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A Chance To Get Back At My Ex

newboy12 said:
Well not one person here is giving the go ahead.

Just for the record i really am over him, i would never get into a relationship with him again. Its just i feel the need to make him pay, and then out of nowhere i meet his brother.

Everything i believe happens for a reason.


Why his brother? of all the people i could have met. There must be a reason why i met his brother all these years later.

Ok well i have some thinking to do.
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Yes, GOD wants you to have revenge on your ex by using his kid brother! I think you should go for it....the universe is clearly on your side. Who gives a fuck if the kid gets hurt....collateral damage.....
 
So you are going to hurt the innocent kid brother just to get back at your ex? That makes no sense whatsoever. If you truly like the kid brother, then date him. If you don't, leave him alone. Being his age is hard enough without some guy messing with him emotionally just for fun.
 
newboy12 said:
Well not one person here is giving the go ahead.
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Gee... do you wonder why? And you haven't said whether you'd feel sad if the brother were to get hurt in the process. It's almost as if that's just icing on the cake.

Now if you were to say that you're getting revenge by finding a new man and living happily ever after then by all means we'd pull out the fine china for a bit of a celebration. But what you want to do is wrong. Plain and simple.

Sidebar but I really want to start a thread asking for advice on how to get over G-Lexington. I think I'm falling in love :(
 
Clearly you are not 'over him' because you still have an emotional investment in getting even with him.
 
>>>Sidebar but I really want to start a thread asking for advice on how to get over G-Lexington. I think I'm falling in love.

The real problem would be that it'd be G-Lexington who would immediately jump in to give you advice. :) Well, if you run into my closeted brother in a chat room, you'll know what to do...

Lex
 
newboy12: Before you effectuate your grand revenge scheme in the name of 'karmic' retribution, have you considered how this YOUNG, CLOSETED BOY feels? And how he would feel after having been used and thrown away?

Can you possibly relate, at all?
 
newboy12 said:
I dated this guy in 2000. I am over him (clearly); but i just met someone who can unbeknownst to him, help me to get back at my ex.
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newboy12 said:
Just for the record i really am over him, i would never get into a relationship with him again. Its just i feel the need to make him pay, and then out of nowhere i meet his brother.
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You've already noted your contradictions TWICE, and others have pointed them out. You're as you say, clearly, NOT over him if you're vying for revenge. Being over him means letting go and cutting all ties for good.

And getting his little brother involved in such a way that it jeopardizes his closeted status ... [-X ... you need to respect that, and my advice is to stay away. But, it's not like you're likely to listen to us anyway. Hopefully I am wrong, because you must be posting this for advice, not for our sheer entertainment I hope.

Life is better when you cut your losses with a bad ex ... revenge only makes you look like an ass and immature about the whole situation.
 
Ok that does it, i didnt want it to have to come to this but its seems the only way.


Clearly i'll have to tell you exactly what my ex did to me and all the things he put me through, for i believe that once you all see the type of man my ex is, it is only then will you support me on this.

So tell me JUB support, is that what i am going to have to do? Do you really want me to dig up the past? because i will even though it would be a step backwards; but whatever if takes to make him pay. He cannot just get away with what he did to me and who knows how many others. His trail of destruction and broken hearts needs to stop, and i am just the jubber to see to it that he never, ever, hurts another boy/man as long as we both shall live.

Justice, justice, justice!!!
 
newboy12 said:
Ok that does it, i didnt want it to have to come to this but its seems the only way.


Clearly i'll have to tell you exactly what my ex did to me and all the things he put me through, for i believe that once you all see the type of man my ex is, it is only then will you support me on this.


Justice, justice, justice!!!
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Clearly, you don't get it, as usual. What he did to you is between you and him...you don't bring someone else into it and potentially hurt them to screw him over.

That's not justice, it's just warped, and it makes you no better than him.
 
I don't understand what level of satisfaction you're going to get by getting revenge on someone who hurt you so long ago - something you should have moved on from to some degree by now - perhaps not completely, but I would think beyond retaliation. What's to gain?? The feeling of being one up on someone, of being the more powerful man? How long will that last?

If he is as demented as you say, who's to say he will come back and revenge you back and then you find yourself exacting revenge once again -- entering a vicious cycle that shamefully preoccupies you enough to prevent you from enjoying life the way it should be enjoyed.

I'm pretty sure whatever your ex did to you, it's not going to change our advice to you of letting it go. Life's too short to obsess over something like this.
 
Oh, OK. Now the ex is EVIL. He wasn't evil several posts back. He was just some guy you were "clearly over".

Can we just skip to the end? Where the ex- gets his come-uppance, preferably involving sex with some straight guy? Then we can all say how brilliant your scheme was, and boy was it hot, and he sure had it coming...and we can all get back to our petty pathetic lives.

Lex
 
Sounds like someone has some growing up to do if they are willing to hurt an innocent young man just to get even with his older brother in the name of "Karma".
IF you really do believe in Karma or Natural Law ; you'll know that anything and everything negative that we send out either in thoughts or deeds will come back to us TEN FOLD ....
So ask yourself ... why do you have "Bad Luck" or is it KARMA ?
 
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