

Just hooking up on Craigslist might not be the best idea but it is a little dangerous. I would rather meet someone face to face hell I do not even line online dating.

I doo not know It looks like I got some think to do.
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Well nursing is one hell of a good career. I wish I had taken it. My friend makes $1000 a day if he's on call and $1400 if he gets called up. He's a nurse practitioner working in the O.R.

Btw, CL is not online dating :lol: although it can be. I actually found many dates, not just hookups mind you, in Craigslist. But since you're in school, I don't even think CL is necessary. Guys usually hook up in the library or in the dorms :lol: Ohh to be in college once again....
 
As you read and think about advice from strangers who generally base advice on their experience please take what you like and leave the rest. In the end it's best to do what suits you as you are the expert on you. Feel free to pm me anytime. Best wishes.
 
And remember, explore all options until you find the right one for you. You are young still. Look for the person who can make you happy.
 
easyman said:
It sounds like you're bi-curious.
You consider yourself straight, but you are (albeit subconsciously) curious about men.

I think you should avoid the therapy. For one thing, it costs too much! Believe me, I know. I'm studying my BA in Psychology from Glasgow University in Scotland (final year then going on to do my teaching degree).

Do you have many friends? Gay or straight? I suggest that you try and make some gay friends first. Hang out with them, go to clubs and bars with them and get a good grasp of the gay lifestyle. If you're out with with them, you may encounter a guy you click with. Exchange details, maybe even a kiss or two....
I wouldn't use Craigslist at all. Granted its not as popular here in Scotland, we use Gumtree, but I've heard its not exactly the safest site to hook up with guys.

I think you should hang out with some gay guys and get a feel for their lifestyle. I would suggest you don't rush into things straight away.
I'm bisexual. I find both guys and girls attractive and I've had a relationship with each. At first I started off dating only girls until I met a few gay guys (University). I started hanging out with them, going to bars and found that I really liked the lifestyle. It took me almost a year before I finally got really intimate with a guy. He understood that and I'm still with him today (2 years ago we started dating btw).

If you wanna ask questions, feel free.
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That might not be a bad idea it a smarter way to go about it.
 
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