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A Nervous breakdown and feeling suicidal

oh shit, hope i didn't overstep and trip on my own dick...we lovwe you you fucked up idiot. we will tell you how to live your life as long as you ask. just remember, we are not in your bed...just partly your head. hope i didn't offend love and affection without the gay direction
 
Madonana honey, you are just way too hard on yourself. Nobody hates you. As I said, privately, much of what takes place on these boards is a game played for entertainment value. And that's probably true in real life also. You shouldn't take it so seriously. I think speaking with a trained professional might help. You should also consider taking a break from Just Us Bitches, oops! I mean Just Us Boys. Take care.
 
metta said:
Call The Trevor Hotline, which is a 24-hour toll-free suicide prevention line aimed at gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered, and questioning youths:
1-866-4-U-TREVOR
1-866-488-7386
http://www.thetrevorproject.org/home1.aspx
SERIOUSLY....PLEASE CALL NOW!!!
and let us know when you have done so....thanks! (*8*)
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Hi Madonna

Yuki here............hey, I woke up this morning, congratulated metta on reaching 10,000 JUB postings, then read your thread & the postings, and I am hoping that you have and I am wondering if you have taken metta's advice as of yet............it is great advice............ (*8*)
 
2 thoughts on being a survivor of molestation:

1st - You had absolutely no control over that situation. Thoughts of "I could have said no" or "I didn't have to let it continue" are simply not true. He was holding all the power over you, and you were his victim - you are not to blame!

2nd - You did exactly whatever was necessary to get out of that man's grip alive. Living through a rape/molestation/abuse situation is an act of personal salvation. The scars are deep and long lasting - but you have already proved the immensity of your courage surviving this situation.

I echo the others above who implore you to seek professional help.

The inner torment and self-hatred you have experienced can become a thing of the past, with the proper help and guidance. I promise you this.

An ex once said a very wise thing to me: "If you head hurts, go to a head doctor." It was, in fact, the only wise thing he ever said to me.

Please give this some carefull, life-saving consideration.
 
<- waving hands in the air, like he just DO care.

There's a much better place for you.

You won't find it in a larger cock.
You won't find it in a better photo.
You won't find it in a more outrageous thread.
You won't find it in a new screen name.
You won't find it in a bottle of pills.

I think you know where to find it.
Go get it. :)

Lex
 
JasunStrikesBack said:
Oh, and hands up here everyone who's had a complete breakdown before?

Hands up who here has felt hopeless at one point or another?

Hands up who felt they just couldn't keep up the happy, brave exterior any more?

Hands up who felt like they were out of options?

Because we've al been there and I'd be willing to be virtually all of us have made it through the other side a better man for it?

Because I sure have.. all of the above... and more recently than I'd be willing to admit.
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*raises hand*


My friend, I think I owe you an apology. I was one of the many JUBers who expressed interest in the photos you put on this forum, even tho I thought it might be a little too much. But I thought you were doing it just for the sake of it. Never had I imagined you were doing this because of self-esteem issues.

I might not have felt the exact same way as you, and I can assure you that two years and a half ago I felt like shit, no kidding. Everything seemed dull and unworthy, I was seeing myself as even less than trash.

I swear I would love to help you my friend, but no forum, no Internet pal can really do a thing. I would really advise you to seek help from a professional. It may be long and difficult..... you're gonna have to go dig through the darkest moments of your life..... but that's the price to pay if you wanna come to peace with all those terrible memories.


Very honestly, and I really, really hope you will believe me my friend, you are far from being fat or ugly or any synonymous of these. You're a fine-looking boy, and while you may not look like those models or those porn stars that are shoved down our throats (and I tend to think it's rather a good thing), I really think you are attractive. You look like a normal human being, with a body that has good aspects and bad aspects, just like every freaking human being on this planet !!!

That might not reassure you in any manner, because that's the "best" we on JUB can do. The rest is up to you my friend, but I think I speak on behalf of many here when I say we care about you and support you and encourage you all the way to getting that self-esteem you're looking for.

PM me if you want, I'll reply without hesitation.

Kisses (*8*)
 
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>>>in fact, they seem to hate everybody but themselves.

I don't know many rednecks, but the few I've met seem not to even like themselves all that much.

Lex
 
*raises hand*

A lot of us have been there Madonna. Maybe not by taking the same path you did but we've been there nonetheless. You need to seek out professional help. I know I've had to learn how to deal with my shit. None of us here (I think) are qualified to help you through this but we can sympathize with you. It's just a rough patch, you can make it.
 
Have you gone for real help yet? If you need us to keep bugging you about it that is fine....but it would be much better if you would just do it.



metta said:
Call The Trevor Hotline, which is a 24-hour toll-free suicide prevention line aimed at gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered, and questioning youths:

1-866-4-U-TREVOR


1-866-488-7386

http://www.thetrevorproject.org/home1.aspx



SERIOUSLY....
PLEASE CALL NOW!!!

and let us know when you have done so....thanks! (*8*)
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Oh dear, this is dreadful. Poor Madonna. This has got me very worried.

You're a fixture here, dear, please don't do anything rash.

You have a fan in ME.

xxx
 
Okay.. you were upset cause you didn't get into Porn?

Sounds to me that your issues aren't everyone elses' fault. It's your own. And you need to fix it.

You keep getting yourself into relationships with the trashiest guys ever. Perhaps you just take anything you can get? Fear of moving through the days alone, perhaps?

You go on the internet and show yourself off to a bunch of horny gay guys to feel better about yourself... And it's stupid. You allow others to judge you and decide how you look. Fuck the world, man. Stop letting others define you.

I think you need to cut the shit, get serious help and serious medication (not out dated medication, btw). And seeking help over the internet.. Not a good idea.
 
In Buddhism, they say that the root of misery is desire. When you want things that can't be fulfilled, you become frustrated and that leads to misery.

To get out of your state of misery, you have to identify those things which you desire and cannot attain, and move on to things you can.
 
metta said:
Personally, I take any threat of suicide seriously. Unless you have proof otherwise, it is wrong not to.
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Suicide threats are serious matters......................Madonna we haven't heard from you and are worried about your welfare......................you okay, wanna talk......................Yuki


star-warrior said:
In Buddhism, they say that the root of misery is desire. When you want things that can't be fulfilled, you become frustrated and that leads to misery.

To get out of your state of misery, you have to identify those things which you desire and cannot attain, and move on to things you can.
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Star, great advice...........thanks...........
 
Hey Madonna,

You are sure being awful quiet.............what's goin' on.............how are you feelin' this mornin' (afternoon on the East Coast).............
 
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