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33 Tutoring 18...and it's getting interesting.

Frankly I got pretty turned on reading your story.

Whatever you choose keep us updated!
 
I think the key here is to be clear all around. Obviously, the boy wants some action. Doesn't matter if he is closet gay or just wants to try it out or even if he's just horny and figures on some easy relief.
What you have to do (OP) is just tell him clearly exactly what's on your mind. Something like, "You've been teasing me with that hot young cock of yours, and I have to admit that I am interested and excited and definitely ready to participate in anything you want to get going. You probably know that I am mostly gay, so I am an easy mark for you if you want me. But I also just want to be clear that anything we do is all in fun -- I'm not ready for any really close or long lasting relationship with you, but as long as it is just easy sex you want, I'm your man!"
 
i see what you're saying about being worried about possibly being manipulated or blackmailed if you participate, however from my perspective his advances are WAY too strong for someone that simply wants to get out of his homework. and if he did wanna use something against you if you participated in his advances, the kid is interested in you sexually i dont care what excuse he'd give. So, have some fun! But you're right, finish the homework before doing shit. Do your job, THEN get your blow job.
 
Beanstalk said:
I think the key here is to be clear all around. Obviously, the boy wants some action. Doesn't matter if he is closet gay or just wants to try it out or even if he's just horny and figures on some easy relief.
What you have to do (OP) is just tell him clearly exactly what's on your mind. Something like, "You've been teasing me with that hot young cock of yours, and I have to admit that I am interested and excited and definitely ready to participate in anything you want to get going. You probably know that I am mostly gay, so I am an easy mark for you if you want me. But I also just want to be clear that anything we do is all in fun -- I'm not ready for any really close or long lasting relationship with you, but as long as it is just easy sex you want, I'm your man!"
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shut up

all that talkin will ruin the moment
cum then focus on work
 
Lewis1 said:
shut up

all that talkin will ruin the moment
cum then focus on work
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LOL yep. If it's ongoing, it would be a good idea to set some groundrules, but bust that nut first boi, don't ruin it will that jibber jabber. \:/
 
What's up, sam? Sounds like you're really not worried about any type of mess since you say you're not worried about this kid blowing up your spot, or even anyone finding out. It mainly sounds like you're feeling self-conscious because he appears to be into you. Seems like this isn't so much about sex for you than it is you feeling "old" or like you need to "grow up."

That said, have fun with the kid since sex isn't the issue. As for your hangups about age, embrace your personality. People get miserable and jaded as they age. As long as you're a responsible adult, it doesn't matter if you like video games or "kid music." In short, it seems like this kid makes you look at things about yourself that you're not comfortable with.

But yeah, by all means, have fun with the kid if you feel like you don't have anything to worry about. Beyond that, maybe it's your maturity the kid gravitates toward. In you, he sees an adult that he feels comfortable with because you have the same hobbies. Don't look at his interest as a bad thing.

My question is how could you both possibly concentrate on work with the big elephant in the room? lol If someone was showing me their dick, I'd have a hard time pushing it aside and not addressing it.
 
nate, you never tried to take things to the next level with this dude you photograph? Or you have no interest in doing anything other than cleaning him up? lol Or he never lets you do anything other than that? I'm curious to know what his view on his sexuality is. You said he's "straight," so has he ever revealed what he gets out of your encounters?
 
start jerking off next time when he asks....but don't do anything but jerk off unless he makes the first move...then you know if he's just a horny teen or if he wants to do something with you.
 
He's just being playful, I don't think he wants anything just fun. No offense, but I won't see why he'd be interested in someone in their mid 30's or so when he already has a girlfriend, and seeing that he does take pix of his cock for his gf, he has a very adventurous and playful side.
 
whydatkine said:
He's just being playful, I don't think he wants anything just fun. No offense, but I won't see why he'd be interested in someone in their mid 30's or so when he already has a girlfriend, and seeing that he does take pix of his cock for his gf, he has a very adventurous and playful side.
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Just because he's taking pics doesn't mean he's doing anything with her. Also, at what age does someone become unappealing?

CXXX
 
whydatkine said:
He's just being playful, I don't think he wants anything just fun. No offense, but I won't see why he'd be interested in someone in their mid 30's or so when he already has a girlfriend, and seeing that he does take pix of his cock for his gf, he has a very adventurous and playful side.
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I think you should check out the "daddies ect" thread. There are a lot of younger guys that are into older guys. This young man is obviously trying to have some fun. Doesn't mean he wants a relationship.

For sake of discussion lets say he does want something more. Whats wrong with that. Just because the op is older doesn't mean they can't have something more. Your statement is offensive not only to guys in their 30's +, but also to the younger guys that like older men. For the life of me I don't understand people like you. You get hung up on age and can't see that 2 people can look past that and have a loving, caring relationship. You obviously have a problem with age difference. Thankfully not everyone does.
 
Well, first of all he is the younger brother of your best friend. Akward as it might be, you should atleast bring it up with your friend if you are going to advance with this.

Secondly, is nobody caring about his girlfriend? He's 18 years old. You should be setting an example, and I don't see how teaching him that its okay to cheat in relationships is setting a good example.
 
it could be considered at the least sexual misconduct and at the worst rape because you're in a position of authority as his tutor and technically he can't really legally consent to sexual activity with an authority figure.
 
WilsonPhillips4Ever said:
it could be considered at the least sexual misconduct and at the worst rape because you're in a position of authority as his tutor and technically he can't really legally consent to sexual activity with an authority figure.
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Not sure if that's how it works where you live, but if he's in the U.S., that isn't so. The OP is a tutor and is not paid to be one. He has no authority because he has no such status as a friend just volunteering. He's also tutoring an 18 year old, so the young man is of legal age of consent. While he may be playing with fire as far as his friendship with this family goes, he is not breaking any laws, at least not if he is here in the states.
 
WilsonPhillips4Ever said:
it could be considered at the least sexual misconduct and at the worst rape because you're in a position of authority as his tutor and technically he can't really legally consent to sexual activity with an authority figure.
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What????

Sex between consenting adults is not rape and a tutor is not an authority figure. Even if it were there aren't laws against having sex with an authority figure. As an 18 year old man he can have sex with any other adult that wants to be with him.
 
If he was getting paid that makes him an educator and an authority figure. It's tantamount to sexual harassment, 'consenting' or not. Because you can't legally consent to sex with a figure of authority, like a boss or a professor or a police officer who has you in police custody.
 
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