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Accidental Flirting

TheLoveableLoner

TheLoveableLoner

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Does anyone else often find themselves accidentally flirting with people?

Like just being you on a good day (smiling, eye contact, being engaging) causes you to accidentally charm people or lead them to think that you're hitting on them?

It's quite the humorous personality quirk to have if you don't have it personally. :lol:

I swear I was just innocently smiling at the coffee shop I just visited and somehow ended up one more glance short of a full-fledged relationship with the barista. The struggle is REAL.

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All the time.

But it is all harmless.
 
It happens, but I never met a guy (or a female) for dating by just flirting in some public place. Maybe I am bad at reading signs or none of us two was truelly interested in developing a relationship. :(
 
I met my LTR's by flirting....and more than a few casual hook-ups too when I was much younger.

Dimples probably helped.

Now it is a smiling glance and a nod to let someone know that I think they are hot.

And they think...'isn't that old man being nice.'
 
Yes... with girls :lol:

Must have happened with guys as well but I don't remember any particular episode.
 
I'm smiley, chatty, friendly, and I remember people's names ... almost everyone seems to assume that I am flirting with them. But they are probably also thinking, 'Who the fuck is that old perv, and why is he being nice to me?'.
 
When I worked at the movie theater, I would always flirt with the cute guys with their girlfriends. Also, if a guy was by himself, I worked a little slower at the window and tried to make conversation with him.
 
I've found myself accidentally flirting with guys I like... or I end up saying stupid things and getting nervous around them and things like that. Then I think they think I'm a stupid moron or something.
A co-worker picked up on this many years ago, and once during a conversation he made a comment about me being gay... he was completely accepting, but since I was deep in the closet and scared shitless to let anyone know, I denied it at the time.

(When I first decided to come out, I was scared to even tell a gay guy... looking back, I can't believe I was so scared, and I'm much more relaxed.)
 
It's happened with women with me. I am more conscious and careful in interactions with men.
 
A few times with women who are unaware of my sexuality, and a lot of times with other Gay guys who think that a friendly smile means "I want you to fuck me."
 
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