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A Grieving Boyfriend

emmmmmm wtf?

We'll, it sounds like all three (or four if we consider the individual your boyfriend's girlfriend cheated on him with) of you are aware of each others' existence so I guess it's all consenting adults here hopefully. How old is your boyfriend out of curiosity? It's really confusing but whatever floats your boat.

About your boyfriend's loss, you realized your mistake and acted a little immature when you guys left the movie theater but it sounds like you are being there for him now so just continue doing that. The only thing you can do is give him a shoulder to cry on if he needs it.


Hi,

Thanks for your comments. He's 21.
 
who is cheating on who?????

he's w/you and cheating on her....

he is with you and she is cheating on him..

She does not know he is w/you.


I'm lost here.
 
Well, never mindi the straight-bf-with-gf part OR the cheating part.

Never mind the aborted baby either, since you didnt know about it until late in the game.

I believe that ONE miscarried baby is serious enough to make someone miserable enough for you to understand that you didnt have to be bitchy to him about not wanting to go out that night. I mean, this must be the next worst thing to having your born child die!

When my boyfriend's CAT died, I was more understanding than you were about the miscarriage. (though it turned out that his cat wasnt dead after all, never mind, LONG story!)

What I meant to say is that this wasn't about you not knowing the whole story, because the one thing you knew about initially (dead fetus) was serious enough to make you care less about you getting the cold shoulder due to his grief and more about your boyfriend's terrible loss.

But, hey, looks like you learnt from you mistake anyway, so take care of him and be a little more supporting. I dont know how complicated things are, but hey, now that his gf is a cheater AND can't bear his babies (ASSUMING the babies were his), maybe you can now convince him to dump her and adopt a kid with you!

You win either way!..|
 
Being understanding is hard to learn for some... and that's a shame.

Just how old are you? You seem extremely immature and very self centered.
 
WOW. All I can say is, considering the weird dymanics, I wouldn't be surprised if your relationship with him blew up in your face. If he had a girlfriend while you guys were boyfriends, what is your relationship based on?

He is grieving right now, and as a friend, you need to give him his space and let him come to you when he needs it.

Even though you were bitchy, at least you apologized.
 
LOL!!! I realized I'm being an asshole right now but I can't stop laughing at this whole thing. :rotflmao:
 
Sorry but i bet the babies weren't his but the guy's she was cheating him with. I find you all in this story very immature..
 
What the fuck?

Why are you wandering around the graveyard of long dead threads and exhuming their rotting remains?

Unless you're just reminding us of all the good laughs we've had over other people's misery.
 
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