Well the title pretty much sums me up. I'm 45 and with a couple of brief ventures out the closet in my life I always crept back in. I am now in a much healthier physical and mental state - I'm 45, 150lbs, got a six pack for the first time in my life, gleaming teeth, and OUT! I have joined this site because I am so new to the scene I'm not sure what to expect. I'm still a virgin, although I know I'm a top. I don't know where to start, how to use the dating apps (I'm not a technophobe, I just have never used dating apps) so I'm looking for a place where I can ask questions, even stupid ones, and get some honest advice. Xx









to JUB this place is nice filled with lots of nice people