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Based on actual online conversations, this true account was not written to expose or embarrass the actual participant. It was written so others like me can see that this kind of relationship is possible, and describes just how step by step and over the course of a few months I helped in the progression of this incredible occurrence. This will be a totally anonymous writing of the incredible and beautiful actual events that transpired between myself and a 20 year old young man who lives with just his father. For the sake of this writing and so I don’t confuse the reader by constantly referring to this guy as ‘him’ or ‘he’; we’ll call this 20 year old Jake.
Part 1
I'm known on several gay/bi social networking sites as; Brazen.. Bi-Top Married Dad. I have a bio written about myself that is shared, and in it I talk about how life would be at home if I had a son or sons and it was just us guys at home. Here is the excerpt from the [full bio] that speaks directly to this:
**When I talk about having a son around, I talk in the sense that I would want them to grow up in a wide open atmosphere where they wouldn’t have to hide anything about who they are, who they are attracted to, or what their bodies look like. I would want him (them) to feel comfortable being naked, have a good and confident self image, be comfortable talking with me about their bodies as they develop into men, comfortable to follow their desires and make discoveries about what they are curious about in their sexuality. I would never want him (them) to feel like they have to hide their porn stash or keep secrets about what they feel inside. And if that means they happen to get a hard on while sitting naked on the couch while we’re all watching TV, FINE! That’s what men get! If they see me with an erection, FINE! It’s okay! If they are hanging with their buds one day jerking off to porn together, or experimenting with something sexual and I walk in on it… SO WHAT! I’d much rather be able to talk with them about it rather than it being hidden from me. If they are underage, I would certainly advise them to hold off until they are a bit older and can handle it more maturely, and if they are over 18 then… GO FOR IT! I could care less if my living room became the buddy jack off place to hang out naked. Let them enjoy themselves! I find that a much healthier and natural activity than drinking, doing drugs, or committing crimes just to keep from being bored.**
I guess this attracted the attention of this bi-guy from Maryland who started a one-on-one conversation with me. The area he lived in was not what would come to mind when thinking of gay friendly locations. It was known better for country music playing, beer drinking, mud bogging, four wheeling, farmland working, pick-up truck driving, and jeans with camo-style ball cap wearing.
As he described himself, he was 20 years old, tall, slender, brown hair, and decent looking. But, he was bi-sexual and from a small rural town where he could never act out on his feelings or even speak of them with his friends or at home.
For whatever reason, he picked me as the dad to come to for advice and asked if I would help him out. Of course I would!
Jake lived at home with just his dad since he was very young. I'm not sure what his sexual experiences were up to this point, but one thing was for sure, he was into men. Through the years as he grew up his attraction to his father began and only grew stronger with time. Jake told me how much he had idolized him from the time it was the just two of them since he was very young. He told me about his dad’s good looks, and masculinity. He had quite the crush on his dad, and saw him as the most attractive and desirable man in his life. I wanted to know what kind of father/son relationship they had and what kind of comfort levels there were around the house. Knowing it was just the two of them, I asked Jake if they had ever seen each other naked. He had only seen his dad naked a couple of times and each time it was by quick glance from the shower or something unintended. And the same, his dad had caught a quick view of his son naked a time or two over the years. There was no comfort level with nudity at home, and each seemed to give the other the privacy they felt the other needed or deserved. I sensed that same sort of guarded privacy from Jake as well. His profile had no provocative pictures of him. Where other profiles (mine included) were filled with half naked headless figures in jocks and other tantalizing images of themselves, his profile picture was of his truck. It was only when I had gained a trusted comfort level with Jake that he shared what he looked like, and even then they were mostly “Facebook friendly” photos with only one of them being shirtless. He was cute as hell, and that long slender hairless torso was damned sexy. Dirty jeans, worn work boots, ball cap, and sitting on a quad. From what he told me he was sporting a nice thick 7” cock. From his height and frame, I believed it. His profile write up offered no detail about him whatsoever. This was a very private, shy, and respectful guy I was dealing with, and it seemed that level of modesty existed at home, too.
Jake wanted to change this dynamic with his father and wished so badly they could be naked at home together, living as he had seen and/or read about with other dad/son households where nudity, erections, and even sex was acceptable. Jake felt strongly that his father would never go for anything that had to do with sex. The backwoods mentality of the local area didn't exactly promote tolerance or acceptance, and his dad was just as masculine and straight laced as any other man in town. There was no way Jake would ever speak of his attraction to men, especially when his own father was the object of his affection and desire. Being with his dad that way was a dream that would have to remain a silent one, but at the least Jake just wanted him and his dad not to feel as though they had to cover up for the other. He wanted to be naked with his father, and have his father be comfortable with that. That was the request Jake had for me. How can I help get his dad be naked with him?
I know myself. If this were my own son and he came to me with this kind of request, I would totally be okay with it. Any suggestion or advice I gave Jake was from my perspective, as a dad, knowing how I would react if my son approached me. As I stated from the bio, my son wouldn't have to ask. We'd already be living like that. I realized over time that my own viewpoint wasn't that far off from many other dads. Why should any man be uncomfortable about nudity with his own son - especially if there were no females around? Still, having your son just walk up to you one day and say "Hey Dad, I really want to be naked with you." didn't seem like the way to go about it. I would imagine his dad would have been like...What the fuck?!? Something of a more natural scenario would have to happen, and I knew right away what to suggest.
I asked Jake if when his dad was sitting watching TV he had visibility to other parts of the house, like the kitchen or laundry room. The answer was yes. Good! I told Jake next time you're both at home and he's watching TV, come out of your room naked and peek around the corner. Say to your dad something like, "Hey Dad I was going to grab something out of the fridge but I don't have any clothes on. You don't care, do you?" or “Hey Dad I had some clothes I needed to wash and it includes what I was wearing. I’m headed to the laundry room with nothing on, okay?”
I knew Jake’s dad would go for it. Why? Because I would have! Was he really going to say, "Well no son, I'm not comfortable with that." Come on, they're guys!
Jake thought that was a great idea and said he'd give that a try. I had no idea at the time if he would find the courage to actually do it but I still felt confident that if he did, it would at least plant the seed that it's okay to be seen naked. No big deal. We ended our conversation, and I was hopeful I'd hear back from him but honestly I had no idea if I ever would. Jake seemed to have developed a good comfort level with me, where otherwise he’d be very guarded and private. He answered anything I asked, was so open about things, and appreciated my opinions. Every answer I was giving somehow fit well with Jake’s thoughts about the entire situation. That gave me a feeling of bonding and trust with Jake that I would LOVE to have with my own son, if I had one.
About a week or so went by, and I went onto the site to find I had a new message. "Are you there? I have something to tell you. Please be there!"
I didn’t know if his statement was excitement or panic! The IM window showed he was still online.
“I’m here Jake!”
“I’m so glad you’re here. I’ve got to talk to you!”
“Everything okay? How are things at home?”
“You remember what we talked about last time? You told me to try something like ask my dad if it’s okay to walk through the room naked. Well, a couple of nights ago, I tried what you said.”
“Wow! Really? Did it work?”
“I got naked and peeked around the corner. I said, ‘Hey Dad. I wanted to grab something from the fridge, but I'm naked. You don't care, right?’”
“You did? What was your dad’s reaction?”
“You’re not going to believe what he did.”
End Part 1
Coming Soon: Part 2
All pictures used are from the internet, and are not of any actual persons involved. They will taken down by request if any copyright or personal ownership can be proven.
Part 1
I'm known on several gay/bi social networking sites as; Brazen.. Bi-Top Married Dad. I have a bio written about myself that is shared, and in it I talk about how life would be at home if I had a son or sons and it was just us guys at home. Here is the excerpt from the [full bio] that speaks directly to this:
**When I talk about having a son around, I talk in the sense that I would want them to grow up in a wide open atmosphere where they wouldn’t have to hide anything about who they are, who they are attracted to, or what their bodies look like. I would want him (them) to feel comfortable being naked, have a good and confident self image, be comfortable talking with me about their bodies as they develop into men, comfortable to follow their desires and make discoveries about what they are curious about in their sexuality. I would never want him (them) to feel like they have to hide their porn stash or keep secrets about what they feel inside. And if that means they happen to get a hard on while sitting naked on the couch while we’re all watching TV, FINE! That’s what men get! If they see me with an erection, FINE! It’s okay! If they are hanging with their buds one day jerking off to porn together, or experimenting with something sexual and I walk in on it… SO WHAT! I’d much rather be able to talk with them about it rather than it being hidden from me. If they are underage, I would certainly advise them to hold off until they are a bit older and can handle it more maturely, and if they are over 18 then… GO FOR IT! I could care less if my living room became the buddy jack off place to hang out naked. Let them enjoy themselves! I find that a much healthier and natural activity than drinking, doing drugs, or committing crimes just to keep from being bored.**
I guess this attracted the attention of this bi-guy from Maryland who started a one-on-one conversation with me. The area he lived in was not what would come to mind when thinking of gay friendly locations. It was known better for country music playing, beer drinking, mud bogging, four wheeling, farmland working, pick-up truck driving, and jeans with camo-style ball cap wearing.
As he described himself, he was 20 years old, tall, slender, brown hair, and decent looking. But, he was bi-sexual and from a small rural town where he could never act out on his feelings or even speak of them with his friends or at home.
For whatever reason, he picked me as the dad to come to for advice and asked if I would help him out. Of course I would!
Jake lived at home with just his dad since he was very young. I'm not sure what his sexual experiences were up to this point, but one thing was for sure, he was into men. Through the years as he grew up his attraction to his father began and only grew stronger with time. Jake told me how much he had idolized him from the time it was the just two of them since he was very young. He told me about his dad’s good looks, and masculinity. He had quite the crush on his dad, and saw him as the most attractive and desirable man in his life. I wanted to know what kind of father/son relationship they had and what kind of comfort levels there were around the house. Knowing it was just the two of them, I asked Jake if they had ever seen each other naked. He had only seen his dad naked a couple of times and each time it was by quick glance from the shower or something unintended. And the same, his dad had caught a quick view of his son naked a time or two over the years. There was no comfort level with nudity at home, and each seemed to give the other the privacy they felt the other needed or deserved. I sensed that same sort of guarded privacy from Jake as well. His profile had no provocative pictures of him. Where other profiles (mine included) were filled with half naked headless figures in jocks and other tantalizing images of themselves, his profile picture was of his truck. It was only when I had gained a trusted comfort level with Jake that he shared what he looked like, and even then they were mostly “Facebook friendly” photos with only one of them being shirtless. He was cute as hell, and that long slender hairless torso was damned sexy. Dirty jeans, worn work boots, ball cap, and sitting on a quad. From what he told me he was sporting a nice thick 7” cock. From his height and frame, I believed it. His profile write up offered no detail about him whatsoever. This was a very private, shy, and respectful guy I was dealing with, and it seemed that level of modesty existed at home, too.
Jake wanted to change this dynamic with his father and wished so badly they could be naked at home together, living as he had seen and/or read about with other dad/son households where nudity, erections, and even sex was acceptable. Jake felt strongly that his father would never go for anything that had to do with sex. The backwoods mentality of the local area didn't exactly promote tolerance or acceptance, and his dad was just as masculine and straight laced as any other man in town. There was no way Jake would ever speak of his attraction to men, especially when his own father was the object of his affection and desire. Being with his dad that way was a dream that would have to remain a silent one, but at the least Jake just wanted him and his dad not to feel as though they had to cover up for the other. He wanted to be naked with his father, and have his father be comfortable with that. That was the request Jake had for me. How can I help get his dad be naked with him?
I know myself. If this were my own son and he came to me with this kind of request, I would totally be okay with it. Any suggestion or advice I gave Jake was from my perspective, as a dad, knowing how I would react if my son approached me. As I stated from the bio, my son wouldn't have to ask. We'd already be living like that. I realized over time that my own viewpoint wasn't that far off from many other dads. Why should any man be uncomfortable about nudity with his own son - especially if there were no females around? Still, having your son just walk up to you one day and say "Hey Dad, I really want to be naked with you." didn't seem like the way to go about it. I would imagine his dad would have been like...What the fuck?!? Something of a more natural scenario would have to happen, and I knew right away what to suggest.
I asked Jake if when his dad was sitting watching TV he had visibility to other parts of the house, like the kitchen or laundry room. The answer was yes. Good! I told Jake next time you're both at home and he's watching TV, come out of your room naked and peek around the corner. Say to your dad something like, "Hey Dad I was going to grab something out of the fridge but I don't have any clothes on. You don't care, do you?" or “Hey Dad I had some clothes I needed to wash and it includes what I was wearing. I’m headed to the laundry room with nothing on, okay?”
I knew Jake’s dad would go for it. Why? Because I would have! Was he really going to say, "Well no son, I'm not comfortable with that." Come on, they're guys!
Jake thought that was a great idea and said he'd give that a try. I had no idea at the time if he would find the courage to actually do it but I still felt confident that if he did, it would at least plant the seed that it's okay to be seen naked. No big deal. We ended our conversation, and I was hopeful I'd hear back from him but honestly I had no idea if I ever would. Jake seemed to have developed a good comfort level with me, where otherwise he’d be very guarded and private. He answered anything I asked, was so open about things, and appreciated my opinions. Every answer I was giving somehow fit well with Jake’s thoughts about the entire situation. That gave me a feeling of bonding and trust with Jake that I would LOVE to have with my own son, if I had one.
About a week or so went by, and I went onto the site to find I had a new message. "Are you there? I have something to tell you. Please be there!"
I didn’t know if his statement was excitement or panic! The IM window showed he was still online.
“I’m here Jake!”
“I’m so glad you’re here. I’ve got to talk to you!”
“Everything okay? How are things at home?”
“You remember what we talked about last time? You told me to try something like ask my dad if it’s okay to walk through the room naked. Well, a couple of nights ago, I tried what you said.”
“Wow! Really? Did it work?”
“I got naked and peeked around the corner. I said, ‘Hey Dad. I wanted to grab something from the fridge, but I'm naked. You don't care, right?’”
“You did? What was your dad’s reaction?”
“You’re not going to believe what he did.”
End Part 1
Coming Soon: Part 2
All pictures used are from the internet, and are not of any actual persons involved. They will taken down by request if any copyright or personal ownership can be proven.
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