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a bit confused after the first date

OK, so let me get this straight, he told you he wouldn't date you, then you told him he could still kiss you, then he wanted to whack off in front of you?

So you went to a public park where you made out and he pulled out his cock.

And through all of this you have been unable to make up your own mind about anything.

Hmmmmmm. That sounds incredibly .............. random.

I see we are not helping you. it's time to do your own thinking.

What do YOU want to do, don't ask us what we want you to do, figure it out on your own then come back with a plan.
 
TX-Beau said:
OK, so let me get this straight, he told you he wouldn't date you

I see we are not helping you. it's time to do your own thinking.
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He said he wanted me as a friend but not for a "serious relationship". BTW, you helped me a lot with the advice to take time...

Now I think we two are heading towards "Friends with benefits" category but I will talk to him about it just to make it clear.
 
If you had been on plenty of dates and with a lot of guy, from this post I would say your just making excuses to stay with a guy deep down you know you dont truly like, I know the majority of your post is talking of how you two clash but im sure the fact your even weighing the choices and asking others is just a way of procrastination. On the other hand your new to this dating thing and not sure what you want yet and what works for you, but even if you did who knows yo might be surprised. Long story short you need the experience so give him a try, become friends. If it doesn't workout just say you wanna stay friends and before you do that ( if you do ) start calling your ''dates'' meet ups so he may get the hint and dont flirt.
 
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