a public appology to Hunky.

[duroc5088]

Hunky about a week ago you were feeling a little down, and started a thread about why you hated being gay. Well I made a comment to your original post and that said.

I really hate being gay cause I don't like being associtated with whiners.

I want to publicly apologize to you for being so hatefull. I was not myself that night. I just checked my post comments, and a good friend on here who has helped me through some stuff I have dealt with in the past, reminded me that I was out of line.

i should have been more sensitive to the way you were feeling at the time, and I don't ever want anyone on here or anywhere to think that I am a jerk, or jaded, or bitter. I am a genuinely nice guy, and I am truely TRUELY sorry for what I said.


Dirk

 

[ahotjock71]

There are only a handful of "real" men here, Dirk, and you are one of them.

Been missin ya lately, and I got your message on messenger but haven't been on much to respond.

 

[M4P]

Dirk, it takes a big man to stand up in front of a crowd and admit you feel bad about your actions. I'm proud of you!

 

[Sausy]

Very classy on your part.People say things they don't mean in the heat of an emotional disagreement,and those words may hurt.You have the courage to publicly face up to your action's consequences,and show the real decent person inside.

 

[Croynan]

WHAT A REAL GENTLEMAN.



eM.

 

[Yuki Sohma]

d.....5088

 

[Soilwork]

I knew you wouldn't let us down.

you really are a model for what can happen when you just let go of your notions.

Earlier this year I thought you were a hopeless case, and here you are a very happily adjusted gay man.. it's hard for guys like you and me on the outside to even remember being in and it's hard for us to put up with people who aren't as happy with our lives as we are.

and it takes quite a man to admit that he's made an error... so good on you.

 

[cocktales]

Bravo Dirk:

It certainly is nice seeing people being civil toward one another!

.........and, I bet it didn't hurt a bit, did it?

I know Hunky will forgive and forget your feaux pas and let by gones, be by gones....

I think you are one heck of a guy Dirk for being so apologetic to one of our own JUBBERS!

I know that in the future when I think about being grouchy or nasty, I will think about this act of kindness on your part and try and do better too!

Here's hoping that future acts of aggression will also end up this way without MOD intervention!

 

[herenthere]

A dozen roses for Dirk...

You are awesome!!!

 

[hunky]

You are forgiven my friend.
I know we have our ups and downs moments, and we are all human.
I just ask you to be my friend.

 

[herenthere]

A dozen roses to Hunky!!!

 

[hunky]

A dozen roses to Hunky!!!

how about just half a dozen?
The other half I´ll give to you!

 

[BrandonSBCA]

I agree with everyone else, it takes a real man to apologize on a public forum.

 

[gmoney]

Well Dirk, you saw my reply in that same thread. This was a very gracious thread you started and I think it shows what a good man you are!

 

[tonyboy]

I didn't follow that thread but I know Dirk to be a perfect gentleman. A strong man physically, morally, and very sincere.
If one cannot trust Dirk to do the right thing then one cannot trust anyone on this earth.
I don't know you Hunky and haven't followed your posts (figure I'd better so now). Dirk is one of the fine jubbers and will always tell you what he feels. No bullshit. Just Dirk.
Sounds as if you understand his thoughts at the time he made the post. That is the main thing I guess.

Best to you both.

 

[irish1]

You are a man of honor.

Can I clone you?!?!?

Great move. Bravo.

 

[dolphwasser]

Well, this seems to have worked out well. I hope other bad feelings between the great members of this site can do the same!

The best to both of you - and an extra 'best' to Dirk!