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Bulldogboy91

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Hey guys!

So I am a 20 year old college student in a college town and when I was a Freshmen I meet a guy...lets call him Tom.

Tom is gay and had a "boyfriend" when we messed around (I was and still am a virgin and want to have full on sex with someone special)

I say Tom had a boyfriend because it was Toms boyfriend who ended up calling him hours after we made out and gave each other BJs and confessed his love for Tom. Tom thus told him what hadhappenedappend hours before and the boyfriend got pissed up and threated me via facebook and what not. Tom also made it super weird and completely ignored/insulted me after this as well.

Fast forward to this summer...Tom and I reach otherachother via Grindr and he is determined to have sex with me

He knows I wont go all the way but is it bad if we mess around even though he over our Freshmen year and everyone I know who knows him knows hes a huge slut

Sincerly
desperatetely despreate and horny

:/
 
Welcome to JUB! :wave:

There are too many single gay men out there to get caught up in that man's drama.

Were I you, I would not waste my time.
 
Wait until you find a nice guy that does not have so many strings attached. Unless you want to allow yourself to be drawn into endless drama, I say stay clear for now. Good luck!
 
Welcome to JUB. Congrats on your first post.

Your post doesn't ask a question and doesn't say that you're looking for advice but it's probably safe to say that you want opinions about whether you should get naked with this guy, whether or not you end up with a wiener up your butt.

Bulldogboy91 said:
...with someone special
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Bulldogboy91 said:
...desperatetely despreate and horny
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Here's two very different statements. A lot of young guys go into the gay world believing that they want to hold back some things until they meet someone special. But then a couple of drinks and a raging boner later, they end up doing things that they told themselves they would not do.

It's much more practical to go into these things with your eyes open. If you want to find someone special, don't wait for him to find you. Get out there and look. He's probably not on Grindr. He's probably not a "huge slut". He probably doesn't have a boyfriend. He probably doesn't have a boyfriend who stalks you on Facebook. And he probably doesn't treat you like shit one day and then try to hook up with you the next.

If you want to do something about your horniness, then go find a decent, average guy who is looking for the same things you are. Avoid drama. Avoid drama queens. Avoid huge sluts.

They are not worth your time. You deserve better.
 
First of all, keeping stuff back only makes you seem immature. This tactic has about 30% chance of success if that. What I mean is - first time sex is awkward and can be nerve-wracking. Now imagine the added pressure of actually being seriously invested in whoever you're having it with. But anyway, this glorifying of the first time is common among young gay guys, and it's not what you are asking about.

Clearly, if you want it to be special, you stay away from that particular piece of trash. Otherwise, I'll say if you both want it, and want it from someone special, then you gotta make that happen. Unlike others, I believe Grindr can be a great place for meeting decent guys, although it takes a lot of attention and solid head on your shoulders to sift through all the hook-up boys.

Or, alternatively, and what I'd recommend, just find a guy you have good chemistry with, and fuck each other silly. Sex is a skill, and it gets better with practice. I'd rather not be a total noob when I'm with someone I actually care about.
 
The way he treated you before should be a red flag. It speaks volumns about what kind of guy he is. You can do a lot better.
 
Benvolio said:
The way he treated you before should be a red flag. It speaks volumns about what kind of guy he is. You can do a lot better.
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Bingo. This is all that needs to be said. Good luck.
 
Bulldogboy, it sounds to me that "full-on" sex with a total stranger the first time you meet would be a more satisfying experience than sex with this guy. Don't be desperate, there are plenty of guys out there you could meet who will treat you with respect and go at your own speed (which seems to be warp speed right now).
 
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