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Abstaining from sex

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Does anyone have any ideas on how to resist the urge to jack off and abstain for say a week or two? I normally need to wank myself every 3-4 days but lately, I seem to have the urge to do it every night.

I haven't looked at porn for a while either so not sure where the urges are coming from. And yes I'm still a virgin.
 
Why would you want to abstain. It is a good thing to have orgasm -- even if you are alone.
 
runner said:
Why would you want to abstain. It is a good thing to have orgasm -- even if you are alone.
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Cumming too much strains my energy supply and I get very tired. It also makes it hard for me to concentrate at work the next day. Compound full time work and part time study and I don't have enough active brain cells to go around.

Also I feel I'm a bit old for jacking off everyday.
 
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Also I feel I'm a bit old for jacking off everyday.
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Maybe if you were 127 instead of 27! Geez, I typically jack off at least once a day and I'm 14 years older than you. It's only too often if your dick is sore, otherwise, go for it! *|*
 
For me it is generally just the fact that I don't have time and my life is too busy to think about it. I come home and go to bed. It is when I have a moment that I start to realize that it has been a while. But I know what you mean about it zapping energy if you do it daily. I will say, once you get passed about two weeks, you pretty much lose the desire to get off at all. Which is nice... and kind of freaky at the same time.
 
If you enjoy it and it helps you relax and is not interfering with other things, why not jack off every three or four days?

Back when I was trying to deny I was gay, I felt very guilty about jacking off (I was married but we hadn't had sex in three years). However, since I came out, if I feel like wanking daily or even a couple of times daily, I do. If I don't feel like it because I'm tired or just don't have the urge...then I don't. But every three or four days is probably not a problem unless it is causing you to shortchange relationships....
 
I went to gym yesterday and up until then, I haven't wanked for a whole week. Normally I don't jack off the night before sport whether it's gym or martial arts training but the long break from sex seems to have given me more energy.
 
I'd have trouble concentrating if I didn't.

I'm not sure how you masturbate but my technique isn't so rigorous as to deprive me of energy the next day.

I'm not really sure what you can do stop the urges but good luck to you anyway.
 
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