A Second Puberty

[mbamike]

I lived my entire life as a straight guy. I will admit to being over thirty. Anyway, I fucked only women and suppressed my attraction to guys. Until last year.

I was going through some emotional and psychological issues where I felt I needed to address my true sexuality if life was to have any meaning and enjoyment. So, I hooked up with a guy and had anal sex. It was WONDERFUL! I posted a thread on this site detailing how he "Rocked My World!" I have had anal sex with other guys since this initial gay encounter.

Here is the issue, I can't get enough! I am horny all the damn time. It is like going through a second purbery, only worst. I don't remember the first pubery being as intense as this one. Is this normal? Can someone please explain what is happening to me and how I can stop from being so damn horny? Should I be concerned about this? HELP!

 

[Serenx55]

Being absolutely honest its normal to want to have sex. Being a man in particular makes you more prone towards sex related thoughts and what not. You liked anal sex. People aspire towards achieving pleasure. Ergo you want more. Simple conditioning really. But don't worry you'll end this "second puberty" when you hit age 60 or so.
But if you want to stop the horniness, the best method would be marriage/ having a long time bf followed by having tons of sex. Eventually you'll chill out.

Cheers.

 

[Deandbn]

Thats wonderful to hear Mike. A little maturity makes such a difference. You know, doing what you want (sexually) instead of what you think others expect of you.

You must be so happy to realize that you like boys better than girls this early in your life. You probably wonder why you did not try it 10 years ago. Goodness some poor guys go right through life doing what they think others expect of them to their own detriment.

Enjoy that horniness bud!!! Have a whole lot of fun.


ps. Take precautions and dont get sick.

 

[mbamike]

You probably wonder why you did not try it 10 years ago. Goodness some poor guys go right through life doing what they think others expect of them to their own detriment.

You are absolutely right! I wish I had confronted this issue ealier. I have never enjoyed sex so much!

 

[neditesjamais]

Just about dropped my teeth this morning when I read this, mbamike. Over the weekend, I finally decided I needed to talk to a counselor about, basically, the very same thing.

I'm over 50 and have had NO experience (in fact, have been celibate for over 15 years). This is about 3x worse for me than the first time around, and I can honestly say that I'm spending over 12 hours a day horned out of my mind and unable to get anything done!

Any suggestions or additional information on this phenomenon would be greatly appreciated.

And thanks, mbamike, for giving me the push--finally--to register and post. Lurking is probably something else I need to get over.

 

[KaraBulut]

Here is the issue, I can't get enough! I am horny all the damn time. It is like going through a second purbery, only worst. I don't remember the first pubery being as intense as this one. Is this normal? Can someone please explain what is happening to me and how I can stop from being so damn horny? Should I be concerned about this? HELP!

The question really is what you're craving here.

Is it just sex?

Or are you craving contact with another man?

The issue with impulses is the fine line between a healthy craving and an addiction. When talking about healthy things - like eating, working out, sex and things that feel good- it becomes a question of whether it is supplementing your life or whether it has become your life.

 

[seven_sins]

Sit back and enjoy it. Go along for the ride.

 

[7Anthony5]

I like reading this. I have something to look forward to.

 

[mbamike]

The question really is what you're craving here.

Is it just sex?

Or are you craving contact with another man?

The issue with impulses is the fine line between a healthy craving and an addiction. When talking about healthy things - like eating, working out, sex and things that feel good- it becomes a question of whether it is supplementing your life or whether it has become your life.

Well, may I say both? I do enjoy lying naked with another man. I had this one hook-up which we did not fuck. We just cuddled, kissed, talked, and sucked one another's cock. He has the most beautiful skin! Anyway, I remember leaving his place feeling refreshed and rejuvenated.

Then on the other hand, I do enjoy feeling my ass being penetrated by a nice hard cock too! I have a good collection of sex toys to provide this feeling when a Real Cock is not available. I have used them twice this week, so far, and today is only Wednesday! Of course I masturbate during these fuck sessions with myself. I remember a time when I would not have masturbated twice in one month much less twice in one week! BTW, this does not include my activities in the online chat rooms. I feel refreshed and rejuvenated when I leave my hook-ups that do include fucking also.

Recently, I have discovered online "chat rooms." I sought out the gay chat rooms of course. Yesterday alone, I sucked three guys off with one guy cumming twice (I am very skilled at painting a vivid picture on how I suck cock), and was ass fucked twice. One guy had me so involved I was literally trembling with lust for him as we chatted.

Then last night as I laid in bed trying to go to sleep for the night, I threw off the covers to ass fuck myself using my fingers and spit as lube out of impulse. BTW, I tasted my own ass for the first time during this fuck session.

Is all this normal behavior! Am I approaching "the line" between having a healthy sex craving and becoming sexually obsessed? I grew up in a religious conservative environment where sex was taboo, it was something only married (heterosexual) couples did behind closed doors, and it was not discussed in the home. So while this is new territory for me, others have gone before already.

Any beneficial input is requested and will be appreciated.

 

[jdcnow]

ps. Take precautions and dont get sick.

Always take, precautions. Don't wanna catch anything you can't rub off!

And I've learned from experience: putting on condoms can be all kinds of fun!

 

[mbamike]

So, the consenses is to buy the biggest box of condoms I can find and go out and enjoy my new found horniness. Right?

 

[7Anthony5]

And stop by here.

 

[altlover85]

As long as you are getting the things that need to be done done (paying bills, going to work, eating, sleeping, being safe) I think you're fine. Just make sure you're careful about meeting guys and making sure you meet guys for the first time in a public place if possible.