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Advice for Dating a Rich Older Man?

Yeah I don't think you are going to find love in this.

Now, if you're just looking for companionship or a rich daddy to be your fuck buddy, you might find that.
 
TheRain said:
Sigh... let's hope for the best.
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Do you have any idea how ridiculous you sound?

I'm sure your transaction can be quite profitable, but I'm not sure asking for advice on a Relationships forum is going to be much help to you.

Good luck.
 
TheRain said:
@Lube I know I sounded contradictory. I was referring to the fact that many sugar daddy relationships involve just sex/paying for extravagant things, while sometimes the sugar baby rarely sees the daddy and has other real relationships at the same time... whereas he wants a committed relationship. But on his profile (basically a sugar daddy website) he did say he wanted someone to help achieve their goals/dreams. At any rate, whether spoken or not, I think the trade-off is implied. My youth for his financial support. I would like to build something serious around that if possible, but that's the initial setup. He's on the site in the first place so it's not like there's any deception involved.
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OK, Lube is right, you are confused. So basically, this guy has a profile on a "Sugar Daddy" website - right? AND you're getting that it's about him getting your youth for his cash?

Sugar, if that's the deal, you've got a shelf life of about 4 years. Sure he'll buy you nice things and take you places, until you get too old.

You can't build something "permanent" around that arrangement, because by it's very nature it's transient. Now that's not a problem so long as everyone knows what the game is, but really, don't delude yourself into thinking that it's anything other than what it is.

I'm guessing that you met him through this website? You've seen him once. You don't sound like you're in this for the emotion, you have yet to say anything about how you feel that's stronger than "he seems like a nice guy."

Think about what you're doing. Be realistic.
 
TheRain said:
He's mid 50's I'm 21. He was looking for under 30, so I should have some mileage, lol. Not to toot my own horn but I would say not just my youth, but also looks, intelligence, and overall personality/charm. I think something serious can emerge just from 2 people having a lot in common, that they wouldn't otherwise find out without the incentive of this trade-off. It just seals the deal.
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Here, you sound like you're counting on him falling in love with you and stopping chasing young guys for their "Youth."

You've met this guy once. How can you possibly know you have so much in common. You can't.

All you really know is that this guy is looking for a young guy who wants to be kept. That may be a basis for a mutually beneficial "arrangement," but it's a very poor basis for a relationship.
 
Lube, I agree :P

Anyway, just don't treat him like an ATM. Him supporting you through college and you giving him your youth... that doesn't seem like it adds up. I understand he's a multi-millionaire and you're broke, but the relationship wouldn't be anything but full of greed. Sure, you'll be secure, but the love will be based on just because he has money. And then the sugar daddy scenario that Lube pointed out. I think it would just be difficult to have a long-term relationship.
 
TX-Beau said:
OK, Lube is right, you are confused. So basically, this guy has a profile on a "Sugar Daddy" website - right? AND you're getting that it's about him getting your youth for his cash?

Sugar, if that's the deal, you've got a shelf life of about 4 years. Sure he'll buy you nice things and take you places, until you get too old.

You can't build something "permanent" around that arrangement, because by it's very nature it's transient. Now that's not a problem so long as everyone knows what the game is, but really, don't delude yourself into thinking that it's anything other than what it is.

I'm guessing that you met him through this website? You've seen him once. You don't sound like you're in this for the emotion, you have yet to say anything about how you feel that's stronger than "he seems like a nice guy."

Think about what you're doing. Be realistic.
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This is the truth.
 
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