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3rd time to do anal sex, still not doing it right.

It was hard at first for me also but now that i am use to it ,It is a great feeling to have your lover inside of you !!!try and start out with a small Dildo and a good lube Good luck
 
Hold up....you only used water?! You can fuck using water. Your hole isn't a pussy. It won't lube up on it's own. Squeeze some ky in that bitch and get ready to enjoy anal the way God intended it to be! lol.
 
OMG same here! We tried for a second time last night and it hurt way too much. I'm so happy I'm not the only one.
 
...for the love of Cher please use some lube people! You cannot use water UNLESS you are experianced in relaxing your buttocks. Now, start off with some anal forplay... put lube on your finger and finger yourself or have your partner do it. Go from one figner to two fingers. Once you have relaxed from this, then he can lube his cock, and very slowly PULSE it in. By pulse I mean slowly move it in a bit, then out, then in again further and out and back in again further until it's all the way in. When you are starting out with this it's very important that your partner takes it SLOW.
 
meheartdicks said:
It's the 3rd time I've attempted to have anal sex. I really just can't take it in, it justs hurts way too much, and his dick is not even all that. I feel bad, the first few times we did it, it got screwed up and it got screwed up again. I wish I had a less tighter ass. :eek:
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my tip is to try giving yourself an enema before you two meet up for sex. it works for me. after getting all the water out (sorry if this sounded too graphic), your little butt hole will be as loose as your mouth :p.

dont tighten your butt after that, leave it the way it is, and when he finds you loose, you just know something is going in and it is going to feel good...|
 
The first time I was fucked I found the best way was to just finger your hole for 5 minutes with loads of water, n also perhaps go to the toilete before that way the hole has been stretched and makes it very easy plus you can clean up well so its nice for when you have sex and 2 just add loads of water to your boy friend's cock and just gradually go in and out, then after 5 mins I found my hole was very lose and could take anything and enjoyed it. :) x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x (ps meheartdicks i think you're well fit)
 
Relax! and use lube!! lots of it, it helps a lot. You'll see that by doing anal forplay and using lube you'll be ready to have a really enjoyable time.
 
yep, my first (and 2nd and 3rd omission too)

Lube is the magic word ....
Sometimes I use moisturizing lotion, but it still hurts and nothing beats good lube.
 
got to use lube! and use a condom - safety and it makes it a bit less 'grabby' than skin on skin. play with your ass for a while on your own to get used to the feeling of insertion (use fingers at first, then try the odd cucumber or Dildo!!). then when you are ready to try again, take control by going on top and only guiding the insertion as quickly as is comfortable.
 
Sex without lube sounds about as enjoyable as a blowjob from a mouth full of cotton balls.
 
I found the best way for me LOTS & LOTS of lube till u get use to it. And then u sit on it that way your in control of the situation and slowly slide down on it .
 
panda29 said:
It was hard at first for me also but now that i am use to it ,It is a great feeling to have your lover inside of you !!!try and start out with a small dildo and a good lube Good luck
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I'll agree. Having a guy inside of you is a feeling nothing like I've ever experienced. Having him finish inside of you is even hotter.

You definitely need lube. Water doesn't work that well, and neither does spit. We often will get a flavored lube so he will go down on me back there before or after the anal sex.

Best of luck, and keep trying! It does hurt at first, but once you become more comfortable with relaxing your butthole down there, it becomes less painful, easier, and more enjoyable.
 
use lube and a condom, there are other kinds besides latex. don't bareback
 
there are lots and lots of guys who enjoy anal sex very much, even though starting out things were a bit shaky. And its not always good. Sometimes i am totally ravenous for my partners cock and his tool can do no wrong. Other times I struggle a bit.

Playing is not incompatible with a bit of forethought and the advice about lube given above is to be heeded. Anal sex is and can be pure ecstacy but invest in the best lube and it will repay you over and over.

You can also try sitting on him as it gives you greater control.

Talk with your partner before and during sex tell him what feels good and how hungry you are for his cock. Tell how great you feel just being with him and feeling his cock. Talking can take away the performance anxiety and help you relax.

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