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A friend I've been crushing on for the past 2 years broke up with his boyfriend ...

The good news is...you don't have to wonder anymore. You know his answer although it's not what you were hoping for.

Now you can move on.
 
lurker said:
... I don't know. Personally I think going into another relationship only a month after the first one ended might be way too soon. Plus I don't want our friendship to stop abruptly because of possible awkwardness ...
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lurker said:
... so I talked to him finally. To summarize this in the shortest way possible, he basically told me that he only sees me as a friend, and with scars from his ex and with pressure from school and trying to graduate, he told me he's not looking for anything.
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So, he was honest with you while being respectful (and gentle) with your feelings.

Sounds like he would be a better friend than boyfriend.
 
It sounds like he'd make a good friend AND a boyfriend. Just not (the latter) with you.

Take time to cry and punch the pillows, and then get out there and find somebody who IS interested in being your boyfriend.

Lex
 
Like G-Lex said, take time to cry, punch pillows and then move on.
I will also state that he did the right thing. He didn't lead you on and was honest when asked about the chances you two had.
I know it will be painful at first, but that is someone you want to keep on as a friend.
 
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