!9 y/o bi male help

[BiMike]

It will be a lot easier for you to find a guy to experiment with than find a girl friend who will accept your Bi interests! Not many girls would accept that situation! So go for your number 1 option first!

 

[trinket]

It will be a lot easier for you to find a guy to experiment with than find a girl friend who will accept your Bi interests! Not many girls would accept that situation!

Well, just in terms of girls accepting a guy being bi, I haven't had any issues at all with any girls that I've dated (I'm bi) being cool with that. It obviously depends on the individual person (girl) and maybe the type of circles or geography (small town, conservative areas, etc.) or whatever that the both of you move in. The girls that I've dated liked that I had the capacity to find both genders attractive or have a relationship with either, and honestly it just wasn't that big a deal to them - and they knew it was part of me, so accept it as part of what makes me uniquely "me". But if you're talking in terms of being with guys while in the relationship with a girl, well, yes, that's a problem there if the relationship with the girl is at a serious point and the idea is you're not seeing other people. I haven't been in that situation, but to me being bi is irrelevant there, that comes down to trust or fidelity issues.

 

[dodo2761]

bit greedy arent you? lol

 

[FunDude]

where in nj are you?

 

[NoStarDies]

Im In Rhode Island myself...
I assume you are attending one of the colleges in Providence...
To find those to things I might suggest attending some of the clubs like The Gallery or Club Hell both of them you are likely to find many bi/gay guys and girls who are open to things like that.

I wish you luck

 

[teenbriefboi]

im me on aim: specialaa877 im bi from nj

 

[joemama]

I am 19 years old and have just accepted I am bi. I am looking for two things:
1) A guy who I can experiment with
2) A girlfriend I can be openly bi with

I am in good shape and very good looking and go to college in ri but live in nj. Would love to meet all types of people so message me I always respond with a smile.

This is puzzling because (a) if you're openly bi and you want (b) a girlfriend you can be openly bi with that means you want a non-monogamous relationship with either the boy or the girl you're dating. That's a tough nut to crack no matter what gender you're in a relationship with at the moment. Gay guys are more open to open relationships, straight girls not so much. Your ideal scenario would be some kind of LTR bisexual threesome relationship, which is extremely difficult to pull off. You might want a peek at First Bi Threesome for inspiration. Let us know how it goes in the future. I'm pretty much openly bi with my GF but that doesn't mean I run off to 'experiment' with guys when she's not around. On the other hand, I'm a bit older than you so who knows what you can pull of in college!

 

[tommyj]

I live in NJ, Logan