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Acceptance

Do you think you'll be partnered when you die?

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belamy

belamy

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So... do you think you will die "alone" or having found a ("THE") partner? If you believe you will be in the first case, how are you dealing with the acceptance of that fact? :cool:

In any case, you can always die in an accident in the middle of nowhere... alone :mrgreen: while your partner is waiting for you at home :rolleyes:

Or you may end up having lived the prrrretiest love story ever but dying alone after your partner died before or simply left you... or...

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if i were to die today, tomorrow, 30 years from now i won't be alone because i know i will have my family and friends.

will i have 'someone' to share my life along the way? will i be partnered? i don't think so. have i accepted that? i guess that depends on my mood when you ask. ;)
 
It's not that I don't want to think about it, it's just that it's a worthless topic to think about because A.) We can die at anytime, and B.) A lot can change before I die.
 
kevbo said:
It's not that I don't want to think about it, it's just that it's a worthless topic to think about because A.) We can die at anytime, and B.) A lot can change before I die.
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So you don't believe in payrolls, credit cards, contracts, insurances, market shares, 401ks, voting... or anything implying compromise with a future :mrgreen:
 
belamy said:
So you don't believe in payrolls, credit cards, contracts, insurances, market shares, 401ks, voting... or anything implying compromise with a future :mrgreen:
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Exactly :cool:
 
My Vincent was taken from me in a car crash when we were both 23.

He's up there, waiting for me.

Everybody dies in their own time. Even if I have a great love that I leave here, I'm going to die in my own time.

And if I deserve to go up there, Vincent will be there to greet me.

And it will be awesome.....
 
I'm not all that optimistic but not yet dismissing the possibility....probably don't really want to face the possibility.Very few real friends,maybe one or two who both don't know I'm gay and most likely turn away from me if they ever found out....guess my family loves me,but that will be cold comfort when I'm gone.Yep,trying not to think about it....compartmentalizing and burying the idea if you will because I just can't face being alone. I guess my self delusion keeps me kind of sane.
 
I'm going to die alone. Without ever finding anyone and at a young age.

I obviously have no faith in myself.

Yes... I feel this needed to be bumped. I missed it the first time. :p
 
Mikami said:
I can't answer it because the thread and poll contradict each other.
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That's called giving you options... saying that is like saying that a poll is contradictory because it gives you contradictory options.
 
I think that it may happen either way

and I can't make decisions in my life based on fear of one or the other


so I don't think about it...


most of the time :roll:
 
At my age it is obviously a subject about which I think more frequently than our younger members probably do.

I accepted long ago I will die alone but I would really, really like to be the one who chooses the day and time. I find it completely unjust that we can't decide when and how it will happen.

I want a death ceremony just as wonderful as a wedding ceremony; I want music, flowers, friends and a beautiful day. :D
 
I chose that I will probably be alone, mainly due to my shyness and being so picky.


Lightsage said:
I'm going to die alone. Without ever finding anyone and at a young age.

I obviously have no faith in myself.

Yes... I feel this needed to be bumped. I missed it the first time. :p
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How can you say that with so many people on JUB that openly flirt with you. I would think that you would need a stick to beat them all back. ;)
 
dpnice said:
At my age it is obviously a subject about which I think more frequently than our younger members probably do.

I accepted long ago I will die alone but I would really, really like to be the one who chooses the day and time. I find it completely unjust that we can't decide when and how it will happen.

I want a death ceremony just as wonderful as a wedding ceremony; I want music, flowers, friends and a beautiful day. :D
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And a young beur as a master of ceremonies?

I wonder what would be the place of "Madame" in that picture :mrgreen:
 
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