45 years old and preparing his coming-out

[PatFrance71]

Hi everyone from France,

As I say in the title, I prepare my coming-out. I have no experience (to be clear, I'm virgin - dont' laugh -) but it's not by choice. Only my parents know that I'm gay. The first step to the coming-out : telling my two best friends (a man and a woman) the truth. A hard task : during many years, I was ill at ease about sex, but not impossible : they have proved they are really friends.

Otherwise, I have a good nature and I have no problems to make friends. But I have no friends who are gay for now.

Of course, I'm also looking for my first experience. I'm bottom.

As we say in France : A plus !

PS : Writing this post was another hard because of my intermediate level in english. My apologies for mistakes.

Phew !!! I 've finished my first post.

 

[Txgoodoldboy]

Welcome to JUB! Your post is fine. Play safe.

 

[GreatZeus]

Tout d’abord, bienvenue sur JUB. C’est un endroit très agréable. Chacun de nous est différent ; nous avons les expériences tout à fait différentes. Tu vas faire ton coming out : Bravo. Félicitation ! ! ! La chose la plus importante est que tu le fais. Pas que tu le fais à tel ou tel âge. Tu as trouvé le moment qui marche pour toi. Point. Tu n’as pas besoins de faire tes excuses. Aucune n’est nécessaire.

À propos de ton anglais, tout le monde a bien compris ton écriture. Et cela suffit. Même ceux qui parlent anglais couramment font assez de fautes. Il ne faut pas avoir d’honte. La vérité est que tu peux très bien te faire comprendre.

Encore une fois : Bravo sur ton comming out. Nous sommes fiers de toi.

 

[SkinnyBoi87]

Hello and welcome to JUB

 

[mike_n_herrin]

you may want to look at our "coming out and relationships" forum. they are very supportive and may have some good advise to help you on your coming out.
here is the forum: http://www.justusboys.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=70

- mikey

 

[SFMusic]

Congratulations on coming out. It is never too late to live an honest life as an out gay man.

 

[PatFrance71]

It has begun. One of my real friends and another person know the truth. In fact, they have guessed I'm gay. That was easier than I thought. I'm conscious that it's not easy all time. But beginning with a success is always good. I'm practically sure that my other friend have guessed also the truth.
Next step : end of august.
Thanks for encouragements.

A+

 

[PatFrance71]

The next step was earlier than I said. It just arrived : the boyfriend of one of my sisters. He guessed too I was gay.

I can say one thing : Mieux vaut tard que jamais (better late than never).