Advice from curious straight...Please read

[JustSomeGuy90]

Hey y'all. I'm new to this forum, and was hoping to get some advice from some of the straight guys that have fooled around with their gay friends.
Let me give a scenario:
I'm an openly gay man, and am currently finishing up my final year of university. Freshmen year I decided to rush, and ultimately pledge for a fraternity. I've made some of the best friends of my life over the past 3 years, and have particularly "fallen" for one of my closest Pledge Brothers. When I say "fallen", I adhere strictly to a sexual sense, rather than romantic (of course I would love that of a romantic relationship with this particular person, though it is completely unrealistic).
We initially got closer at the end of the semester, and eventually lived next to each other the following year. This particular person, let's call him Dave, appears to be entirely comfortable with his sexuality, and is frequently in situations where he is revealing his penis (regardless of whomever is around).
Now, living next to "Dave" definitely provided a strong foundation for our friendship, where we did many social outtings together (with other people, of course). We would often leave our adjoining rooms unlocked, so that each could pass through as they please. One particular evening, I arrived back from class, only to find him "sleeping", shirtless in my bed. The bed was the centerpiece of the room, as my roommate had moved the semester prior and as such, I joined the two beds. Picture a large, King-sized bed. Of course I position myself on the bed, as the oppurtunity seemed to have been throwing itself at me. Naturally, he woke up, and we eventually caught an airing of Titanic.
So we're watching this romantic epic, and I can barely contain myself; "Dave" suggests that I give him a backrub during commercial breaks (I asked for a reciprocated favor, though he shot me down because he "didnt want me to get a boner"). Whatever, just give me your beautiful body, Dave.
If that was the time to make a move, however; then I completely fucking missed it. I was scared to make the first move, and "Dave's" roommate soon walked in to see what the nights evening had in store. Why the FUCK didn't I lock the door?! Anyway, they both left, and I was stuck with a serious case of blue-balls.
The following 2 years saw our friendship remain rather consistent, though there haven't been many other prime situations for another possible move.
ENTER ADVICE
What if I need to make the first move?
How do I make it?
Any suggestions planning the perfect scenario?
There is seriously 3 years of built up sexual tension, and something needs to fucking happen before we graduate.

I turn to you guys. Think you could help a guy out?

 

[Screwdriver4]

Before you start obsessing over what seems to be a typically hetero-priveleged college boy, I think you should revisit your terms - is it "sexual tension" between you two or "sexual desire" on your part? They're extremely different

 

[JustSomeGuy90]

Before you start obsessing over what seems to be a typically hetero-priveleged college boy, I think you should revisit your terms - is it "sexual tension" between you two or "sexual desire" on your part? They're extremely different

Desire, on my part, which creates a bunch of tension for myself.

I know it sounds obsessive, and maybe I am a bit, but there have just been too many red flags for me not to be.

Regardless, though... no advice? There is, I would say, a good 75% chance that I could potentially fool around with this guy; however I'm too reserved to make it a real possibility.

 

[Screwdriver4]

Then there's not a whole lot anyone can say, big guy. Either you go for it or you don't haha

Sorry to say, but you don't learn the spell of magically enchanting straight guys till you get to at least level 75

 

[JustSomeGuy90]

Then there's not a whole lot anyone can say, big guy. Either you go for it or you don't haha

Sorry to say, but you don't learn the spell of magically enchanting straight guys till you get to at least level 75

I want to go for it! I fucking dream about it, but just don't know the best way of going about it. Nothing to recommend, here?

I may have many straight "friends", but I often don't get all of the "bro codes". Shedding light on how to work with those codes is what I need

 

[TommyTrojan]

Wait wait wait...let me get this straight (no pun intended): you guys were in bed together, watching Titanic, he's half naked, he asks you to give him a back rub, he jokes about giving you a boner...and you're wondering if that was your chance to make a move or not?!?!?!

*smacks head against keyboard* repeatedly

I don't know whether "Dave" is actually gay or not, but he definitely seems open to experimentation of some sort. (And hey, isn't that what college is for?!)

Does he have a girlfriend? Does he hook up with girls? Does he ever joke about wanking off or needing pussy or needing a blow job or something? If you really want to take the chance and try messing around with this guy, I would start by trying to turn the conversation to sex. Maybe some night when you're hanging out in the room together, just the two of you. Talk about how you're not getting any or whatever and see how he responds.

If he hasn't dropped hints that he's actually gay, I would stay away from professions of love, kissing him, anything romantic, etc. Keep it about girls, sex in general, jerking off, whatever, and then see how he responds.

Oh vey! You're killing me, Smalls!

 

[talesofabyssjade]

Hey y'all. I'm new to this forum, and was hoping to get some advice from some of the straight guys that have fooled around with their gay friends.
Let me give a scenario:
I'm an openly gay man, and am currently finishing up my final year of university. Freshmen year I decided to rush, and ultimately pledge for a fraternity. I've made some of the best friends of my life over the past 3 years, and have particularly "fallen" for one of my closest Pledge Brothers. When I say "fallen", I adhere strictly to a sexual sense, rather than romantic (of course I would love that of a romantic relationship with this particular person, though it is completely unrealistic).
We initially got closer at the end of the semester, and eventually lived next to each other the following year. This particular person, let's call him Dave, appears to be entirely comfortable with his sexuality, and is frequently in situations where he is revealing his penis (regardless of whomever is around).
Now, living next to "Dave" definitely provided a strong foundation for our friendship, where we did many social outtings together (with other people, of course). We would often leave our adjoining rooms unlocked, so that each could pass through as they please. One particular evening, I arrived back from class, only to find him "sleeping", shirtless in my bed. The bed was the centerpiece of the room, as my roommate had moved the semester prior and as such, I joined the two beds. Picture a large, King-sized bed. Of course I position myself on the bed, as the oppurtunity seemed to have been throwing itself at me. Naturally, he woke up, and we eventually caught an airing of Titanic.
So we're watching this romantic epic, and I can barely contain myself; "Dave" suggests that I give him a backrub during commercial breaks (I asked for a reciprocated favor, though he shot me down because he "didnt want me to get a boner"). Whatever, just give me your beautiful body, Dave.
If that was the time to make a move, however; then I completely fucking missed it. I was scared to make the first move, and "Dave's" roommate soon walked in to see what the nights evening had in store. Why the FUCK didn't I lock the door?! Anyway, they both left, and I was stuck with a serious case of blue-balls.
The following 2 years saw our friendship remain rather consistent, though there haven't been many other prime situations for another possible move.
ENTER ADVICE
What if I need to make the first move?
How do I make it?
Any suggestions planning the perfect scenario?
There is seriously 3 years of built up sexual tension, and something needs to fucking happen before we graduate.

I turn to you guys. Think you could help a guy out?

I say don't do anything with him unless he initiates it. I have a lot of really good friends like this. Most of my fraternity brothers know I'm bisexual by now and for some strange reason it has made them closer to me somehow (they do things that i would deem kinda homoerotic). I can't tell you the number of times my frat brothers have fallen asleep in my bed half dressed or almost nude, either from drinking and coming to my bed bc its the closest one downstairs or just falling asleep talking with me or chillin. I have never EVER tried to make a pass at them though. I don't even put that into my mind. I'd be lying if I said I didn't find some of them attractive but I keep it as innocent as possible. If I let myself obsess/think every little homoerotic thing one of them does while around me as a "opportunity" to play slap and tickle, I'd go crazy. I have about 5 frat bros I'm closer with than all the rest and they ask for back rubs all the time and reciprocate. There's only two guys I fool around with who identifies as "straight" (long time friends) and we've never even gone all the way, mostly mutal jerking and cam'ing girls together maybe the occasional frottage. I say wait for him to make a move, if he's to nervous to do that then you guys shouldn't be fooling around in the first place. Otherwise you come off looking crazy gay friend if you grab his cock while he's trying to get dressed lol.

 

[bw92116]

Get him to think with the wrong head.
Men are explicit and to the point and are rarely offended.
Wait until you are sure he is in a horny mood.
Try, "Hey, want me to suck your dick?"
He'll either say yes or no. Probably yes, if your timing is right.
Make sure to post a picture here afterwards.

 

[checkinthingsout]

Hey man it seems like your friend is definitely might be open to it if the situation is right. You say there havent been many prime opportunities, so go ahead and create one! video games, a movie, working out, drinking games, etc. anything to get him alone with you. after that just be more physical with him. Just dont be creepy about it.

 

[JustSomeGuy90]

I say don't do anything with him unless he initiates it. I have a lot of really good friends like this. Most of my fraternity brothers know I'm bisexual by now and for some strange reason it has made them closer to me somehow (they do things that i would deem kinda homoerotic). I can't tell you the number of times my frat brothers have fallen asleep in my bed half dressed or almost nude, either from drinking and coming to my bed bc its the closest one downstairs or just falling asleep talking with me or chillin. I have never EVER tried to make a pass at them though. I don't even put that into my mind. I'd be lying if I said I didn't find some of them attractive but I keep it as innocent as possible. If I let myself obsess/think every little homoerotic thing one of them does while around me as a "opportunity" to play slap and tickle, I'd go crazy. I have about 5 frat bros I'm closer with than all the rest and they ask for back rubs all the time and reciprocate. There's only two guys I fool around with who identifies as "straight" (long time friends) and we've never even gone all the way, mostly mutal jerking and cam'ing girls together maybe the occasional frottage. I say wait for him to make a move, if he's to nervous to do that then you guys shouldn't be fooling around in the first place. Otherwise you come off looking crazy gay friend if you grab his cock while he's trying to get dressed lol.

I definitely see where you're coming from. My original post was meant to come off as dramatic, as I have gone crazy for this particular kid. If not for anything else, than just sex. Duly noted with your points, though. Thanks

And thanks for the rest of the advice, Boys. I'll post back, when updated