I think that much has been lost during the past five years since that horrific day. As a nation we had to change our view of ourselves and of our security at home. We have children entering thier teen years with this horrific event in thier minds. I remember the effect that the reports of the war in Vietnam had on me growing up. The manner in which this attack was carried out was quite different than anything we have ever seen before, either here in the US or anywhere else for that matter. This was an event that had a monumental effect, not just through the deaths of so many who were going about thier lives that day, or the losses of those who loved them. This was an event that paralyzed our Air Transit system, as well as those of other countries. We saw one of the longest shutdowns of the heart of our economy. We saw the emotional effects that this had, not just in this country, but all across the world. The world felt the effects of the vulnerability that the US experienced. Many felt that if this could happen here, it could happen anywhere.
This event is still affecting the lives of the American people and those who wish to come here. In an effort to try and "secure" our country some have felt it necessary that we give up some of our "freedoms" that we have taken for granted.
We have also forgotten what it was like to come together as a nation, to come together as members of the human race. In my life I do not recall any other single event that made us put aside our differences and to see each other as part of the human race, as a part of the human experience. I think that we forget that there are people of other countries that died on those planes and in the towers. We forget that there were representatives of nearly every religion that died at all of the locations in which these planes were crashed.
Violence is abhorent to me, but I do not see it as simple as "just refuse to respond". I don't believe in retribution, but I do believe a country must be proactive sometimes in order to protect it's citizens. If I am personally attacked, I will fight to the death to defend myself and my life, or the lives of my loved ones, or of an innocent individual.
If we do not remember the past, if we do not examine the past events, then we are doomed to repeat them. As has been mentioned, hindsight is twenty twenty, but "woulda's and shoulda's" cannot help other than to figure out how we conduct ourselves in the future. I also don't believe that it does anything to help trying to place the atrocities that man visits upon man on a scale of which is worse. If we could be inspired to respond to the mistreatment of, or violence visited upon, a single individual with the same sense of horror or indignity or passion that we do with these monumental events, just imagine how much better this earth would be. I am not talking about just here in the US, but all across the world.
I know that this is rambling a bit, but this is something that I just have a hard time putting into words. When I see people try to just shrug it off as "oh well", or "we got what we deserve" I get very frustrated as well as sad. I think that it speak volumes about the individual and thier egocentric nature as well as thier lack of compassion for others.
I also believe that if you do not like the US you can do one of two things: Get involved to make it a better place, either through the political process or as a volunteer in a humanitarian agency. You can also pack your bags and go to a place where life is as you would like it. We are doing something right when there are so many people who would like to be able to call this country home. We are not perfect and I doubt that we will ever be, but we do the best that we can and we are working towards being better.