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Advice. . .First attempt to seduce a straight guy.

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Hey, I don't post much here. I am 19, I am bi and I have never done anything with a guy. I have a best friend who is straight, well he seems straight. I don't think he knows I am bi (I do show feminine signs sometimes but I always talk about girls with him). I told him I was bi one time when we were really drunk but I have no idea if he remembers what i told him. I want to give him a blowjob but I don't know how I should ask him or how to do it. My plan is to do it while we are both drunk. We always go to parties in the same car (either mine or his). So after one of those parties, I am thinking of just popping the question out of nowhere and either go to his place or mine. Would that be the correct way to do it? Or how can I indirectly ask him?

In the case he accepts. . do I just go straight down there? I really want to kiss him and make out with him first and then slowly go down there but I dont' know if a straight drunk guy would want to do that first?

Someone help me out. LOL. :-)
 
My advice wouldn't be what you wanted to hear, so I'll refrain from answering.

Lex
 
- Don't wait to make a move while he's drunk. That's pretty sleazy.
- Alcohol doesn't turn a straight guy gay. Do you have any reason to believe he's bi or gay? If not, you should look for someone else.
 
You're lucky this post is in a no-flame zone ... I am following Lex's lead.

Since when is there a shortage of gay men that we have to now stalk straight guys?

OMG ... I am soooo done with these "I wanna bag a straight guy" threads! #-o
 
What the hell is it with all of these guys trying to 'seduce' straight guys! It baffles me to no end! He's straight, and if he hasn't given you SERIOUS reasons to doubt that, move on to someone who shares the same feelings as you. I see this going in one direction; you getting really hooked and wanting more than he can give.

Give it up dude and find a gay guy!
And stop trying to seduce straight men! That shit can get you hurt (in more ways than one)...
 
Treborf said:
Do you have any reason to believe he's bi or gay? If not, you should look for someone else.
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When we go out I always catch him checking out guys. Or Usually when there is a hot guy passing by he says. ."I think i know that guy" or a comment similar to that, i know that he doesnt know all those guys because he says that too often, he just wants to mention those guys. I am not saying he is gay, because we do talk about girls, but it is usually me bringing up the girls. not him. I have never seen him have a girlfriend and i know him for a good 5-6 years. He is not ugly at all. He is cute and built.
 
Look if you want to know if you have a chance you have to let him know where you stand, and then leave it up to him. You don't have to come on to him or seem threatening in any way. Just a matter of fact "wow that guy is hot!" comment will do. But if you have real reason to believe the guy is straight just don't even go there.

I reiterate what so many others and I have said in the past, if you want to find out if someone is gay you have to be open to them about yourself. Someone has to make the first move and if you are interested enough it will be you.
 
This post wasn't as nice as it should have been, so I kind of deleted it.

I don't think its right for you to do it, but it seems to me like you are pretty set on it... So, good luck and I hope you don't lose your best friend out of it.



P.S. I am SOO with you on that one Rican... And I haven't even bagged a gay guy yet...
 
I don't consider any of your advice to be mean or nothing. I fully understand and now I think I should not do what I was planning on doing. I think i should come out to him first. LOL. .I was going to come out to him (obviously) if did something with him.

Thanks for the advise. I really appreciate it. :)
 
(blinking)...sorry, did I read that right? You're going to...take our advice? And not immediately try to seduce the straight guy?

...I gotta go lie down.

Lex
 
First step for you is to make you self vulnerable. Getting him drunk and then telling him your desires is a way you think will have no consequences because when the hang over ends, last nights events would have gone with it. That is simply not true. Tell him to his face that you are bi, and if u have know him for so long, he will accept it. That is what true and good friends will do. Be honest about your sexuality, then progress to propose experimentation between you two.
 
i have tried that with 2 straight guys when we were drunk on seperate occassions. it didnt work. (no surprise there). the only problem is that i have been crazy about 1 of them for years & cant get him out of my head. he knows I am gay & totally ok with that.. He works at a bar that I frequent which makes it worse cuz I have to see him all the time flirting with girls. My advice is too save yourself the heartache of wanting a straight guy & stick with us gay guys!
 
Good! I hope things work out! You have a best friend and so even if nothing sexual happens between you, you'll at least still have that! I think that is more rewarding in the end!
 
UndieFreak said:
Hey, I don't post much here. I am 19, I am bi and I have never done anything with a guy. I have a best friend who is straight, well he seems straight. I don't think he knows I am bi (I do show feminine signs sometimes but I always talk about girls with him). I told him I was bi one time when we were really drunk but I have no idea if he remembers what i told him. I want to give him a blowjob but I don't know how I should ask him or how to do it. My plan is to do it while we are both drunk. We always go to parties in the same car (either mine or his). So after one of those parties, I am thinking of just popping the question out of nowhere and either go to his place or mine. Would that be the correct way to do it? Or how can I indirectly ask him?

In the case he accepts. . do I just go straight down there? I really want to kiss him and make out with him first and then slowly go down there but I dont' know if a straight drunk guy would want to do that first?

Someone help me out. LOL. :-)
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I really have to agree, if this was a no-flame zone, words would be exchanged. However, dude if he was really your friend, and you really wanted to do this, you would ask his premission instead of violating him while hes drunk and his defenses are down. And second of all, dude you need to have respect for yourself, I hate it when I see guys rush into Sex like its something amazing. Sex is something to be cherished and shared with someone you greatly respect and love (whether be in a relationship or a friendship love), or no matter what the act.

Dude....you need to get over yourself and rethink this whole thing over, cause its wrong.
 
Congrats Undiefreak,

You've made the smartest most intelligent move you could here by deciding not to go through with your plan. More than that you've had the wisdom and inspiration to tell your friend the truth about you....and thats brilliant. Thats the right move and the one you should make.

Friendships are valuable incredible things based on trust and respect - not drunken blowjobs. You'll look back on this decision with relief.

And lastly mate.... congrats on being a guy whos big enough to learn from the advice of others. Theres some incredible guys here on JUB....and some of the best ones have posted right here on your thread. It takes a big sorta guy to listen and to learn. Good on you.
 
Maybe he's curious too. Tell him that you've been looking at porn and came across some bisexual stuff and the two guys were going at it while they were banging the chick. tell him that you thought it was kind of hot. See what he says. Maybe he'll surprise you.
 
Yeh i agree with everyone else... I wouldnt seduce him lol, been there done that and lost a best friend afterwards (we werent drunk though lol).
Tell him how you feel then the ball is in his court.
Let us know how it goes ..|
 
HEY UNDIE, WHAT'S WITH YOU GUYS. YOU'RE PLANING TO GO TO A PARTY WHERE BOTH OF YOU ARE GOING TO GET DRUNK AND STILL ONE OF YOU IS GOING TO BE DRIVING! YOU MIGHT NOT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT HOW YOU ARE GOING TO GET INTO HIS PANTS FOR WITH A LITTLE BAD LUCK YOU MAY BE IN JAIL OR WITH A LOT OF BAD LUCK YOU COULD BOTH BE IN THE CEMETERY.
HOW GOOD IS YOUR FIRST BLOW JOB GOING TO BE IF YOU ARE DRUNK?
I THINK YOU HAVE TO DO A LITTLE GROWING UP PRIOR TO PLANNING YOUR NIGHT OF SEX.
CHANGE YOUR PLAN TO HAVE YOU BOTH SOBER, MAKE SURE HE KNOWS YOU ARE BI/GAY, THAT YOU ARE IN HEAT BAD AND WOULD LOVE IT IF THE TWO OF YOU COULD HAVE A LITTLE SEX. IF HE IS A REAL FRIEND AND ALSO IN HEAT YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE ONE HELL OF A NIGHT. tHE BEST PART IS THAT YOU BOTH ARE GOING INTO IT WITH YOUR EYES OPEN AND YOUR BRAINS READY TO REMEMBER THE FUN YOU HAD.
GOOD LUCK KID AND HAVE FUN.
 
consult28 said:
HEY UNDIE, WHAT'S WITH YOU GUYS. YOU'RE PLANING TO GO TO A PARTY WHERE BOTH OF YOU ARE GOING TO GET DRUNK AND STILL ONE OF YOU IS GOING TO BE DRIVING! YOU MIGHT NOT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT HOW YOU ARE GOING TO GET INTO HIS PANTS FOR WITH A LITTLE BAD LUCK YOU MAY BE IN JAIL OR WITH A LOT OF BAD LUCK YOU COULD BOTH BE IN THE CEMETERY.
HOW GOOD IS YOUR FIRST BLOW JOB GOING TO BE IF YOU ARE DRUNK?
I THINK YOU HAVE TO DO A LITTLE GROWING UP PRIOR TO PLANNING YOUR NIGHT OF SEX.
CHANGE YOUR PLAN TO HAVE YOU BOTH SOBER, MAKE SURE HE KNOWS YOU ARE BI/GAY, THAT YOU ARE IN HEAT BAD AND WOULD LOVE IT IF THE TWO OF YOU COULD HAVE A LITTLE SEX. IF HE IS A REAL FRIEND AND ALSO IN HEAT YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE ONE HELL OF A NIGHT. tHE BEST PART IS THAT YOU BOTH ARE GOING INTO IT WITH YOUR EYES OPEN AND YOUR BRAINS READY TO REMEMBER THE FUN YOU HAD.
GOOD LUCK KID AND HAVE FUN.
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haha, that's what i was thinking. I couldn't keep thinking past the drinking and driving part....but if you're not both drunk, then i hope you're not planning on taking advantage of your friend while his drunk.
 
The chances that this could turn out the way you imagine it might are very slim indeed. Given that 19 is a confusing, horny time with a lot of experimentation and teenage angst going on, your friend is likely to be just as insecure as you are.

Since he identifies as straight and believes you're straight too then the likelihood is that he'll respond with anger, embarrasment and bewilderment if you start any sexual shennanigans with him. If he responds to you, neither of you will be able to play it straight again. If he doesn't respond you'll still be diminished in his eyes. With either scenario your relationship will never be as it was before you made your move.

I can see that you want to know what sucking dick is like, and you probably felt it would be less scary with someone you know. Sometimes it can be better to experiment with someone you don't know well so that you can avoid all the emotional baggage and isolate the physical experience.
 
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