A straight guy who stares at a gay guy . . .

[GL]

i don't believe that this has ever happened to me but to be honest i tend to be rather obtuse! me thinks he may be curious...

 

[josher]

There's no reason to presume any guy you meet is straight, but certainly the law of averages would lead you to that conclusion.

Maybe he's staring at you because he thinks your cute. Smile the next time he's stares at you.

 

[broadwayboi]

Maybe you have a booger? haha jk

Just smile and be friendly. See what happens.

 

[Shepherd 2]

I have a little song and dance that I do, but it probably wouldn't
work for you. If he is closeted, you would be able to bring him out and to his next chapter of living.


Shep+

 

[hotb0d]

lol ^^^^ he might just be homophillic

 

[LilBit]

When I was working at the Evil Place, there was this one purportedly straight guy who was apparently obsessed with me. He kept asking the servers about me and marveling about the oddity of an openly gay bartender. He creeped me the fuck out.

 

[justsimon]

How do you know he's straight?

 

[MidnightPrism]

People often stare at me but I think it's just because I'm so damn weird.

 

[justsimon]

People often stare at me but I think it's just because I'm so damn weird.

More likely because you're so damn fine.

 

[Alpha1851]

Maybe he's staring at you b/c he wants to see how a gay guy acts* It would be hot if he was staring b/c he's got a crush on you, but your situation sounds a bit like the one I was recently in. One of the gay cops kept staring at me. Every time I turned around or looked in his direction he was there, just staring. It was creepy and I finally asked him why. He apologized, blushed, and just said that he had never really been that close w/ a female and that he was baffled b/c my personality didn't match up w/ his view of a stereotypical straight female. Whatever that means.

*before anyone get's all concerned, I'm aware that there's no difference btwn how a gay fella acts and a straight fella other than one likes to suck cock and the other prefers snatch.

 

[nitish]

There is a dude that stares at me in work. He's old and ugly. I can see his personality on his face. He stares at me with hate filled eyes. I don't even know him. He looks like a Clan member. He won't even look at way after I look at him, he keeps staring. It only happened twice, as we don't cross paths often.

 

[Telstra]

So at my temp job there is a straight guy (to my knowledge) who stares at me. I have found him purposely staring in my direction so many times. Plus we have ended up with the same shifts, so it's like constant.

I would look at him when I first started working there. I thought he was a shopper not an employee. He's a rugged, tattooed, bad boy type but tactful enough. But once I realized he was an employee, and was straight I stopped staring. But now he stares at me.

From anyone's else experience, is this normal? Am I his first man-crush? Or is he curious?

I would feel really uncomfortable if I brought this up to him, so I won't. Bad bad bad idea.
Has this ever happened to you?

hey, i think staring without chatting is NOT good for both. I advice u to go and say hello, and have a chit chat.

If u 2 don't chat for too long but keep on staring at each other, grudges may grow out of control.

 

[Level27]

So at my temp job there is a straight guy (to my knowledge) who stares at me. I have found him purposely staring in my direction so many times. Plus we have ended up with the same shifts, so it's like constant.

I would look at him when I first started working there. I thought he was a shopper not an employee. He's a rugged, tattooed, bad boy type but tactful enough. But once I realized he was an employee, and was straight I stopped staring. But now he stares at me.

From anyone's else experience, is this normal? Am I his first man-crush? Or is he curious?

I would feel really uncomfortable if I brought this up to him, so I won't. Bad bad bad idea.
Has this ever happened to you?

I call that harassment, and if he continued to stare at me that way as a fellow employee at my work place, he would SOOOO eventually find his dirty little heiny sitting in the boss's office where he would discuss his behavior and be given a warning.

I get so annoyed when certain guys gander at me without any apparent reason. They would continue to stare at me for what seems like 10 seconds or more. Really, there are few things interesting about me and very little to look at.

 

[Rex]

When he stares is it a look of curiosity or what? He may either be interested in you or maybe he's homophobic and doesn't like you.

Does he know that you're gay? I'm assuming he does. have you ever tried saying "hi" or "what's up?" to him? Just talk to him. Break the ice. Say hello. Then update us.

PS: Is he hot?


Double PS: If your eye looks as gross as the one in your av does then maybe that's why he's staring.


EDIT again:

Where do you work?

 

[Joshua_me]

It's been my experience that if some str8 guys get horned-up enough, they will stare/ flirt at and with 'us guys.'

Where I work we have the same UPS guy that comes in with deliveries every day.

For months it was nothing more than a 'Hey' and 'Sign here' that came out of him. Then, all of a sudden the eye contact started increasing, along with the jokes of how he had a 'big package' waiting for me back on the truck. (sheesh...subtle ) He's kinda cute in those brown shorts, but I basically kept him at a distance.

Then, one day he comes in talking about this great new 'gal' that he met and how he thinks this is 'the one'...and with that, all the flirting stopped...Presumably because he was getting laid again.

meh

Go figure.

 

[Rex]

that's my eye with glitter around it. my av is gross? yours makes me sick. honestly though.

yeah he's hot. i would waste my time with anything other than hot.

working temp at a macy's in the suburbs (hell) of portland.

Glitter? LOL dude no offense but I thought it was someone's eye with a really bad rash or breakout skin.

Anyway, let us know what happens with the hot tattood bad boy.

 

[USEDCAR]

WOW this guy does that at my job also. We was working in the dish washer room and every time i return a dirty plate or something he looks at me for a few seconds and continue what hes doing. He been staring at me for over 3 weeks now. Even during orientation i got a tour of the kitchen and he stare at me like he was frozen in his tracks I know for a fact I'm not sexy or even cute. If hes gay he would surprise me because he has a girlfriend and he looks tough and rough

I always just say hi to him and how are you doing or whats up.




Level27 why would you report someone for just looking at you. Honestly hes just staring its not like hes threating him or touching him. I hate when people are quick to throw the harassment card for everything

 

[tonyboy]

So at my temp job there is a straight guy (to my knowledge) who stares at me. I have found him purposely staring in my direction so many times. Plus we have ended up with the same shifts, so it's like constant.

I would look at him when I first started working there. I thought he was a shopper not an employee. He's a rugged, tattooed, bad boy type but tactful enough. But once I realized he was an employee, and was straight I stopped staring. But now he stares at me.

From anyone's else experience, is this normal? Am I his first man-crush? Or is he curious?

I would feel really uncomfortable if I brought this up to him, so I won't. Bad bad bad idea.
Has this ever happened to you?

You happen to be a very nice looking guy DA... could be the guy is looking at you cause of that.
On the other hand, sometimes people just stare at others.

I doubt there is anyone that hasn't been starred at before. Sometimes we figure people are looking at us more than they really are.
It bugs me when I see people looking at me too closely... always wondered what they were looking at... I try not to do it to others but it's sometimes a bit tough to not gaze at a nice looking guy. And I figure if I saw you around and about I'd stare at you for a bit too.

 

[LilBit]

i do got a booty! it's always manbait. lol

Can we see it?